I traded purity for dirt

[victoris7]

:sl:

Hi there everyone. I know a lot of people my age are very sexually active and are in need of it. I experienced a troublesome situation recently. I am under a lot of pressure to be with a girl.

I tried to be patient and marry a Muslim girl because that is the right thing to do. I kept on being patient I even dated girls without trying to convince them to have sex with me, I wanted to take it easy and just do the right thing. Girls seem to be very aggressive and dominant these days, they want a man in control who spends his money and be a master in bed. Muslim girls disappointed me too they became the same as Americans so i felt trapped.

There is no priceless love, I will have to pay for it and what I pay for is what I get. this whole thing let me to engage myself with a prostitute because i didn't know what to do.

Ifeel ashamed, i lowered myself down, and I have to worry about STD's now too. Pray for me

[Grace Seeker]

Victoris,

You can't undue the past, but you don't have to be bound by it for the future. You continue to have the power to make either righteous choices or unrighteous ones. The key is to recognize that the choice actually is yours to make. Make the one you are wanting to live with before God.

Praying that you will find the guidance to choose wisely.


Peace.

[جوري]

vic-- Take a cold shower... winter has a disinfecting quality about it... head out to borders or B&N get yourself some books, some nice stationary , a cup o coffee and a new lease on life, busy yourself with your studies not with your hormones, join a gym..finish your university work, go to grad school, get a decent education, make some money, marry some enlightened woman. stop hanging around the people you are hanging around with, else you'll have the same problems daily..the way I see it is, it is really up to you...you have the free will and choice to live and worship as you please, no one has you on a leash, and Allah's mercy is infinite, it is only up to you to be sincere..

:w:

[aadil77]

:sl:

bro, may Allah help you, ameen. I would probably feel the same if i was living in america, thats america for you the shaytaans playground.

And yh the sis is right take cold showers, hot weather ups hormones, so keep cool

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[Tania]

I could not understand exactly why you could not get married :-[

[aadil77]

I could not understand exactly why you could not get married :-[

because he was recieving threats

[Kittygyal]

have a bath and stay calm and relax. Marriage is not always the bomb, but then again better than a sin. Although you need to think that nowadays people gyals/boys tend to get what they want but never re-think about sharing love. Love hurts but just wait till God gives you a pious gyal/man