format_quote Originally Posted by
Encolpius
That's what I said though... I am aware that extramarital sex is haram and suchlike. But I'm afraid that I can't see any similarities between pre-marital intercourse and sex with one's mother, surely the second is far more reprehensible than the first?
Re. having weak knowledge - why not ask your teacher to elaborate on this point and further explain the analogy next time you see him?
Salamualikum.
It's a
HER NOT a
HE :enough!:
anywho.
God willing. I will ask her when i see her again. INSHALLAH
Fornication (zina) means to have sex with anyone while not yet married; there are two types of fornication:
1. An unmarried person who has sex with another unmarried person
2. An unmarried person who has sex with a married person; in this case, it is fornication for the unmarried person but adultery for the married person
[Those who invoke not, with Allah, any other god, nor slay such life as God has made sacred, except for just cause, nor commit fornication; and any that does this (not only) meets punishment (but) the Penalty on the Day of Judgment will be doubled to him, and he will dwell therein in ignominy.] (Al-Furqan 25:68-69)
I hope someone else can find the hadith which states a man who has sexual intercourse with a lady is like having intercourse with his Mam. A'oothubillah.
Maybe i have misunderstood what me Aalimah told me. I don't know if she meant like a man forcing a women to have sex is like having sex with his OWN mam
OR i don't know if she meant it as a man and a women having sex before marriage is like having sex with there OWN mam.
What i
UNDERSTOOD from me Aalimah and the closest hadith to that is:
'an ounce of riba (interest) is like having sex with ones parent''
So to my graduate understanding the hadith clearly means if a women has sex before marriage then it's like her having sex with her papa
AND if a dude has sex before marriage is like having sex with his mam.
sex before marriage is haram - but having sex with ones parents are even more grevious
Allah hu ALim (God knows best)
I will look upon to the God willing an dfind the right answer. I
think she meant
'FORCE' sex
Inshallah i will ask her and get back to you.
For now forgive me if i have said anything bad.
Take care
EDIT: BINGO!!! FINALY GOT SOMEWHERE LOL I FEEL BAD NOW! HMPFFT! JUST CALLED ME AaLIMAH SHE TOLD ME HAVING 'FORCE' SEX IS LIKE HAVING SEX WITH ONES PARENTS. SO FOR THIS ISSUE IF IT'S ABOUT 'FORCE' SEXUAL INTERCOURSE THEN THE DUDE IS LIKE HAVING SEX WITH HIS MAM!!
FORGIVE ME PLEASE!