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Sister X
From personal experience the first week after a meeting, without having heard anything, is heart rendering and extremely hard to bear. It’s not like you’ve been rejected because you don’t have the right qualifications – you’ve been rejected as a person – and so you end up taking it personally. imsad
what do ya mean be rejected as a
person? sounds simple enough, but i dont get it :hiding:
I’m sure it doesn’t take days or weeks to decide whether you want to pursue things. Most people tend to make their minds up during the first meeting.
obviously marriage is a big decison, and with some people, one meeting is not sufficient, and sometimes it may take a few days and/or weeks. im not sure how many weeks your thinking, but i know someone who took about 3 months:X (whilst still indicating that they were interested):sunny:
From what i have seen sis is that all rejections are closed via a polite phonecall (rejections of proposals).
actually akhee, unfortunatley some people really do never reply back...
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