Assalamu Alaikum
When you know there's fitnah around, just keep your eyes on the path you're walking on, I mean literally. If you feel the necessity to look up then do it quickly and if someone is in your view, move somewhere else or blur them out of your view and focus on what you need to look at, alhemdulilah that our eyes are flexible like that. Eventually, you will dislike looking at such images to the point where you will automatically lower your gaze.
som people would only be ur friends if u were good looking and stuff??
Mentally, I'm assuming those aren't the type of girls (or boys if you're a sis) that you're looking for in marriage, right? So just be patient, beauty isn't everything...on another note, those aren't the type of qualities you're looking for in friends either, and real friends would't care what you looked like either way, even if it were to an extent that you didn't have a face.
sometimes i just wish man **** this life i just wanna die thats how bad it gets somtimes....
Have a life, just don't live it in black and white. Allah subhana wa ta'ala tells us to lower our gaze, not to close our eyes completely nor to stare desirably. Even if we see/do things out of our control (i.e. accidentally), we are forgiven for them. Life will suck, but remind yourself of the purpose, you weren't created for nothing and aren't expected to live life perfectly. Some stones can easily be kicked aside, and others you may have to do a bit of lifting or walking around in order to continue your way, but you shouldn't just stop walking.
i need advice on how i could possibly get mentally stronger so that i dont fear anyone or anything but Allah and i can overcome my desires and the daily strugles in this life man
This may sound stupid, but if you want to be mentally stronger just think without distractions. Put your life into a perspective in which you are able to see all aspects of a problem and its remedies, go online and read some Q&A of problems that you may come across yourself so that you're prepared ahead of time. Also, make du'a with all of your heart (praising allah and blessing the prophet before asking for your needs) and inshallah you'll be a bit stronger than before. Don't expect to be cured in a day and night, be patient and May Allah be with you.
We're all here for you inshallah and may allah increase your taqwah and iman ameen.
fi aman Allah
w'salaam