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Umu 'Isa
11-25-2005, 02:08 PM
:sl:
How many kids do you have? or how many do you want?
what are their names, ages?
what would you like to name them?

I don't have any yet but i would like 3 or 4
i love the names abdul-malik and jehad for a boy
and humayra and jannah for a girl
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~Raindrop~
11-25-2005, 02:29 PM
salaam
dont have any kids but love the name Yusuf. and i used to love the name juwairiyyah so i named my cousin 5 years ago....iv been regretting it;)
wassalam
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Ameeratul Layl
11-25-2005, 02:42 PM
:sl:

Ahem...okay, I dont have any YET....:-\
but....if I do have any children (inshAllah...inshAllah).
I want:11-21

Boys names:
Abu zar
Abdallah
Sufyaan
Fahd
Foad
Ahmad
Muhammad
and many more...

Girls names:
Buthaynah
Ameerah

Wallah!the list goes on and on....

But, im sure u get the jist...there are going to be alot.inshAllah.

Allah ma3akum
Raniyah
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~Raindrop~
11-25-2005, 02:54 PM
Originally Posted by Ameeratul Layl
:sl:

[B]Ahem...okay, I dont have any YET....:-\
but....if I do have any children (inshAllah...inshAllah).
I want:11-21
wallah! *faints*
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Ameeratul Layl
11-25-2005, 02:55 PM
Originally Posted by aisha
wallah! *faints*

:sl:
lol. calm down...I love kids.

Allah ma3ik..lol.lol.
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~Raindrop~
11-25-2005, 02:58 PM
awwww, so do i.
wassalam.
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baby_muslimah15
11-25-2005, 04:12 PM
Salaamz, wooow Ameeratul Layl(u got me beat) I only want 2-3 kidz

Boyz- Jihad, Raheem, Hajji, Abdul-Zhair,Yaseen...Etc

Gitlz- Amatullah, Yasmeen, Aisha, Talibah

I love kids soooooo much(I plan 2 have twins and a single child.
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libyanhero
11-25-2005, 04:18 PM
Well I want 50 lol kidding but I do love kids alot

Allahu A3lam if I get 50 lol

anyways Boy names, Hamza, Ahmed, Hasan

I don't know I like girl names lol maybe because I am a guy so I am ready to name my girls: Zainab, Noor/Nura, Mariam, Asma, Hiba, Hanan, Ruqaya.....
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~Raindrop~
11-25-2005, 04:20 PM
Originally Posted by libyanhero
Well I want 50
salaam
you would.;)
wassalaam
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habib
11-25-2005, 04:22 PM
i don't have kid ..
i would like to have .. erm ... 6 or 7 Insha Allah

boyzzzzzzzzz ...
Abdullah, Abdur Rahman, Omar, Ali, Uthman, Swaleh,

girlss ..
Sophia, Fatimah, Aisha, Juwairiyyah, Aasma, Sumaiya
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baby_muslimah15
11-25-2005, 04:23 PM
Originally Posted by libyanhero
Well I want 50 lol kidding but I do love kids alot

Allahu A3lam if I get 50 lol

anyways Boy names, Hamza, Ahmed, Hasan

I don't know I like girl names lol maybe because I am a guy so I am ready to name my girls: Zainab, Noor/Nura, Mariam, Asma, Hiba, Hanan, Ruqaya.....
Wooow(50) loool...Anywayz I know alot of girls with these names...And I know sumbody name Hamza....Good choices
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libyanhero
11-25-2005, 04:24 PM
Originally Posted by aisha
salaam
you would.;)
wassalaam
lol if I could, I love those little cuties
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~Raindrop~
11-25-2005, 04:25 PM
Originally Posted by libyanhero
lol if I could, I love those little cuties
salaam
who doesnt?
salaam
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libyanhero
11-25-2005, 04:27 PM
Originally Posted by aisha
salaam
who doesnt?
salaam
Actually some people get annoyed from them but I just wish there were always babies when there mine, now I know how mothers feel partially
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baby_muslimah15
11-25-2005, 04:31 PM
Hmmm, kids can get on your nerves if their really bad....But you still gotta love em.....The 1 thing I dont get is how a kid can be soo bad and the mother just be like awww she/he is sooo cute......I mean what the heck...Hollaz
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~Raindrop~
11-25-2005, 04:32 PM
salaam
well most ppl love kids...including me. its impossible not to. i live with around 6 everyday, and then at gatherings we get ab 20. theyre just so cuuuuuuuuuute. even tho mothers get seriously annoyed sometimes they love the kids at heart...am i making sense?
wassalaam
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Bittersteel
11-25-2005, 04:32 PM
I would like to have sons.

My favorite name is Abrarur,its sounds excellent MashAllah.
ITs the BEST name there is.

How about this,Abrarur Rahman,Jr?
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sapphire
11-25-2005, 04:32 PM
dont have kids yet..coz not married...
dont know how many i want...inshallah what Allah gives me i will be happy with....
but inshallah....

for boys...Zakarriya and Hamza...

and girls....my husbands choice so havnt really thought....
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~Raindrop~
11-25-2005, 04:33 PM
Originally Posted by Abrar
I would like to have sons.

My favorite name is Abrarur,its sounds excellent MashAllah.
ITs the BEST name there is.

How about this,Abrarur Rahman,Jr?
im started to get worried about you....
wassalaam
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Mrs A
11-25-2005, 05:00 PM
I have 1 son called Zakaria and hope god blesses me with a few more children. We had a really hard time picking a name because we both come from different countires and liked different names. I like names of prophets so would like Solomon or Noah for another boy (don't know what Mr A thinks though!!)
I also liked Zain or Zainudeen thought it had nice meaning - friend of religion.
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Bittersteel
11-25-2005, 05:09 PM
im started to get worried about you....
wassalaam
wow!someone actually is worried about me.....lol.

I was kidding.I also like the names Aziz ,Salahuddin.There are so many more.
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~Raindrop~
11-25-2005, 05:12 PM
Originally Posted by Abrar
wow!someone actually is worried about me...
dont push it, dear bro
wassalaam
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~Raindrop~
11-25-2005, 05:22 PM
salaam
n i like the name maleeha.and talha...if i gave the whole list i'll be here all nite....
wassalaam
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habib
11-25-2005, 05:24 PM
i like the name .. Noor Muhammad and Saifollah (slave of Allah)
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*charisma*
11-25-2005, 05:25 PM
Assalamu Alaikum

i need to the first step before going thinking bout the next lol

buttttttttttt.....
i honestly dont care how many kids i have as many as my husband wishes, but inshallah i would like my first child to be a boy if Allah so grants me one :)

names:

for a boy
Ahmad, Iyas, Anas...
Abdel Hakeem, Abdel Wakeel

for a girl
Malak, Kamar, Noor

fi aman Allah
w'salaam
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Bittersteel
11-25-2005, 05:34 PM
Fahd,just like in King Fahd Bin Abdul Aziz.
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- Qatada -
11-25-2005, 05:37 PM
Originally Posted by habib
i like the name .. Noor Muhammad and Saifollah (slave of Allah)
Salaam o 'alykum warahmatulahi wabarakatuh.


wow good choices bro masha Allaah. :) but saifAllaah means 'sword of Allaah subhanahu wa ta'aala' and Abdullah means 'slave of Allaah subhanahu wa ta'aala' insha Allaah.


i would want the sons to have:

Abdullah, Muhammad, Mujahid.. gota think more about othaz yet insha Allaah.


daughterz:

Fatima, Zaynab, um-kalthum, Ruqaya.. still gota think of more.


but all these are just some i thought over yet, insha Allaah.

wa Salaam o 'alykum warahmatulahi wabarakatuh.
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Zuko
11-25-2005, 05:39 PM
:sl:

If I have kids, I'd want at most, 4... Kids are cute when they're chubby babies... And I want all girls or at most one boy (they're annoying, no offense)

If I have boys, I'd name them, Abdul-Wahhab, Abdul-Hakeem, Zakariya, Salman, Yusuf (my favorite), Mustapha, Aladdin ( ;) ), Ayman, Dawud, Faris, Hakeem, Haroon, Idris, Ishaq, Ja'far, Jibreel, Luqman, Mu'awiyah (lol, would suit him well), Musa, Nadhir, Abdullah, Sulaiman... I think that's it for boys....

For girls: Abir, Adibah, Khadijah, Karima, Asiya, Asma', Hedaya (after my friend :wub: ), Hana', Huriyya (love the sound of that), Jamila, Aaliyah, Leyla, Leena, Nabilah, Noor, Qurratul-Ain (after another friend :wub: ), Safiyyah (one of my favorites), Samah (after another friend), Wafiyyah, and Zakiyyah... And that's it for my girls... And of course, dena... ;)

:w:
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habib
11-25-2005, 05:42 PM
Originally Posted by akhee

Salaam o 'alykum warahmatulahi wabarakatuh.


wow good choices bro masha Allaah. :) but saifAllaah means 'sword of Allaah subhanahu wa ta'aala' and Abdullah means 'slave of Allaah subhanahu wa ta'aala' insha Allaah.


i would want the sons to have:

Abdullah, Muhammad, Mujahid.. gota think more about othaz yet insha Allaah.


daughterz:

Fatima, Zaynab, um-kalthum, Ruqaya.. still gota think of more.


but all these are just some i thought over yet, insha Allaah.

wa Salaam o 'alykum warahmatulahi wabarakatuh.

bro, thank you .. :peace:
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Halima
11-25-2005, 08:09 PM
:sl: Let's remain on topic. :w:
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Mainul_Islam
11-26-2005, 05:56 AM
assalaamu alaikum,

uhh.... :uuh: i think i'll decide after i get married...

but as for now, i would like to name the boys after Prophets' names and girls after the names of righteous women among the Prophets
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UmmKhadi
11-26-2005, 06:06 PM
Salaam aleikum

I have three kids. Malika is 7, my son Sofiane is almost 6 yrs old, and little Khadija she is 11 months old.

Its hard work, but alhamdulillah, so nice.
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UmmKhadi
11-26-2005, 06:10 PM
And, if inshaAllah we will have another child, names that are on the list are:

Imran, Ameer for boy, and Sumaya, Ameera, somthing like that, for girls.

And we need a short, Norwegian name without meaning or a name of a Prophet or something, to add, since the law here require that Norwegian kids with weird names add another normal name to it. So we think about something like Noah Imran or something, and use Imran in daily life.

The other kids got double names too, Malika Lina, Sofiane Emil, and Dina Khadija.
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sapphire
11-26-2005, 06:14 PM
aww..thats sad..you have to add other names on...may Allah bless you with children Ameen....i thought about the girl names: i like khadija and Aisha....and my Grandma wants to name my boy children Zakariyya and Yahya i just found out!!!and im not even married..but inshallah...lets see what happens in the future.....
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*charisma*
11-26-2005, 06:22 PM
Assalamu Alaikum

Salaam aleikum

I have three kids. Malika is 7, my son Sofiane is almost 6 yrs old, and little Khadija she is 11 months old.

Its hard work, but alhamdulillah, so nice.
aww mashallah..May all innocent children stay under Allah's eyes and may he continue to protect them ameen...

fi aman Allah
w'salaam
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UmmKhadi
11-26-2005, 06:47 PM
Originally Posted by sapphire
aww..thats sad..you have to add other names on...may Allah bless you with children Ameen....i thought about the girl names: i like khadija and Aisha....and my Grandma wants to name my boy children Zakariyya and Yahya i just found out!!!and im not even married..but inshallah...lets see what happens in the future.....
Salaam aleikum

Well, its okay by me that they have to have two names. Maybe later, when they grow up, they can use the Norwegian name when they apply for jobs hehe... Even if they dont have Norwegian family-name two of them (two oldest are half Algerians, but youngest is Norwegian ).

We use the "muslim" names anyway, only few people in my family in law who cant pronounce Khadija lol. They say Dina. Its okay by me.
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Hisbul_Aziz
11-26-2005, 07:21 PM
Originally Posted by *charisma*
Assalamu Alaikum



aww mashallah..May all innocent children stay under Allah's eyes and may he continue to protect them ameen...

fi aman Allah
w'salaam
what about un innocent children???what about them cause my cuz kids are not innocent lol:offtopic:
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UmmKhadi
11-26-2005, 07:34 PM
Anyone who had a 6-7 yrs old girl in the house, knows that kids are not innocent.
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sapphire
11-26-2005, 07:37 PM
got a bro who is 6..he's playing shooting around the whole house with my nephew...i have got a headache...who said kids are innocence (according to my family i was the most innocent and well behaved kid as a child out of all the grandchildren)

(Riel stop bullying me)
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Hisbul_Aziz
11-26-2005, 08:01 PM
Originally Posted by UmmKhadi
Anyone who had a 6-7 yrs old girl in the house, knows that kids are not innocent.
well spoken
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baby_muslimah15
11-26-2005, 08:03 PM
Looool...My lil cousin use to do da same thing...Except I use to shoot with him, it was fun untill he kept killing me so I decided to quit....But yea kids are inocent just sumtimes you wanna pull your hair out....Wait all da time that is....Hollaz
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mahdisoldier19
11-28-2005, 12:40 AM
Salam


Heheheh atleast 5 or 10 kids ahem *coughs* come on whats there to laugh about thats a proper way because more children more people take care of ya,

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Safa
11-28-2005, 01:32 AM
Nope, I don't have any kids. But I don't think their much of a pain unless you have more than one to handle. I don't mind taking care of them though even though they can be a handful of work.
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Bint-Al-Islam
11-28-2005, 01:37 AM
As-salam alekum wr wb..
Mahdisoldiers19 ur off topic.. U should keep that opnion to ur self.. no need to share it on Public..
Think of something better to say InshaAllah..
Walekum-salam wr wb
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Halima
11-28-2005, 02:20 AM
:sl: Please stay on topic....:w:
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Sanobar
11-28-2005, 09:19 AM
salam!
hmm....well for girlz....i guess falak,dania,mehwish,maha,eisha,sana!

boys.....osama ;),abdAllah,dawood,sulaiman,yusuf,ammar...i love this one...! :):)
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Ameeratul Layl
11-28-2005, 10:38 AM
[QUOTE=libyanhero;117433]Well I want 50 lol kidding but I do love kids alot

Allahu A3lam if I get 50 lol

:sl:
lol. subhanAllah....im told I am the weird person in the world.....going on about having 11-21......lol.
br...thansk you for changing that!!


Allah ma3akum
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~Raindrop~
11-28-2005, 10:40 AM
[QUOTE=Ameeratul Layl;118968]
Originally Posted by libyanhero
Well I want 50 lol kidding but I do love kids alot

Allahu A3lam if I get 50 lol

:sl:
lol. subhanAllah....im told I am the weird person in the world.....going on about having 11-21......lol.
br...thansk you for changing that!!


Allah ma3akum
salaam
sis if you meant me i was joking:) we dont think your weird...just mad;)
wassalaam
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Ameeratul Layl
11-28-2005, 10:49 AM
[QUOTE=aisha;118970]
Originally Posted by Ameeratul Layl
salaam
sis if you meant me i was joking:) we dont think your weird...just mad;)
wassalaam

:sl:
No...my friends at skool thought i was weird wanting to have kids 'when I grow up.'

Mad? Of course, that cums free!!

Allah ma3ik:loving:
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~Raindrop~
11-28-2005, 10:54 AM
[QUOTE=Ameeratul Layl;118978]
Originally Posted by aisha


:sl:
No...my friends at skool thought i was weird wanting to have kids 'when I grow up.'

Allah ma3ik:loving:
oooooooookay, not sure i understand that.....
wassalaam
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mehnaz
11-28-2005, 10:56 AM
salaam,
:lol: sis Ameeratul layl.....

and well...i think i wud want 3 kids....to be more precise...i think minimum 3 and max 4....:giggling:....as for the names....if i have a boy..i'll name him Danish and girl either Noor or Munazzah....

FiAmanillah
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Uma Rayanah
11-28-2005, 11:27 AM
:sl:

i would like inshallah 4 or 5 kids..

hope 2 or 3 girls and 2 boyz....( i love girls more u see )

names:-\ :-\ ...

girls... hiyaam. sumayaah...israa... baadriyaah...

boys.... haaytham... hassan,,, ilyaas... badar....


:w:
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Rabi'ya
11-28-2005, 11:44 AM
:sl:

I want as many kids as my husband will allow me to have ;) I love kids!!!

For boys i like the names
-Mujahid
-Saifullah
-Isa

And for girls i like
-Zaineb
-Bismah
-Imaan

thers loads more but they are my favourites

:w:

Rabi'ya:rose:
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Ameeratul Layl
11-28-2005, 11:45 AM
:sl:
Nice names sr rabiyah. And....welcome back!!!!

Allah ma3ik:loving:
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S_87
11-28-2005, 12:04 PM
:sl:

namesAbdul Rahman,
muhammed saleh
muhammed saud
Abdul Aziz
Abdullah

maseeha :loving: and a couple more but after that id let some else choose
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MetSudaisTwice
11-28-2005, 12:07 PM
salam
inshallah if i have kids then the names i would consider are
Boys:
Ali
Jameel
Saleh

Girls:
Aliyah
Jamelia
Saleha

wasalam
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Umu 'Isa
11-29-2005, 02:15 PM
:sl:
I just read that it is prohibited in Islam to name a child after a surah of the Qur'an eg. Yasin..
Does anyone know if this is true?
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Maheen
11-30-2005, 10:43 PM
Salam..

I (personally) dont think it's haram.There are many names like...Maryam..Imran..Muddathir..Muzammil..Muhamme d that are surahs in the Holy Quran.And many of us have these names..so I don't see why or how it is Haram to keep them.:?

Allahu ALem
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-SaNah-
12-01-2005, 03:13 PM
Inshallah when i have kids i will name them..
Girls-
Aa'ishah Siddiqa
Aliza
Amaara
Saaleha

Boys-
Abdul Mu'eez
Abdul Baasit
Mujahid
Mikaeel
Imaan
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Bittersteel
12-01-2005, 03:23 PM
isn't this thread going a bit oiff-topic?I mean the title says Have any kids?
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~Raindrop~
12-01-2005, 03:24 PM
salaam bro.
read the 1st post please.
wassalaam
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WHITEMUSK
12-01-2005, 03:35 PM
:sl:

i absolutely love kids, inshallah when i have them i want to have at least 7!
(i like odd numbers u see) :okay:

so anyway getting back to my kids i want 1 set of twins!! (Inshallah)..... 1 set of triplets!! (Inshallah).... so thats 5 kids out of the way in just 2 go's and then my last 2 can be single ones i don't mind.... but again if theyre twins then thats even better:sister: :statisfie :exhausted

plus my husband will have like 7 names hopefully so each 1 kid can take one of the fathers names....

well thats my plan anyway!!

there father may have another one so we'll see how it goes and inshallah when i do go hajj one day soon (preferably with my husband)... 1 of the many duaa's i will make upon seeing the Kaaba is for my twins and triplets so Inshallah Allah answers my prayers.

& i havent got any baby names yet.... I think i will do the hard work and give birth, their dad can do the easy bit and pick names for them.

but Allah is the one to bless you with kids so if i have more than 7 then the more the merrier!:peace: :nervous:
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Muezzin
12-01-2005, 03:38 PM
Originally Posted by Ladee_Maryam
:sl:
I just read that it is prohibited in Islam to name a child after a surah of the Qur'an eg. Yasin..
Does anyone know if this is true?
What about Surah 'Yusuf'?

:p

Take everything you read with a pinch of salt unless it's the Quran or authentic ahadith.

On topic: Do I have any kids?

Of course not. I'm not married. :p
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jawanazam
12-02-2005, 01:53 PM
:sl: Alhumdolillah I have 3 boys aged 6, Adam Izaiyah-5,Aqeel Talha-2, Muhammad Zakariyah and insha Allah 1 more on the way. I mentioned to my wife when we were introduced for marriage proposal that I would like a large family of 10-15 children. Of course being much younger at that time it was more of a "false notion of pride and prestige" associated with being the sustainer and patriarch of a large family that influenced that idea, however as I have surely come to know Parenthood is such a huge responsibility that if I was fully aware of the duties, rights and sacrifice at that time( I was 19 she 17) I most definetly would have thought more than twice about wanting 15 kids. Anyway with all of that say I must now say that I am most thankful to Allah subhanu wa ta'ala for the blessing of these children he has entrusted to us.
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MetSudaisTwice
12-02-2005, 01:55 PM
salam
sunhanallah, may allah make your mariage life easily
and may allah grant you a healthy and pious child
inshallah you will be in my duas
wasalam
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-SaNah-
12-02-2005, 01:58 PM
Ameen
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jawanazam
12-02-2005, 02:02 PM
jazak allahu khair . May Allah answer our prayers and make things easy.
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Caliphate
12-02-2005, 04:21 PM
Inshallah Im planning to get 7 boys and 4 girls inshallah.

I'd name the boys the following names:

Boys:

Ridwan
Hudayfah
Firdaws
Salahideen
Mursal
Jihad
Hassan


And girls:

Hasanah
Manar
Haifa
Hafsa

Inshallah I will get them form Allah and raise them to be True Servants of Allah swt. and helpers of the muslim Ummah :-)

But first I must find their father inshallah...lol
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UmmKhadi
12-02-2005, 04:34 PM
Salaam aleikum

I hope people know that you cant just order gender of the babies like that, and cant just *have* twins or tripplets just because you want to ;)

And most of all, dont wish for tripplets, its a big risk to mother and babies!
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Sanobar
12-02-2005, 04:52 PM
Originally Posted by zAk
lol, why tht exact numbers ? :smile:
7+4 = 11 ! a complete Cricket team :p
:giggling: :giggling:

and yeah i agree with u sis ummkhadi...!!!:)
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Halima
12-02-2005, 07:01 PM
:sl: Let us not change this topic into another Cricket thread, let's remain on topic. inshaAllah. :w:
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Bint-Al-Islam
12-03-2005, 08:25 PM
I dont have Kids.. but if Allah gives me the kids i want 2 twins gurl and 2 twins boy InshaAllah

*Gurls name*
Sara
Sameria

*Boys name*
Asif
Asim
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hasib
12-04-2005, 10:22 PM
:sl:

InshaAllah.. 4 :D

Well i'm not even married yet hahaha..

:w:
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Khadeejah
12-04-2005, 10:28 PM
Originally Posted by UmmKhadi
Salaam aleikum

I hope people know that you cant just order gender of the babies like that, and cant just *have* twins or tripplets just because you want to ;)

And most of all, dont wish for tripplets, its a big risk to mother and babies!
Asalaamu Alaikum Wa Rahmatullahi Wa Baraakatu
LOL @ ordering genders too funny.....it would be cool though and science is making "break throughs" with that I heard...Allahu Alim

Out of curiousity would it be haram if we do not give our children Islamic names? as in naming I am unconventional

I have one son before Islam he will be 5 inshaAllah and his name is chrisitan

and another would it be a sin on me if I dont change his name

InshaAllah I was not off topic
Asalaamu Alaikum Wa RAhmatullahi wa BAraakatu
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h1jabi_sista
12-04-2005, 10:28 PM
Originally Posted by Bint-Al-Islam
I dont have Kids.. but if Allah gives me the kids i want 2 twins gurl and 2 twins boy InshaAllah

*Gurls name*
Sara
Sameria

*Boys name*
Asif
Asim

twins!!! hahahahaha im a twin and trust me my mom doesnt half get mixed up with us. she just results in calling us 'TWINS'. i dont even have a name anymore!!!lollz:coolsis:

inshallah id be happy with as many children as allah wants for me.

id like my boys to be called abdulqadir, abdul rahman, abdullah abdul hakim
and my girls to be called aisha, khadija, maryam and assiyah

:)

:w:
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UmmKhadi
12-05-2005, 08:26 AM
Khadeejah, regarding namechange and names other than islamic names, I would advice you to search islamqa.com or some other site, for fatwas. There are a lot of fatwas regarding names, i just cant remember the basics right now... We had this discussion once on a sisters only forum, I belong to. If you want the link, PM me.
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Snowflake
12-16-2005, 11:22 PM
Originally Posted by UmmKhadi
Anyone who had a 6-7 yrs old girl in the house, knows that kids are not innocent.
A sign of the times sis :eek:
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Snowflake
12-16-2005, 11:25 PM
Originally Posted by mujahadeen
what about un innocent children???what about them cause my cuz kids are not innocent lol:offtopic:
lol bro! who's the kid in the pic, he's sooo cute mashaAllah
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Snowflake
12-16-2005, 11:35 PM
My little cutie-pie is 7 years old and his name is Taiyab. I wuv:wub:him sho sho much and am missing him like hell cuz he's gone to his dad's for the weekend :wub::wub::wub:
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Tasneem
12-17-2005, 12:05 AM
I want 15 kids inshallah-5 girls and 10 boys.
Names inshallah:
Amaya
Abeera
Asma
Bahirah
Aisha
boys names:
Zackarriyah
Yahya
Ahmed
Ali
Umar
AbuBakr
Ubaydallah
Yaqub
Aaron
Musa
Hasan
Hussain
Muhammed
Abdul-Wahhab

Thats all the names inshallah.

SaLaMz
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Sis_ReNa
12-17-2005, 12:27 AM
How many kids do you have? I have one or how many do you want? As many as Allah intends me to havewhat are their names, ages? Olivia 6
:sister: salam walakum
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ishkabab
12-17-2005, 01:45 AM
Asslamu Alaikum
MashAllah i have 1 daughter....7 months...Ammara
how many more kids do i want?....its Allah tala's will....lemme see...lets keep'em comin...hehehehehe:coolsis:
names?.....have a few in mind....so far nobody listed'em ....
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Rabiyal
12-17-2005, 01:54 AM
Well it's so nice to see all you wanting kids...InshaAllah your dreams will come true....
I my self got THREE girls. Allhumdulilah, they are 4, 1.3, 4 months. and their names are NABRAH, NOVIRAH AND AAIZAH
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ishkabab
12-17-2005, 01:56 AM
MashAllah sister Rabiyal thats sooo nice..
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Sis_ReNa
12-17-2005, 02:42 AM
MashAllah, it is soo wounderful to see how Allah blesses us . In soo meny ways. InshAllah he will keep blessing us in this life and in the next ameen
Rena
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samina1
12-17-2005, 05:10 AM
:loving:
Originally Posted by Jihad_spun
I want 15 kids inshallah-5 girls and 10 boys.
Names inshallah:
Amaya
Abeera
Asma
Bahirah
Aisha
boys names:
Zackarriyah
Yahya
Ahmed
Ali
Umar
AbuBakr
Ubaydallah
Yaqub
Aaron
Musa
Hasan
Hussain
Muhammed
Abdul-Wahhab

Thats all the names inshallah.

SaLaMz
:loving: wow mashalah.. may allah give u all of those kids sis inshallah.. u gt my dua.. i wil take as many kids as allah gives me... :sister:
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TabTabiun
12-27-2005, 09:34 PM
Originally Posted by Ameeratul Layl
:sl:

Ahem...okay, I dont have any YET....:-\
but....if I do have any children (inshAllah...inshAllah).
I want:11-21

Boys names:
Abu zar
Abdallah
Sufyaan
Fahd
Foad
Ahmad
Muhammad
and many more...

Girls names:
Buthaynah
Ameerah

Wallah!the list goes on and on....

But, im sure u get the jist...there are going to be alot.inshAllah.

Allah ma3akum
Raniyah
As-Salaam Walikum_ I Love The above names also.
***MaSalaama***
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Umm_Maysa
12-27-2005, 10:00 PM
:sl:
I love kids and alhamdulillah we have been blessed with 3 girls. Imane 7, Riyane 5 and Rumaysa 3. I love to have twins. I think we need to add more boys in our family. For the names
Boys: Abdul Qayyum, Sohayb, Uwais, Muaz
Girls: Ameerah,Sumaira,Hidaya,Fatima Az-Zahra
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Blue_Moon
12-27-2005, 10:12 PM
As-Salaam Walikum -I want 40-200 kids inshallah, I want 4 wifes and that way I can have 10 Kids from each wife Inshallah.
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sapphire
12-27-2005, 10:26 PM
welcome to the forum bro^^^ur first post on this thread lol......good luck for ur future.......
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Muezzin
12-27-2005, 10:54 PM
Originally Posted by ISLAM_MAN
As-Salaam Walikum -I want 40-200 kids inshallah, I want 4 wifes and that way I can have 10 Kids from each wife Inshallah.
lol good luck bro ;) :)
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ummhabibah
12-28-2005, 12:14 AM
salaam
welcome akhi to the forum.
i do not have kids and but would like to have as many as possible inshallah!!!!!
i love the names :dawood, zahra,laila,abdul Qaadir, furqan, mubashir and thabitha. marshallah i adore kids they are lovely.
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nurah19
01-03-2006, 01:32 AM
:uhwhat OFTEN WHEN I TELL PEOPLE I WANT TO HAVE ATLEAST EIGHT CHILDREN AND ADOPT TWO, WHICH WOULD GIVE ME TEN CHILDREN, PEOPLE TEND TO GIVE ME A FUNNY EXPRESSION, SO WHAT I WANT TO KNOW IS
HOW MANY CHILDREN WOULD EACH PERSON LIKE TO HAVE AND PLEASE BE HONEST:rose: :rose:
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shudnt_have
01-03-2006, 01:41 AM
Asalamo alykum Sr. Nurah:rose:

I do not know how many children I will have, after marriage. I dont know if I ever will get married, :hmm: so Allahu Alim. If my life was depending on this question, then I woud say I would have 1 to 3 kids. of course, I would discuss it with my hubby dearest first. inshaAllah,

Wasalaamu alikum
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Shadow
01-03-2006, 02:48 AM
hmmm currently im planing on having a kid at the age of 60 or higher

but maybe when i grow up a bit more then perhaps i might want children
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MetSudaisTwice
01-03-2006, 11:27 AM
salam
i wouldn't mind one or two kids but allahu alam
wasalam
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ummAbdillah
01-03-2006, 11:39 AM
salaam
i want a least 20 kidz inshallah :lol:
call me crazy_lady if u like
:giggling:
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MetSudaisTwice
01-03-2006, 11:48 AM
salam
no sis it isn't crazy,:hmm:
just....subhanallah
wasalam
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nafy
01-03-2006, 01:04 PM
salaamz
hummmmmmmm.......i would like 2/3 children inshallah :) unless my husband desires more ;)
dont think i would be able 2 handle too many....my younger sistaz n brova are a handful lolz ;)
take care
w/salaamz :)
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Qurratul Ayn
01-03-2006, 01:15 PM
Assalamu Alaikum

My Dear Brothers and Sisters it is good to have a large family and if they follow Islam properly then that is excellent Inshallah it shall happen to every Muslim!

Sister nurah 19 to answer your question I shall like to have 5 children or more Inshallah! And I think you having eight children and adopting two Inshallah is good and hopefully you'll be granted with that many, Inshallah!

It all lies with Allah The Almighty!

Asslamu Alaikum
Shakirah
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Bittersteel
01-03-2006, 01:26 PM
3-5
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Snowflake
01-03-2006, 02:23 PM
Yeah true Farhan bro, kids talking about having kids lol. No names mentioned but some act like they still got their milk teeth :D
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DaSangarTalib
01-03-2006, 03:08 PM
i gonna have 20 or more kidz Insha Allah.....

a full army Insha Allah :brother:
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Muhammad
01-03-2006, 07:51 PM
:sl:

Posts moved here:

Posts from this thread have been moved into this one because they were discussing the same topic as in this thread. The other thread can now be used to talk about the suggested topic, which was the reason for the title change.

The poll has been added here, but everyone who voted before will have to vote again Insha'Allaah... and remember that it is a public poll where people can see who voted for which option.

:w:
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Aisha20
01-03-2006, 08:06 PM
mm.. i am too young .. lol
well 2-3 kids!
Girls: sofia, Juveriya, Aaliya, Sakina
Boys: Zain, Yusuf
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R_U
01-03-2006, 08:34 PM
Assalamualikum w w

I too love children and would love as many children as Allah SWT blesses me with! Names i quite like are Aqsa and Hawa for girls and Musa, Mustafa, Yusuf and Ubaid for boys.. So I hope I have 4 boys and 2 Girls then lol! Only jokin!
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ishkabab
01-03-2006, 09:55 PM
Keep'em comming......................>>>>>>lol
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Imam786
01-04-2006, 12:10 AM
None what so ever.....well when i do get married i would love to have me some kids....lol
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Imam786
01-04-2006, 12:11 AM
hey since i dont have any kids how i cant vote then how am i suppose to see the rusults???
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Umu 'Isa
01-05-2006, 03:56 AM
Imam786 - how many kids do you want?
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cldnite
01-05-2006, 04:50 AM
Salamualaikum,

well, you know how pakistani/indian families do that thing w/ the first name "Muhammad" and then the middle name whatever, and you call them by their middle name? well, i was thinkin of just doin down the line, ya know?
Muhammad Adam
Muhammad Idris
Muhammad Nuh
etc.

n i have this poster w/ all the names on it. i'll just keep checkin them off, insh'Allah! ;) ;D
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Makky
01-05-2006, 06:35 AM
as much as my wife wants/can
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samina1
01-06-2006, 12:46 AM
salam, well iam one of those girls who want jsut 1 or 2 childern in da future but i have another dream.. which i will nt share but inshallah i hope allah ful fillz it for me... [PIE][/PIE] well i will accept all da kids i get from allah.. but also whtver my husband desires i will give.. inshallah iam thinKIN of BIG FAMILY... INSHALLAH...
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Um_Khadijah
01-07-2006, 02:15 PM
I've one month girl, her name is khadija...
I love Aisha, Laila, For a girl and Salman, Obayda for a boy
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so0x0xsweet
02-17-2006, 01:16 AM
i dont have kids right now
i want 4-6.. i kno its alot but..
ok boys names-->thomas,dylan,michael
girls names-->jade marie,jordan,mercedes
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chacha_jalebi
07-17-2006, 01:56 PM
salaam

howeva much kiddies Allah (swt) blesses me il b happy! inshallah

but i alredy got names sorted :D

boys = jibreel, abu bakr, thayer,

Gals = Ayah, Madinah, Aqsa

brap brap :p
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Sis786
07-17-2006, 01:57 PM
I would Inshallah like to have about 3 my husband wants 6 his excuse we take all the chikd benefit oay off our loans and go on holiday.....yah i think i like that idea!

Names i love, Yusuf, Hamaad, Hamid, ...girls ....Hansa, Hafshah
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Rabi'ya
07-17-2006, 01:58 PM
MashAllah, i really like Aqsa for girl. Inshallah imma have Saifullah or Mujahid for a boy

and...shaheedah or Halima for a girl

:w:

Rabi'ya:rose:
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x Maz x
07-17-2006, 02:00 PM
Originally Posted by chacha_jalebi

but i alredy got names sorted :D

boys = jibreel, abu bakr, thayer,
Das a funky name breda, Aint herd of it buh MashAllah nice :)

Allah barrens whom he wills and bestows upon male/female children whom He wills...So Allahu Alim, I be happy to have a likl kiddy, Allahu alim what the future holds :)

Mine
Bwoys: Saluadin/Harun/Is'aa/Musa/Bilal :p
Gyals: Mariya :p../Quratul Ayn/Fatmiah/Ayesha and bare others ...brain freeze

Wa'AlaykumAsalaam
fi amanAllah x
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chacha_jalebi
07-17-2006, 02:02 PM
mashallah @ qurratul ayn, but dats more lik a nickname innit, cos all kiddies r lik koolness of eyes, :D mashallah

thayer means rebel :p so it a hevy name :D:D:D:D:D
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x Maz x
07-17-2006, 02:06 PM
AsalamuAlaykum,
Bismillah, Hope this reaches ya in the best of health & Iman InshAllah,
Erm is it a nickname? lol...I know a wicked sis call that and everyone addresses her as Ayni lol...But its such a wicked name ...
Lol @ rebel, trust you to pick such a name eh ;)...Oh MashALllah @ the name Hamzah but it reminds meh of my breda *sighs*
Wa'AlaykumAsalaam
Fi amanAllah x

Btw chacha...Yusuf out lol...I'm winning the bet so far!...Pakis gonna loost :D:P
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chacha_jalebi
07-17-2006, 02:10 PM
can we not go off topic :p

inzamam is der & iqbal playin kool,

mashallah @ hamzah, i lik d names Aisha, Hafsah & Khadijah aswell, cos mashallah, they were ummul tul momineen & d names sound nice, but i alredy got lik 20 ppl named dem names in d family :p

Ayni :p mashallah, is qurratul ayn a both girly and boy name den ??

but i wudnt mind havin a girl or boy, i fink baby girls r more cuter den baby boys, i lik FAT CHUBBY babies :p
dey cute mashallah
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Ghazi
07-17-2006, 02:10 PM
:sl:

I want loads of kids so I don't end up in a old peoples home.
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chacha_jalebi
07-17-2006, 02:11 PM
Originally Posted by islam-truth
:sl:

I want loads of kids so I don't end up in a old peoples home.
lol typical :p

u sudnt rely on ne1 apart frm Allah (swt) ya mite hav a army of kids & dey mite all go 4 jihad den .... lol huh? huh? not attackin ya bro, but ders much betta reasons den dat 4 kiddies
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x Maz x
07-17-2006, 02:14 PM
AsalamuAlaykum,
Bismillah, Hope this reaches ya in the best of health & Iman InshAllah,
Lolololol at breda islam-truth ^ lololol JowkA!!!....Lol chacha Quratul Ayn a gyals name MashALlah...Hamzah nicee name but again saddening when my bredas face comes to mind...Bin laden's also a heavy name :p...I tink cute chubby babies gawjus specially if they mixed race with heavy blue eyes awwww...feel like throttling thme in a kind way...

Chacha admit defeat...Inzi gonna be out in a bit

Wa'AlaykumAsalaam
fi amanAllah x
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bint_muhammed
07-17-2006, 03:19 PM
if you can have kids, but done want any is that sinful? i would prefer to adopt rather than have my own, it sound so scary! i would adopt kids all around the world, all from different races, it be so awesome!
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Sis786
07-17-2006, 04:30 PM
Originally Posted by islam-truth
:sl:

I want loads of kids so I don't end up in a old peoples home.
;D Yeah me here you there!
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seeker_of_ilm
07-17-2006, 09:02 PM
:sl:

As many as physically and financially possible. But also need to be sure that I can give attention to all of them...so I'd say 4/5?

Buut before I get to thinking about kids...need to get married lol
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the_muslimah
07-17-2006, 09:22 PM
id like to have bout 3 or 4 kids but my fiance wants more than that so...i think im in a bit of trouble lol:giggling:
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Muezzin
07-17-2006, 09:33 PM
You know how people say 'I want a football team?'

I say 'I want an army.'
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the_muslimah
07-17-2006, 09:37 PM
Originally Posted by Muezzin
I say 'I want an army.'
lol i feel sorry for your wife!!
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limitless
07-17-2006, 11:12 PM
:sl:

Not married, And I don't have a clue how many kids i want, I will let my wife decide on that and for names, I am going to use prohpets for boys and for girls , prohpet's wife name, if that is allowed...and if my wife allows that or let my wife decide names.


:w:
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the_muslimah
07-17-2006, 11:18 PM
Originally Posted by limitless
I will let my wife decide on that
hmm thats good coz shes the one whos gonna have to endure the pain init lol
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SirZubair
07-18-2006, 10:11 AM
Insha'allah i would like to have 2 children.

1 boy and 1 girl.

If i have a Son,i would name him Hamza. :D

If i have a daughter,..i would name her zAk.. :D

:p

...maybe not,..i'll name her Maryam :D
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Woodrow
07-18-2006, 10:22 AM
I only have 3 kids. Since I no longer have a wife, that looks like the end.

Two Girls, Ru and Amina Both well past 35 years old and a Son Woodrow Jr. 34 years old.

14 Grand kids (One brand new)
2 Great Grand kids (1 Brand new)
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Abdul-Raouf
07-18-2006, 05:16 PM
IM NOT MARRIED... INSHA'ALLAH I LIKE TO HAVE 2 KIDS

for boyz.... MOHAMMED MOOSA, MOHAMMED EESA, IBRAHIM

for girls..... FATIMA, MARIAM, AISHA, NOOR, ZANOBAR, NAFISA
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IbnAbdulHakim
07-18-2006, 05:21 PM
Originally Posted by SirZubair
If i have a daughter,..i would name her zAk.. :D
LOL! Good idea, hek why dont we all do that ;D ;D ;D lol


kids... naa but inshaAllah Allah will bless me with as many as he wills :)
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IbnAbdulHakim
07-18-2006, 05:21 PM
Originally Posted by zÂk
2 kids ?
:happy:
n 10 names ? :p
aint like its haram :p
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piXie
07-18-2006, 05:32 PM
Originally Posted by Abd'Majid


kids... naa but inshaAllah Allah will bless me with as many as he wills :)
will bless you wiv kids ? a guy....:zip:
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IbnAbdulHakim
07-18-2006, 05:35 PM
Originally Posted by A'isha
will bless you wiv kids ? a guy....:zip:
inshaAllah "WE" will be blessed with as many kids as Allah wills.


happy :D
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Abdul-Raouf
07-18-2006, 05:37 PM
oh brother i like to name my kids with (red - ones)

see brother we dont know whether the first two might be boyz or girlz - so ther e are 4 names (red - ones)......... about the other names.... i like them too.... who knows.... i might use them tooooo.... :)

i can use Zanobar Fatima... as one ...
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Bro-Islam
07-19-2006, 09:33 AM
Originally Posted by Sis786
I would Inshallah like to have about 3 my husband wants 6 his excuse we take all the chikd benefit oay off our loans and go on holiday.....yah i think i like that idea!

Names i love, Yusuf, Hamaad, Hamid, ...girls ....Hansa, Hafshah

Ok OK
$alams ppl looong time how u all been? , just been sooo busy
anyhow just HAD 2 rply on this 1,

I want to go on holiday???
i want to go to Egypt?
i want to ge the new burberry summer swimwear range?
i want the latest jimmy choo strappy sandals?
i want the new prada handbag?

and i want 6 kids?

No comments:X

Peace and Blessings
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Vaseline
07-19-2006, 09:57 AM
No, I don't have any kids because I'm not married yet [a good 2 to 3 years away! Whew!] but when the time comes, Insha'Allah, I'd like to have 3-4 kids. Names would be:

Boys - Ridwan, Dawud, Iqbal, Zayd

Girls - Ruqaiya, Aisha, Aasmaa, Fatimah [all the girls in my generation end with 'a' or 'ah' except me, so I'm planning on continuing that tradition and also because these were wonderful female representitives in Islam]

Allah (SWT) knows best.
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sevgi
07-19-2006, 10:05 AM
i want five kids...dnt no why...jst do...i like to keep busy...

names:
boys:
1.burak mehdi
2.hamid
3.musab
4.halim
5.nedim
(all names will probably hava Muhammed in front of their names)
girls=
1.nese (s prnonounced as 'sh' so its "neshe") (joy, happiness)
2.nihan...dnt no wat dat means,,,
my girls need religious names in front of them or as middle names...future hubby can choose them...
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Sis786
07-19-2006, 10:37 AM
Originally Posted by Bro-Islam
Ok OK
$alams ppl looong time how u all been? , just been sooo busy
anyhow just HAD 2 rply on this 1,

I want to go on holiday???
i want to go to Egypt?
i want to ge the new burberry summer swimwear range?
i want the latest jimmy choo strappy sandals?
i want the new prada handbag?

and i want 6 kids?

No comments:X

Peace and Blessings
:giggling: Whats the handbag for you must get that cleared thats that bag is for me otherwise people think i married a handbag carrier man!;D
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umm_amina04
07-19-2006, 12:23 PM
:sl: :sister: Laydee maryam insha-allah taa'la I hope to have as many children as Allah swt has intended me to have, as I do not know the unseen cannot give you an exact figure.
Although the name in which I absouletly adore are as follows:

BOYS NAMES:
Isma'il
Abdel-Lateef
Abdel-Qaayoom
Radwan
Fadel
Omar khatab

GIRLS NAMES:
Khadijah
A'isha
Tasnim
Kawthar
Ameerah
Amal

:w: :sister: umm amina

(:statisfie May Allah's peace and blessings be with all the muslims and their families insha-allah:statisfie )
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blackgirlizzi
07-19-2006, 02:52 PM
well i want7 kids i want to adopt them all from lots of different backrounds, races, religions and countries.
4 girls and 3 boys.
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thussain1
07-19-2006, 02:55 PM
I have a son 2 1/2 yrs of age called Hamzah and a daughter 14 months called Maria.
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afriend
08-17-2006, 08:31 PM
Hmm....Hmm.....:?:?

Could do without a loudspeaker that turns into a human size mosquite, that sucks life......BUT :) I'm not that harsh lol....As many Allah wills for me inshallah, but would be fine with 2-3...Imagine If I get triplets ;D ROFL!!

Boys' names:

Sa'ood :happy:

Jibreel :wub: [second or even my first choice]

hmmm....What else...probably abdus salaam, but that's a big name lol

Girls:

:?
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Kittygyal
08-17-2006, 10:49 PM
Originally Posted by Ladee_Maryam
:sl:
How many kids do you have? or how many do you want?
what are their names, ages?
what would you like to name them?

I don't have any yet but i would like 3 or 4
i love the names abdul-malik and jehad for a boy
and humayra and jannah for a girl

salam.

i had a misscarriage a while back :(, but i was looking forward for it and i me and my BF family were too and we wanted to keep the name for a boy, Haden (even though it's me nephews name now) and for a gyal Jessica.
but as i had a miscarriage for a boy so then when me brother had a baby boy i kept the name Haden.
inshallah in the future i will keep them names :(

w.salam
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LiveIslam
08-17-2006, 10:49 PM
i would like to have 3-5 kids but il be happy what ever allah gives me.

boys = Hamza, Abduallah

Gals = layla, aliyah, sumayah
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syilla
08-18-2006, 10:26 AM
i have 15 kids...








lol just joking....

actually i only have one....his name is AZFAR = a successor (i think)

i don't really bother about the numbers...if Allah s.w.t give it to me...then i accept it.
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sameer
08-18-2006, 01:00 PM
Originally Posted by baby_muslimah15
Salaamz, wooow Ameeratul Layl(u got me beat) I only want 2-3 kidz

Boyz- Jihad, Raheem, Hajji, Abdul-Zhair,Yaseen...Etc

Gitlz- Amatullah, Yasmeen, Aisha, Talibah

I love kids soooooo much(I plan 2 have twins and a single child.
Wow, my wife middle name is Amatullah.....first time i have ever seen or heard it anywhere else. Its such an unusal name in my country !

Insha ALlah i wanna have 2 children
Boy : Gibreel, Habib, Muhammad (offcourse :) )
Girl: Asma , Khadijah, Maryam
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IceQueen~
08-18-2006, 01:03 PM
only two kids...?

he he he some people wanna hit the jackpot!!!! :D :D :D
just kidding LOL
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sameer
08-18-2006, 01:16 PM
Originally Posted by Marya
only two kids...?

he he he some people wanna hit the jackpot!!!! :D :D :D
just kidding LOL
dont wanna kill my wifey :giggling:
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amirah_87
08-18-2006, 01:24 PM
Originally Posted by umm_amina04
:sl: :sister: Although the name in which I absouletly adore are as follows:

BOYS NAMES:
Abdel-Lateef

GIRLS NAMES:
Ameerah

:w: :sister: umm amina

(:statisfie May Allah's peace and blessings be with all the muslims and their families insha-allah:statisfie )
as salaamu alaykum,

You like my name!! :statisfie It's beautiful isn't it!! :statisfie :p

I also like the name Abdul-Lateef...:thumbs_up

My Lil Sis's name Maria/Mariyah.is beautiful aswell :)
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sameer
08-18-2006, 01:28 PM
Originally Posted by blackgirlizzi
well i want7 kids i want to adopt them all from lots of different backrounds, races, religions and countries.
4 girls and 3 boys.
Salaams, very noble intention, but they still wont be your kids. they would be ure brothers/ sisters in islam.


033.004 Allah has not made for any man two hearts in his (one) body: nor has He made your wives whom ye divorce by Zihar your mothers: nor has He made your adopted sons your sons. Such is (only) your (manner of) speech by your mouths. But Allah tells (you) the Truth, and He shows the (right) Way.

033.005 Call them by (the names of) their fathers: that is juster in the sight of Allah. But if ye know not their father's (names, call them) your Brothers in faith, or your maulas.
But there is no blame on you if ye make a mistake therein: (what counts is) the intention of your hearts: and Allah is Oft-Returning, Most Merciful.

Al-Qur'an, 033.004-005 (Al-Ahzab [The Clans, the Coalition, the Combined Forces])


Maybe someone can post the tafsir of these verses to be sure?
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Hijaabi22
08-18-2006, 01:31 PM
InshaAllaaaaaaaaaahhhh as long as I have at least one girl whom I can dress all in pinkkkkkkkkkkk then all is guuuuuuuuuuuuuuddd!!! :shade: And I like the names Maria, Sofia(my cuz called dat tho), hmmmmm Ill think of more when the tym cums which may I add wont be anytym soon lol :okay:
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sameer
08-18-2006, 01:41 PM
http://ahmadjibril.com/articles/tafseerahzab1to5.html

5) Is adoption permitted in Islam?

The rule is one can adopt but the child must keep his own name after his own father. While one is permitted to take of other people, it is not permissible to attribute those under the care as being their blood related son or daughter. Attributing someone as a blood related son to other than his father is a major sin. The prophet said, "Whomever attributes himself to other than his father or other than his family, may the curse of Allah and the angels and the people befall on him. Allah will not accept from him tawbah or compensation." (Bukhari and Muslim).

In another hadith, "Whoever attributes himself to other than his own parents and he knows it is a kafer." (Bukhari and Muslim).

"Whoever attributes himself to other than his father and he knows it, Jannah is haram upon him." (Bukhari and Muslim).

According to Al-Aloosy and Ibn Katheer, when someone says "Oh son go do this.." out of sympathy or respect, then this is not haram.

In the event that the adoption agency (in modern times) gives the child a false name that would otherwise fall under this sin, then it is not under the control of the child and the sin will fall upon those who were responsible for this.

Also : http://www.islamonline.net/servlet/S...=1119503544668
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sameer
08-18-2006, 01:42 PM
Originally Posted by ~pInK cHiCk~
InshaAllaaaaaaaaaahhhh as long as I have at least one girl whom I can dress all in pinkkkkkkkkkkk then all is guuuuuuuuuuuuuuddd!!! :shade: And I like the names Maria, Sofia(my cuz called dat tho), hmmmmm Ill think of more when the tym cums which may I add wont be anytym soon lol :okay:
suppose she dont liek pink? ;D :giggling:
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Hijaabi22
08-18-2006, 01:43 PM
Originally Posted by sameer
suppose she dont liek pink? ;D :giggling:
well then TOUGH init, her mummy likez pink so shes gna have to like it 2! Lol
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Mawaddah
08-18-2006, 01:44 PM
Originally Posted by sameer
Salaams, very noble intention, but they still wont be your kids. they would be ure brothers/ sisters in islam.


033.004 Allah has not made for any man two hearts in his (one) body: nor has He made your wives whom ye divorce by Zihar your mothers: nor has He made your adopted sons your sons. Such is (only) your (manner of) speech by your mouths. But Allah tells (you) the Truth, and He shows the (right) Way.

033.005 Call them by (the names of) their fathers: that is juster in the sight of Allah. But if ye know not their father's (names, call them) your Brothers in faith, or your maulas.
But there is no blame on you if ye make a mistake therein: (what counts is) the intention of your hearts: and Allah is Oft-Returning, Most Merciful.

Al-Qur'an, 033.004-005 (Al-Ahzab [The Clans, the Coalition, the Combined Forces])


Maybe someone can post the tafsir of these verses to be sure?
Brother this Ayah is in reference to adopted children, not your own children by birth :)

Your kids are your Kids
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sameer
08-18-2006, 01:45 PM
lol ok
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Hijaabi22
08-18-2006, 01:45 PM
:haha:^
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sameer
08-18-2006, 01:47 PM
Originally Posted by Mawaddah
Brother this Ayah is in reference to adopted children, not your own children by birth :)

Your kids are your Kids
oops i think i quoted the wrong person on this one...i was suppose to quote the person who wanted to adopt..........:hiding: *embaraased* :hiding: :hiding: :hiding: :hiding:
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Hijaabi22
08-18-2006, 01:50 PM
^:haha:
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sameer
08-18-2006, 01:50 PM
lol ok i fixed it..thanks for the heads up though..... but i still feel embarrased enough to hide :hiding: :hiding: :hiding:
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Umm Khalid06
08-18-2006, 04:08 PM
I only went 2 kids one kid that I have already and some day soon I went one more kid girl her name Sara
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afriend
08-18-2006, 04:09 PM
LOL!!

Kids? pfffttt!!!

:heated: I hate it when they cry....
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Umm Khalid06
08-18-2006, 04:11 PM
Originally Posted by Iqram
LOL!!

Kids? pfffttt!!!

:heated: I hate it when they cry....
you just get used to it i hated at first but now its easy kids are blessing form allah;D
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IceQueen~
08-18-2006, 04:11 PM
aww :wub: kids only cry for a reason maybe they're scared of your face! LOL just kidding
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Mawaddah
08-18-2006, 04:13 PM
^ :haha:

I get annoyed when kids cry without a reason. Not infant cries though :wub: . YOu know, those spoilt bratty kids who just scream and yell and act all nasty? They deserve to be picked up and dropped into the garbage I'm serious :mad:

Maybe I might just try that one day.......drop my neighbours kid into the dumpster :giggling:
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afriend
08-18-2006, 04:15 PM
:mmokay:

LOL Nah I'm kidding....Like the sister said, you do actually get used to it after like a few days...

But other than that I can take care of a baby except for the diaper/nappy bit :heated:

I get annoyed when kids cry without a reason. Not infant cries though . YOu know, those spoilt bratty kids who just scream and yell and act all nasty? They deserve to be picked up and dropped into the garbage I'm serious

Maybe I might just try that one day.......drop my neighbours kid into the dumpster
EXACTLY!! You get what I mean ;D :happy:
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Umm Khalid06
08-18-2006, 04:19 PM
Originally Posted by Mawaddah
^ :haha:

I get annoyed when kids cry without a reason. Not infant cries though :wub: . YOu know, those spoilt bratty kids who just scream and yell and act all nasty? They deserve to be picked up and dropped into the garbage I'm serious :mad:

Maybe I might just try that one day.......drop my neighbours kid into the dumpster :giggling:
that how i First felt all the crying at night time but now he only cries when he see’s someone he does not know;D
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IceQueen~
08-18-2006, 04:21 PM
yeah i suppose but I think its the parents/or whoever brought the kids up like that -is to blame.
the prophet (saw) was always gentle kind and patient with kids. whatever they learn in this world -its our responsibility. they are not responsible for their actions till adolescence.
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bint_muhammed
08-18-2006, 06:18 PM
when my nieces and nephew start crying i just get up and leave the room suppose you cant with your own. its really hard to dicipline them, when i'm mad at my nephew he always can make me laugh and i have to have a seriouse face on, but in the end i crack up. i think you should have when you know you will able to handle them, because kids are what you teach them and if your aint ready you can make a big mess.
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Woodrow
08-18-2006, 06:30 PM
For those of you who are new parents. Just remember one day you will be grandparents and have a house full of grand kids. Remember, grandparents and grand kids are strong allies. We team up together and drive their parents crazy. Grand kids are great to have. Kids always seem to think that their parents are dumb, but the little rug rats always believe that grandpa is the smartest man on earth and is indestructable. Plus grand parents get to play with the rug rats and then get to turn them back over to their parents when they get obnoxious.
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Mawaddah
08-18-2006, 06:37 PM
Originally Posted by Woodrow
For those of you who are new parents. Just remember one day you will be grandparents and have a house full of grand kids. Remember, grandparents and grand kids are strong allies. We team up together and drive their parents crazy. Grand kids are great to have. Kids always seem to think that their parents are dumb, but the little rug rats always believe that grandpa is the smartest man on earth and is indestructable. Plus grand parents get to play with the rug rats and then get to turn them back over to their parents when they get obnoxious.
That's how Grandparents are supposed To be........

But what if you have Grandparents Who Dont know how to be Grandparents?
For example like mine....They treat me and my cousins like their employees.....and they never do any 'grandparenty' stuff, the only concern with them is whether their company is bringing in a haul......:uhwhat

Sometimes I get envious when I see people with 'real' grandparents :cry:
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Woodrow
08-18-2006, 07:02 PM
Originally Posted by Mawaddah
That's how Grandparents are supposed To be........

But what if you have Grandparents Who Dont know how to be Grandparents?
For example like mine....They treat me and my cousins like their employees.....and they never do any 'grandparenty' stuff, the only concern with them is whether their company is bringing in a haul......:uhwhat

Sometimes I get envious when I see people with 'real' grandparents :cry:
Please make Du'a for your Grandparents. They do not know that they are missing one of the greatest Earthly gifts Allah(swt) has given us. They need to realise that the only reason people have kids is so that they can be grandparents one day. They are missing all of the value of getting old enough to have grandkids. Grandkids are our second chance to amend all of the errors we made raising our kids. as parents we never get to truly enjoy our kids, but as grandparents, it is our own fault if we miss every chance to enjoy their company.
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afriend
08-18-2006, 07:50 PM
Originally Posted by Woodrow
For those of you who are new parents. Just remember one day you will be grandparents and have a house full of grand kids. Remember, grandparents and grand kids are strong allies. We team up together and drive their parents crazy. Grand kids are great to have. Kids always seem to think that their parents are dumb, but the little rug rats always believe that grandpa is the smartest man on earth and is indestructable. Plus grand parents get to play with the rug rats and then get to turn them back over to their parents when they get obnoxious.
ROFL!!!!!!!!!!

MAN THAT WAS FUNNY!!!
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Nawal89
08-18-2006, 07:58 PM
Originally Posted by Woodrow
Please make Du'a for your Grandparents. They do not know that they are missing one of the greatest Earthly gifts Allah(swt) has given us. They need to realise that the only reason people have kids is so that they can be grandparents one day. They are missing all of the value of getting old enough to have grandkids. Grandkids are our second chance to amend all of the errors we made raising our kids. as parents we never get to truly enjoy our kids, but as grandparents, it is our own fault if we miss every chance to enjoy their company.
i dont think my grandparents understand that. they're jus..:grumbling :grumbling
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afriend
08-18-2006, 08:06 PM
Originally Posted by Nawal89
i dont think my grandparents understand that. they're jus..:grumbling :grumbling
:cry:

I'd die without my grandparents...I am shocked you do not have such a relationship with your grandparents.

My grandfather is the sort who only engages in a serious conversation with other senior people who are about his age...But I can have a serious conversation with my grandfather for an hour, but his own sons will not be able to engage in such a conversation unless it is a heated debate.

My grandmother is one of the most funniest person ever! We both crack jokes and we can both laugh without actually faking to laugh as her jokes are funny to me, and mine are funny to her :):brother: :sister:

:w:
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Nawal89
08-18-2006, 08:12 PM
Originally Posted by Iqram
:cry:

I'd die without my grandparents...I am shocked you do not have such a relationship with your grandparents.

My grandfather is the sort who only engages in a serious conversation with other senior people who are about his age...But I can have a serious conversation with my grandfather for an hour, but his own sons will not be able to engage in such a conversation unless it is a heated debate.

My grandmother is one of the most funniest person ever! We both crack jokes and we can both laugh without actually faking to laugh as her jokes are funny to me, and mine are funny to her :):brother: :sister:

:w:
be thankful about that.

i talk accounts with my grandma. 15 mins prfessional conversations.
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Mawaddah
08-18-2006, 08:13 PM
Originally Posted by Iqram
:cry:

I'd die without my grandparents...I am shocked you do not have such a relationship with your grandparents.

My grandfather is the sort who only engages in a serious conversation with other senior people who are about his age...But I can have a serious conversation with my grandfather for an hour, but his own sons will not be able to engage in such a conversation unless it is a heated debate.

My grandmother is one of the most funniest person ever! We both crack jokes and we can both laugh without actually faking to laugh as her jokes are funny to me, and mine are funny to her :):brother: :sister:

:w:
I have a wonderful relationship with all of my aunts and my uncles on my mothers side alhamdulillah, and we are more like sisters in stead of neice & aunt......I love them.

But on my fathers side of the family? pssshhhttt.....they are money driven people...anyone who is not the boss (i.e. them) is an employee...whether it be their own children/neice/nephew/brother/sister.

Subhanallah.

It amazed me when I first saw it also.( I only recently got to really know them..only 2 years back)

But then.....................They are not Muslim. :(

It's saddening when my grandmother comes to the company, I work upstairs and she comes sometimes to put in a few hours, and the only time she will ever give me a ring, is to ask me about some business information..*sigh*.

Ah well...Du'a for them Insha'allah.
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amirah_87
08-18-2006, 08:18 PM
as salaamu aalykum,

be thankful about that.

i talk accounts with my grandma. 15 mins prfessional conversations.
you be thankful too,

I've never seen my grandparents... three are dead..and ones surviving!!...and she's in another country!! we only have short convos cause we don't really know eachother.it's the usual...hi, how are you!...blah de blah!! Allahul musta3aan! :-\

This is a kids thread anyways....not grandparents!!? :p
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afriend
08-18-2006, 08:18 PM
Dua is all we can do...

this is a kids thread anyways....not grandparents
LOL!
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Fatimab
08-19-2006, 10:31 AM
Inshallah 2 kids and if they are good and that i can handle them then more inshallah
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Najiullah
08-19-2006, 10:35 AM
inshaAllah 10 or more ;D:D;D:D;D:D
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the_muslimah
08-19-2006, 11:22 AM
Originally Posted by najiullah
inshaAllah 10 or more ;D:D;D:D;D:D
i wonder what your wifes gonna say bout that 1 :lol:
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lolwatever
08-19-2006, 11:25 AM
Jannah is such a cool name for daughters.. it's rare but i love it for some reason.
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S_87
08-19-2006, 08:40 PM
Originally Posted by Iqram
LOL!!

Kids? pfffttt!!!

:heated: I hate it when they cry....
:sl:

they would only cry for a reason :D the trick is finding out what they are crying for when they cant talk and sort it out, and when they are older stuff their mouth with a tennis ball and all is fine...

InshaAllaaaaaaaaaahhhh as long as I have at least one girl whom I can dress all in pinkkkkkkkkkkk then all is guuuuuuuuuuuuuuddd!!! And I like the names Maria, Sofia(my cuz called dat tho), hmmmmm Ill think of more when the tym cums which may I add wont be anytym soon lol
pink arghhhhhhhh :grumbling thats totally my niece she LOVES pink. pink room everything. she even makes my msn chat colour pink. and if i somehow have something with a little pink like a keyring etc, it becomes hers :lol:
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Najiullah
08-19-2006, 08:41 PM
Originally Posted by the_muslimah
i wonder what your wifes gonna say bout that 1 :lol:
i guess she will say 12 or more ;D
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lolwatever
08-19-2006, 08:47 PM
^^ lol mashalah.. must be some supermum lol
salamz
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mlsh27
08-20-2006, 04:20 AM
Why is there no option for 0?
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Najiullah
08-20-2006, 05:58 AM
Originally Posted by lolwatever
^^ lol mashalah.. must be some supermum lol
salamz
yes inshaAllah :D
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Mawaddah
08-20-2006, 10:36 AM
I was thinking along the lines of 5 or 6........:? :? dont really know though?

oh yeah, and the first girl is going to be named Tahaany, and the first boy is going to be named AbdulMalik

Insha'allah :)
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mlsh27
08-20-2006, 10:40 AM
If I adopt a child, she will have a French name...like Elise, Amelie, Aubrie, Genevieve (I was actually supposed to be named that)...
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