format_quote Originally Posted by
sumeyye
i dno...do i even make sense? lol...sorry guys.
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Of course you do! I think when one fears Allah(SWT) so much he/she loses hope in the rewards of Allah(SWT) for they think Allah(SWT) can never forgive them for certain things they did or do. Because of this mentaility they go on commiting other sins, thinking that it's doesn't matter what they do anymore as they are destined for hell anyways, so who cares if I do x, y, and z since I am going to hell....
[PIE]Khawf (fear) and rajaa' (hope) complement one another. The similitude of the
heart in its travel to Allah is like a bird. Love is its head, and khawf and
rajaa' are the wings. When the head and both wings are sound, the bird is
capable and skilled in flying. However, when the head is cut off, the bird
will die. When the bird loses a wing, it then becomes a target for every
hunter and predator.The scholars favored, however, the wing of khawf over the
wing of rajaa', especially wh en the person is young and healthy. They
favored the wing of rajaa' over the wing of khawf when the person is about to
leave this world.
Abu Sulaiman said, "The heart ought to have more khawf. When rajaa'
dominates, it ruins it." It was also said, "The best state is to have the
same amount of khawf and rajaa', but to have more love. Love is the boat,
rajaa' is the leader, khawf is the driver, and Allah is the One Who helps
those reach the goal by His Grace and Generosity."
http://www.islamworld.net/khawf.html
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So have Hope in Allah(SWT) mercy.