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Hamas
05-27-2007, 06:37 PM
Assalamu Alaikum,

Ive been betrayed and im so so hurt...:cry:
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جوري
05-27-2007, 07:01 PM
I am sorry for your troubles akhi... I am not sure how to offer advise on such scanty details, but will tell you this much, whatever doesn't kill you--can only make you stronger...
hang tough...
You'll be in our thoughts and du'a
:w:
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00:00
05-27-2007, 10:57 PM
i think we all been der, take the advice given above.

stay strong my bro. life's a b***, but u gotta stay strong. and mvoe on.
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Woodrow
05-27-2007, 11:07 PM
:w:

The only one who will never betray us is Allah(swt). Every other creation of Allah's(swt) can and will betray us, either deliberatly or through error. Fortunatly most of the time any betrayal is through error, but it still hurts.

Accept the fact you are human and so is the one or more who you feel have betrayed you.

Pray that they may forgive you for not accepting the fact they are frail and have human faults one of which is the ability to betray you. Let them have the chance to forgive you and than you can open your heart to forgive them for their weakness.
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bint_muhammed
05-28-2007, 02:52 PM
join the club! inshallah you'll get over it!
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Ra`eesah
05-28-2007, 03:16 PM
Assalamu'Alaykum

Take a look at this book, its called "Don't be sad". Insha`Allaah few chapters in here could ease your heart and give you peace of mind.



>>http://kalamullah.com/Books/Dont%20Be%20Sad.pdf<<
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afriend
05-28-2007, 03:19 PM
:sl:

No matter who they are, no matter how close. They will for definitely once in your life let you down some how. Everyone except one, upon Him you can base an ultimate trust and he will never let you down. Allah, Lord of the Worlds. :)

:w:
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3isha
05-28-2007, 08:34 PM
:sl:

very sorry to hear this brother
ther's nothing much u can do about it, except pray to Allah and u'll insha-allah feel better.
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chacha_jalebi
05-28-2007, 08:47 PM
salaam

bro dont cryyy :(


listen what ever has happened, there was a reason for it, Allah (swt) chose for it too happen in ya kismat, also in the hadiths it says when your faced with a calamity remmeber Allah (swt) and you will get so much reward, i know its hard yeh, but its happen, its over, like dont think about it, because your most likely to get ya self more upset:D as they say "why cry over split milk" its gone its history, look to the future innit and be happy:D:D

i hope you get your smile back bro :D
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Hamas
05-29-2007, 11:32 AM
Assalamu Alaikum,

JazakAllah to you all for your hospitality.
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Džana
05-29-2007, 12:04 PM
Wa assalamu aleikum wa rahmutallah Hamas

I'm sorry to hear that, I hope you will get over it and get better, inshallah :)

I will always advice you to make duâ, and have trust on Allah when you do it, and inshallah you'll get better soon.

Wa assalamu aleikum wa rahmutallah
Džana
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Camomilla
05-29-2007, 12:14 PM
sorry for what happened to u....
I hope u'll get over It soon, Insha Allah!
peace and always remember Allah(SWT)!
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souloftym
05-29-2007, 12:28 PM
be happy, dnt show them your feelings, dnt blame life, cherish it. life is nothing but a test. pray 2 Allah and w8 patiently. becuz at the end of the tunnel there is light!
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AnonymousPoster
05-29-2007, 12:53 PM
:threadclo
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Hamas
05-30-2007, 08:24 PM
Assalamu Alaikum,

Im so hurt, Im so hurt...
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Kittygyal
05-30-2007, 08:33 PM
Salamualikum.
What happened:?

Stay strong. Move along swiftly. Do dua'ah

Ma'assalama
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Hamas
05-30-2007, 08:41 PM
Im so hurt...
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H4RUN
05-30-2007, 08:42 PM
:sl:

Dude u got 2 threads or sutin?
Anyways, inshaAllah you'll get thru it, make dua..

:w:
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Kittygyal
05-30-2007, 08:42 PM
Salamualikum.
Get over it inshallah. Allah will help you if you help him. Make dua'ah!
Ma'assalama
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Aziaf
05-30-2007, 09:02 PM
:sl::D :sl: :D :sl: :D :sl: :D :sl: :D :sl: :D :sl:

How are you feeling, just wrote this for you, inshallah it will help.

100%

There is 100% hate and feeling of betrayl
this will change to 90% of feeling upset and confused
eventaully 80% will turn into realisation of the event
which will make 70% feel a bit bitter and hopefully theyll repent
but then only 60% will begin to care,
soon only 50% of it will be there
before you know it 40% of you will realise that you strongr than you thought
30% of it will make you stronger and shape you, you will no longer be distraught
20% will then be there for you to ocasionaly wonder
until one day you realsie only 10% is left and then you will ponder
about what happened to that person and if they learnt their lesson.. eventaully too ur pain will lessen
You no longer feel any hate or betryal or hurt anymore
there will be only 1% left in your heart, to remind you about what happened before

we get betrayed
when we get let astray
by those whom we trust

but dont let it hurt you
Allah will see you through
He is the almighty, he is the just...

Make Dua..Ameennnn

Allahuakhbar!

:w: :D :w: :D :w: :D :w: :D :w: :D :w: :D :w:
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Camomilla
05-31-2007, 10:58 AM
Originally Posted by Hamas
Assalamu Alaikum,

Im so hurt, Im so hurt...
come on, don't be sad....
cheer up :)
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Tania
05-31-2007, 11:25 AM
Keep your hands buzy, work work work and you will not feel how upset you are:-[
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Far7an
05-31-2007, 12:27 PM
Was it a girl? If so, I'll give my advice in PM.
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Hamas
05-31-2007, 02:45 PM
Originally Posted by Far7an
Was it a girl? If so, I'll give my advice in PM.
Assalamu Alaikum,

Its fine bro, dont worry, theres nothing you can say that i do not already know or have not already heard but thank you its much appreciated.
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Re.TiReD
05-31-2007, 02:49 PM
:sl: People arnt perfect...I've learnt that the hard way...you're livin in this dunya..prepare to either drown in all the negatives or take strength and focus on the positives...there's no two ways about it.

Allah does not overburden any soul..take care Akhee :w:
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