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Ummu Sufyaan
12-16-2007, 12:00 PM
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how do you go about advicing someone who has a really bad habit of interputing and taking over peoples 'turns' when they speak to be a little more considerate and respectful....
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Ummu Sufyaan
12-20-2007, 11:09 AM
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IbnAbdulHakim
12-20-2007, 11:12 AM
Assalamu Alaikum

take them to a side, and say,

"i understand your intention and its noble may Allaah reward you for it, but it would be better to do it in a softer manner whilst paying clearer heed."

just an example, but say advise in your own words in a gentle manner. Its not too hard, its really easy to advise people if you have a smile on your face... for me when i smile at someone it seems as though they are completely relaxed. Then we can both freely speak, this allows for easy interraction/advice etc.


hope that makes sence, the sunnah of smiling is a great sunnah mashaAllaah

Assalamu Alaikum
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