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Pinkrose
07-26-2005, 12:02 AM
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I just wanted to share this simple article with the rest of you!! :sister:



Bite your tongue

Everything we say and do in life has consequences. Just like throwing a stone into a pond, sends ripples across the water affecting all around it. We are free to say and do as we choose but the consequences of our words and actions are our responsibility.

How many times have hasty words been spoken making a wedge between once loving friends or spouses?

Sometimes we think something bad about a person and in anger or when emotions are high, we make those thoughts vocal. If we could have waited a little, these negative thoughts may well have been replaced with more kindly ones.

To speak or act while in a state of anger is really a mistake. It is a good idea to bite your tongue and wait until the next day. If the same level of emotions are present, then speak out, but chances are you will have forgotten why you were angry.


{The good deed and the evil deed cannot be equal. Repel (the evil) with one which is better (i.e. Allah ordered the faithful believers to be patient at the time of anger, and to excuse those who treat them badly), then verily! He between whom and you there was enmity, (will become) as though he was a close friend.} (Sura Fussilat 41:34)

I hope you all understood!! :D

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NooralHaya
07-26-2005, 12:04 AM
good reminder sister. jazakillahu khayr
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TEH
07-26-2005, 12:07 AM
Dont forget to ask for forgiveness if you do say something stupid...

:)
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Pinkrose
07-26-2005, 12:09 AM
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Wa'iyaaki sis NooralHaya!! :D

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NooralHaya
07-26-2005, 12:09 AM
inshaAllah sis =)
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Ra`eesah
07-29-2005, 09:36 AM
Assalamu'Alaykum


Mashallah that was very nice Barakallahfeeki... its simple but hard...but lets try our best to


Speak a GOOD word or, Remain SILENT
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Muhammad
07-29-2005, 09:44 AM
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And not only in our real lives but also on internet forums like this .... Insha'Allaah.

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Ummu Amatullah
08-05-2005, 11:36 AM
Originally Posted by Muhammad
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And not only in our real lives but also on internet forums like this .... Insha'Allaah.

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inshallah we'll try and if not :zip: .
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- Qatada -
08-06-2005, 12:24 PM
Asalam o alikum warahmatulahi wabarakatuh. nice post sis.

Abû Hurayrah relates that a man said to the Prophet (peace be upon him): “Counsel me.” The Prophet (peace be upon him) said: “Do not get angry.” The man repeated his request many times, but the Prophet (peace be upon him) kept saying: “Do not get angry.” [ Sahîh al-Bukhârî ]

Allah describes the God-fearing as those who restrain themselves in anger. He says: “And hasten to forgiveness from your Lord and a garden whose width is that of the heavens and the Earth, prepared for the God-fearing. Who spend in times of ease and times of hardship and who restrain their anger and who pardon people. And Allah loves those who do good.” [ Sûrah `Âl `Imrân : 133-134]

He also says: “And what is with Allah is better and more enduring for those who believe and who rely upon their Lord. And those who avoid the major sins and indecencies, and when they become angry, they forgive.” [ Sûrah al-Shûrâ : 36-37]


The Prophet (peace be upon him) said: “The strong man is not the one who can throw another down. The strong man is the one who can keep hold of himself when he is angry.” [ Sahîh al-Bukhârî and Sahîh Muslim ]

The Prophet (peace be upon him) advised us not to speak when we are angry. He said: “If one of you gets angry, he should be quiet.” [ Musnad Ahmad ]

The Prophet (peace be upon him) gave us other practical advice. He said: “If one of you gets angry and he is standing, then he should sit down until his anger subsides. If it does not, then he should lie down.” [ Sunan Abî Dâwûd ]

He also said: “Anger is from Satan, and Satan was created from fire. Fire is but extinguished by water, so if one of you gets angry, he should perform wudû'.” [ Sûnan Abî Dâwûd and Musnad Ahmad ]


The Prophet (peace be upon him) never acted angrily for personal reasons. He never once so much as raised his voice to his servants or his family. Anas relates that he worked as the Prophet's servant for ten years, and not once did the Prophet (peace be upon him) so much as say “ uff ” to him, or ask him when he did something “Why did you do that?” or ask him when he neglected something: “Why didn't you do that?” [ Sahîh al-Bukhârî and Sahîh Muslim ]

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princezz
08-06-2005, 10:16 PM
metal gear solid 3--lol sowi bro bt i ws tmptd 2 sy it :)
lol i ply dt u kno
newyz bk 2 sub....
wndaful reminda..bt hrd 2 follo.we hve 2 sty docused onda pth of Allah :)
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SalafiFemaleJih
08-07-2005, 02:27 AM
excellent reminder
jaZakaAllah kher for sharing...May Allah swt reward you with Jannah Ameen.

wasalamualaikum wr wb.
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haroon1914
08-07-2005, 04:13 AM
Jazakallah Khair
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Pinkrose
08-07-2005, 08:42 PM
Originally Posted by SalafiFemaleJih
excellent reminder
jaZakaAllah kher for sharing...May Allah swt reward you with Jannah Ameen.

wasalamualaikum wr wb.

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Awww!!
Ameen @ dua!!

Jazaakalah sis!! May Allah do the same with you!! :D

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Pinkrose
08-07-2005, 08:42 PM
Originally Posted by haroon1914
Jazakallah Khair
Wa'iyaakah bro!!
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Uma Rayanah
08-08-2005, 07:28 PM
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Jazaaki Allahu Khairh sis..


Originally Posted by Muhammad
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And not only in our real lives but also on internet forums like this .... Insha'Allaah.

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Indeed Indeed :D

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Protected_Diamond
09-16-2005, 01:22 PM
Originally Posted by Aqib
Asalam o alikum warahmatulahi wabarakatuh. nice post sis.

Abû Hurayrah relates that a man said to the Prophet (peace be upon him): “Counsel me.” The Prophet (peace be upon him) said: “Do not get angry.” The man repeated his request many times, but the Prophet (peace be upon him) kept saying: “Do not get angry.” [ Sahîh al-Bukhârî ]

Allah describes the God-fearing as those who restrain themselves in anger. He says: “And hasten to forgiveness from your Lord and a garden whose width is that of the heavens and the Earth, prepared for the God-fearing. Who spend in times of ease and times of hardship and who restrain their anger and who pardon people. And Allah loves those who do good.” [ Sûrah `Âl `Imrân : 133-134]

He also says: “And what is with Allah is better and more enduring for those who believe and who rely upon their Lord. And those who avoid the major sins and indecencies, and when they become angry, they forgive.” [ Sûrah al-Shûrâ : 36-37]


The Prophet (peace be upon him) said: “The strong man is not the one who can throw another down. The strong man is the one who can keep hold of himself when he is angry.” [ Sahîh al-Bukhârî and Sahîh Muslim ]

The Prophet (peace be upon him) advised us not to speak when we are angry. He said: “If one of you gets angry, he should be quiet.” [ Musnad Ahmad ]

The Prophet (peace be upon him) gave us other practical advice. He said: “If one of you gets angry and he is standing, then he should sit down until his anger subsides. If it does not, then he should lie down.” [ Sunan Abî Dâwûd ]

He also said: “Anger is from Satan, and Satan was created from fire. Fire is but extinguished by water, so if one of you gets angry, he should perform wudû'.” [ Sûnan Abî Dâwûd and Musnad Ahmad ]


The Prophet (peace be upon him) never acted angrily for personal reasons. He never once so much as raised his voice to his servants or his family. Anas relates that he worked as the Prophet's servant for ten years, and not once did the Prophet (peace be upon him) so much as say “ uff ” to him, or ask him when he did something “Why did you do that?” or ask him when he neglected something: “Why didn't you do that?” [ Sahîh al-Bukhârî and Sahîh Muslim ]

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masha Allah beautiful quotes bro jazahka allah khayr :coolsis:
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