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I've been looking for a husband for a while now and just recently I found a brother who seemed perfect for me. He was friendly and talked to me but he never mentioned he wanted to get married. I was just investigating his personality because my mum liked him for me. But now he seems to have done a disappearing act. I've seen him once but we never spoke and I've only talked to him via email. He hasn't replied to my last one and I think I may have....I don't know...scared him off or something. I think I did a little too much investigating. Now I don't know what to do! :(
plz help
wasalaam
Ukhtee are you saying you spoke to the brother yet their was no intention of marriage?
I think firstly its important that if and when you do speak to a brother, you do within reason and necessity. If the reason was marriage then that needed to be stated right from the onset usually by a mahram, so that your talking has purpose and it Inshaa'Allaah serves towards an honourable thing.
Yes perhaps, the brother thought that from your end, you were considering marriage...and maybe from his end he wasn't. Why
did he talk to you?
Or it could just be that he is busy or something??
Allaah knows best and I pray you find a brother who is good for you in this life and the aakhirah-aameen