picky woman rejects 150 proposals

[IbnAbdulHakim]

Serbian Woman Rejects 150 Proposals

November 8, 2007
Benjie Telleron - AHN News Writer

Maskova, Serbia (AHN) - Saying she has not found her Mr. Right yet, a Serbian woman has claimed turning down no less than 150 marriage proposals.

Milunka Dabovic, from Maskova in central Serbia, says she got her first proposal when she was 14 and they have been coming ever since.

"I've had a lot of proposals and some of them won't take no for an answer, they even try to get my mother to try and convince me to accept," says Dabovic who still lives with her mother,

"But the man I marry needs to be handsome and tall, needs to accept life here in our village - and must be a hard worker with a good heart."

http://www.allheadlinenews.com/articles/7009093667

[Muezzin]

Approved, and if you got a message that I edited your post, I just corrected your spelling of 'woman'. 'Women' is plural, man. :p

[IbnAbdulHakim]

^ typo man not intentional :hiding:

[rozeena]

gosh! hw old is she?

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[IbnAbdulHakim]

it doesnt say?

but it seems shes got the right intentions, may Allah guide her to islaam.

She wants someone with a good heart, soounds like a muslim 2 me :p

*no offence to non muslims*

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:salamext:

150!!!!!!!!!! :ooh: Get married already!! :D

[IbnAbdulHakim]

:salamext:

150!!!!!!!!!! :ooh: Get married already!! :D

whoah lets not jump to conclusions, do you know how many fat nasty men there are out there?

for all we know 150 fishes hav proposed to her,

but imagine if a 100 of them were genuine gentlemen... how picky can you get eh :uuh:

[Qurratul Ayn]

:salamext:

Whoa, that womn need to get married soon otherwise some people would start thinking she's liking it just for attention then she won't may not get any proposals.

Whatever Allaah Ta'akla wills.

:salamext:

[InToTheRain]

[B]

"I've had a lot of proposals and some of them won't take no for an answer, they even try to get my mother to try and convince me to accept,"
http://www.allheadlinenews.com/articles/7009093667

She might be getting more then one proposal from the same man :ooh:

[~Taalibah~]

:sl:
150 proposals!?:ooh:

I guess if they all weren't right acc the Islamic shariah then thats good and i'm sure when the time is right Allah Ta'aala will give her, her Mr Right. But if it was small things:-\? No one's perfect after all!

[ahsan28]

She might be intersted in setting a record :D

[------]

:salamext:

And wasting her life?

[Umm Hurairah]

Asalaamualaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatu,

You can't blame her man she's supposed to live with her Prince Charming for the rest of her life.

Plus the people of these dayz aren't exactly to die for. ^o) But its good that she's living with her mommy. :D

[------]

:salamext:

Hey! People of today aren't that bad... :D ... depends on where u look :p [n someone put the msn :-P smiley back on please!]

[IbnAbdulHakim]

Asalaamualaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatu,

But its good that she's living with her mommy. :D

Assalamu Alaikum wa Rahmatullah

but shes non-muslim, i heard the non-muslim parents like their "space" lol, its funny because my somali friend said his dad told him he will get kicked out as soon as his married, whereas i know my mum would never want us to live, funny huh?

[Umm Hurairah]

:salamext:

Hey! People of today aren't that bad... :D ... depends on where u look :p [n someone put the msn :-P smiley back on please!]

Asalaamualaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatu,

It's true the women of today are awesome but can't say the same for the men. :skeleton:

"Depends on where you look" - yeah man good point and the best way to start is da Meddresah. :statisfie :-[ :X

Assalamu Alaikum wa Rahmatullah

but shes non-muslim, i heard the non-muslim parents like their "space" lol, its funny because my somali friend said his dad told him he will get kicked out as soon as his married, whereas i know my mum would never want us to live, funny huh?

Waalaikumusalaam Warahmatulahi Wabarakatu,

My mother is crying right now 'cuz she's sad me and my sis will be leaving and she is calling me her lil angel. :embarrass I wonder the last time she called me that...:?

lol but it's true there is this convert woman I know and Masha Allah she's a student and her parents don't support her kid and family at all, they say she's "on her own" but Alhamdulillah the husband's father who's a born Muslim help both of them with their studies while we baby-sit the lil pumpkin. :D:D:D

[Al-Zaara]

Selam aleykum,

lol When I visited my country during the summer, lots of proposals came... And before I had never in life gotten one, subhanAllah.
A few times more stopping by there, and I might aswell understand that lady. :enough!: It depends where you look... Really!!


150 is though a lot, if it would be 50 to 70 then I'd understand... Wow... 150 men weren't good enough... But she said some wouldn't take no for an answer, maybe same person proposed a few times... ?

[IbnAbdulHakim]

Selam aleykum,

maybe same person proposed a few times... ?

someone already suggested that lol,

and im sure its a 150 different ones, or else this is a real pathetic cry for attention lol

assalamu alaikum wa rahmatullah

[Al-Zaara]

someone already suggested that lol,

and im sure its a 150 different ones, or else this is a real pathetic cry for attention lol

assalamu alaikum wa rahmatullah

Why pathetic? She may just make a World Record and gain money.. :D That's not pathetic, that's smart. :D But on the other hand...

Or she challenges the guys out there and by that gets more proposals and by that might just find Mr.Right...

Nah, I don't care. Also, that site looks dodgy. ^o) lol

[IbnAbdulHakim]

^ there were two sources, i chose this source, and now its dodgy *sighs*

i would smack my forehead but i done that too many times already, a sigh will have to suffice

Assalamu Alaikum wa Rahmatullah

[~Taalibah~]

People can go through a lot just to get to the top!

:salamext:

Hey! People of today aren't that bad... :D ... depends on where u look :p [n someone put the msn :-P smiley back on please!]

You are right there, but the question is how are you going to know where...:D^o)

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:salamext:

i would smack my forehead but i done that too many times already, a sigh will have to suffice

Yo! thats my ting!!!

You are right there, but the question is how are you going to know where..

Look inside your heart....and you'll find them :) (I'm serious, You'll know)

[IbnAbdulHakim]

:salamext:

Look inside your heart....and you'll find them :) (I'm serious, You'll know)

so if i looked into my heart i'll automatically find the right partner without searching around?? lol stop reading shakespear ;D

[Umm Hurairah]

Asalaamualaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatu,

It's true people! When you find your Prince/Princess then you will practically fly over da moon (not that I'm talking from experience of course *outta*)

[------]

so if i looked into my heart i'll automatically find the right partner without searching around?? lol stop reading shakespear ;D

:salamext:

Thy is NOT reading shakespeare, they doth not like shakespeare :blind:

You KNOW what I mean man.... *rollseyes* [i want that smiley bak az wel!]

[DaNgErOuS MiNdS]

They guy proposing must have been a pest.

[~Taalibah~]

:salamext:



Yo! thats my ting!!!



Look inside your heart....and you'll find them :) (I'm serious, You'll know)

I guess if the person comes to you/proposes then you can look in your heart, but you can just look in your heart and find the right person?!^o):? Still i dont know, its hard to know who's fooling and who's not...

[IbnAbdulHakim]

^ Assalamu Alaikum

Still i dont know, its hard to know who's fooling and who's not...

the person whos not fooling will make it clear that they want to marry you as soon as possible, the person who is fooling will delay the marriage as soon as possible

[~Taalibah~]

^ Assalamu Alaikum



the person whos not fooling will make it clear that they want to marry you as soon as possible, the person who is fooling will delay the marriage as soon as possible

Not always. I know of 2/3 ppl who's lives were messed up with marriage. They act very holy before getting married but after its totally different. being married for a month+ someone's husband only came home for supper ONCE! But i know there are good ppl out there...

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:salamext:

**STAY SINGLE** - Love ain't worth the pain..

[IbnAbdulHakim]

Not always. I know of 2/3 ppl who's lives were messed up with marriage. They act very holy before getting married but after its totally different. being married for a month+ someone's husband only came home for supper ONCE! But i know there are good ppl out there...

see its stuff like this that makes me think its better to get married back home (in bangladesh)


not saying that bangladesh doesnt have its fair share of blah but meh :-\


Assalamu Alaikum

[Umm Hurairah]

:salamext:

**STAY SINGLE** - Love ain't worth the pain..

Asalaamualaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatu,

That's not alwayz the situation. Plus I think completing half my deen will be worth it Insha Allah.

[Al-Zaara]

Not always. I know of 2/3 ppl who's lives were messed up with marriage. They act very holy before getting married but after its totally different. being married for a month+ someone's husband only came home for supper ONCE! But i know there are good ppl out there...

Yupp. You gotta be reaaal careful, seriously.

And actually I recommend to go for someone whom your parents and friends know... Because they kinda know and see how that person is and acts, when he/she is not around you...

[IbnAbdulHakim]

:salamext:

**STAY SINGLE** - Love ain't worth the pain..

Assalamu Alaikum wa Rahmatullah

if you dont get married and do haraam acts such as excessive intermingling then how can you expect the hardships to be worth it?

Marriage is the foundation required to make the love work in harmony

[~Taalibah~]

Asalaamualaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatu,

That's not alwayz the situation.

Thats true! Allah Ta'aala will show us the right person when the time comes, Insha'Allah.

[IbnAbdulHakim]

huge reminder::::

the worst thing to be is pessimistic >!!


Assalamu Alaikum wa Rahmatullah

[Cognescenti]

.......
Matchmaker, Matchmaker,
Make me a match,
Find me a find,
catch me a catch
Matchmaker, Matchmaker
Look through your book,
And make me a perfect match


Matchmaker, Matchmaker,
I'll bring the veil,
You bring the groom,
Slender and pale.
Bring me a ring for I'm longing to be,
The envy of all I see.

......

[jzcasejz]

Lol, what a funny lady...

"But the man I marry needs to be handsome and tall, needs to accept life here in our village - and must be a hard worker with a good heart."

Yeah, okay! Anything else? :rollseyes

[~Taalibah~]

Yupp. You gotta be reaaal careful, seriously.

And actually I recommend to go for someone whom your parents and friends know... Because they kinda know and see how that person is and acts, when he/she is not around you...

Todays time this is not always the situation. Talking from experience i know that some boys/girls will act very good in front of certain adults and are completely different when they are with ppl their own age. They hide and do all the wrong then the parents think that this person is good, because they dont know whats happening! The kids their age knows because they dont care to hide it from them.

[~Taalibah~]

huge reminder::::

the worst thing to be is pessimistic >!!

I agree 100% with that!

[Al-Zaara]

Todays time this is not always the situation. Talking from experience i know that some boys/girls will act very good in front of certain adults and are completely different when they are with ppl their own age. They hide and do all the wrong then the parents think that this person is good, because they dont know whats happening! The kids their age knows because they dont care to hide it from them.

But that's why I said you're friends should also know him/her well, or some friend's friend... :D Good points!

[~Taalibah~]

But that's why I said you're friends should aslo know him/her well, or some friend's friend... :D Good points!

Ooops! Sorry sis! I missed the friends part!

[جوري]

people should leave the poor woman alone..perhaps she has her reasons?...can she get through this without making headlines? It is her business..

:w:

[Lina]

:sl:

Agreed^

[IbnAbdulHakim]

people should leave the poor woman alone..perhaps she has her reasons?...can she get through this without making headlines? It is her business..

:w:

now i feel guilt


if someone can please close this thread, i think we owe it to this lady


assalamu alaikum wa rahmatullah

[جوري]

I am sorry akhi -- I didn't mean you at all..Just I am sure people are the best judge of their own circumstance..I am afraid when we speak of her in a negative light we cast doubt on another human being question their reasoning and maybe even stab their integrity..I don't know if this woman is Muslim or not?.. but just think we should make life easier on one another not subject each other to taunt and ridicule..I never meant you by my comment.. and I know the numbers are shocking.. I just would rather she didn't make the news at all..

waslaam 3lykoum wr wb

[IbnAbdulHakim]

^ no i understand what u meant,

sometimes i use to get a shock when a celebrity would get on the news for eating a cockroach in a burger or silly stuff like that, i dont know why that logic never surfaced on this occasion.

I certainly wouldnt like to be on the news if i rejected 150 proposals, so i understand perfectly, and wallahi i appreciate your comment, if i had a rep it would have been on your way !


Assalamu Alaikum wa Rahmatullah

[جوري]

Jazaka Allah khyran akhi..
I am sorry again.. I can see where the story is amusing on a level-- but I didn't mean to make you feel uncomfortable in the process!

waslaam 3lykoum wr wb
M

[snakelegs]

sometimes the strangest things show up in "world affairs"! ;D

[barney]

Mayby she's lesbian but dosnt want to admit it?

If not then no big deal. Lots of people choose partnership instead of marrige these days anyway

[Al_Imaan]

sometimes the strangest things show up in "world affairs"! ;D

lol...u never know wat's gonna come next. this lady is sooo picky...unless she has better excuses...

[Tania]

Where did she found 150 men in the village :? Are the villages so big :-[

[جوري]

this reminds me of the movie, my big fat Greek wedding ...I hope she gets what she is looking for though..

[ranma1/2]

hey, i say dont get married till you are ready.

[~Taalibah~]

:sl:
I don't think we meant to criticize her but rather amazed that someone could get 150 proposals and still not be married. Many of us said that she probably has her reasons why. Shows that no matter what, you will only get what is meant for you.
But then i know what you are trying to say...

PurestAmbrosia
Jazaka Allah khyran akhi..
I am sorry again.. I can see where the story is amusing on a level-- but I didn't mean to make you feel uncomfortable in the process!

waslaam 3lykoum wr wb
M
8 Hours Ago 02:25 AM
IbnAbdulHakim
^ no i understand what u meant,

sometimes i use to get a shock when a celebrity would get on the news for eating a cockroach in a burger or silly stuff like that, i dont know why that logic never surfaced on this occasion.

I certainly wouldnt like to be on the news if i rejected 150 proposals, so i understand perfectly, and wallahi i appreciate your comment, if i had a rep it would have been on your way !


Assalamu Alaikum wa Rahmatullah
8 Hours Ago 02:22 AM
PurestAmbrosia
I am sorry akhi -- I didn't mean you at all..Just I am sure people are the best judge of their own circumstance..I am afraid when we speak of her in a negative light we cast doubt on another human being question their reasoning and maybe even stab their integrity..I don't know if this woman is Muslim or not?.. but just think we should make life easier on one another not subject each other to taunt and ridicule..I never meant you by my comment.. and I know the numbers are shocking.. I just would rather she didn't make the news at all..

waslaam 3lykoum wr wb
8 Hours Ago 02:05 AM
IbnAbdulHakim
Quote:
Originally Posted by PurestAmbrosia View Post
people should leave the poor woman alone..perhaps she has her reasons?...can she get through this without making headlines? It is her business..

now i feel guilt