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AnonymousGender
:sl:i feel sooooo stressed i just started uni and i am looking to have a career change anyways long story cut short instead of doing 3 years at university i am looking at 5:offended::cry: i dont mind it really because i will gain a lot of experience and 2 degrees but with that comes the reality that i am gonna get married late my parents would NEVER allow me to get married until I graduate and have a job:cry::cry:
i am stuck:( make dua plzzzzzzzzzzzzz
things never turn out the way u think they are gna...Allah knowsd best.
I have frends whos parent would 'rather die' than let them get married befor they finished their degrees...everyone says that..ive seen ppl almost cry coz of it...
guess what..it aint upto them...its up to Allah...
relax...and how old are u anyway,,,
take it that ur 18...+5=23....
did u say late????
dude...uve got so much growing to do...so much to learn.a persn starts to socially and intelectually grow at uni/tertiary study/work...
ur gna change so much...and thank god that u didnt get married young...
i am not the person i was wen i finished highschool.ive changed soooo much in every way i can barely recognide myself.really.ive found/developed traits i never knew i had before...
so the older u are, the more developed u get, and thus the more of a practical husband u will find..
if u fall in love along the way, that is Allahs work...and just as he arranged ur heart, he will arrange that of ur parents too...:)
peace.