Asalaamualaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatu,
This makes me so mad! Just because of your culture! Goodness! Seriously man!
Be patient Insha Allah. Have you offered istikhara prayer? If not, then you should do it A.S.A.P.!
If the istikhara is positive then Insha Allah make tons of duaa and tell the dude to offer istikhara prayer as well.
If it's negative then you will both have to move on. There is a better person for you out there and Insha Allah you will find him soon.
"Be sure we shall test you with something of fear and hunger, some loss in goods or lives or the fruits (of your toil), but give glad tidings to those who patiently persevere." (2:155)
"What is with you passes away and what is with Allah is enduring; and We will most certainly give to those who are patient their reward for the best of what they did." (16:96)
Allah's Apostle (SA) said, "No calamity befalls a Muslim but that Allah expiates some of his sins because of it, even though it were the prick he receives from a thorn." (Al-Bukhari)