Originally Posted by Anonymous Tester
Sis i'm happy i could be to your help. As far as your Q's, don't take me wrong and i'm sorri if i upset you, but the best thing is to avoid what you know has the potentiall to grow into something. It all depends on how sure you're about ur decision and if you've truly realized the right and the wrong in this matter.
I know you may not chat to him with the intention of seeing him or wanting to be with him and as you said it's purely for help, but to be honest with you to save yourself from any further pain and confusion and doing anything haram, i would suggest you don't have any kinda contact with him. When you are involved in something it's very hard to reason with yourself and your emotions to get out of it, so the best is not to get into it in the firts place.
I'm sorri if i've upset you and this is only my suggestion, or something maybe i would do if i was in your place. The rest is up to you. I wish you all the best inshAllah. May Allah make things easier 4 u.