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    Aoa.In Islam it is said that a wife should obey her husband in all circumstances....and she will enter paradise if her husband is pleased with her.But I have slight confusion I mean should she obey him under all circumstances that are not in her capacity e.g if husband insists she take care of his father in law like make him breakfast or tells her to stay in house all time with no entertainment or contact with outer world no social life??does she have right to refuse if it makes her feel claustrophobic and duty bound out of force.is this behaviour even ethical on husband part?

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    Assalamualykum.

    A women is duty bound to her husband in all matters which are in compliance to shariah and what sharia has made obligatory on her.

    Over and above that he can request that she carry out certain duties and if she is in a position to carry out she should as this will be rewarding.

    Regarding the scenario in question, looking after the father in law will bring double reward, respecting the husband as well as taking care of an elderly aged person. If she cannot manage this due to health reasons or otherwise then she should respectfully excuse herself and in an amicable way come to a mutual understanding.

    Jazakallah khair

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    Brother Ridwan,Islam doesent say it compulsion to attend to errands of father in law.even if wife is fine she is not obliged to fulfill such demands on husband part husband can get a servant to do it or do himself as he should attend to his parent and wife is obligated to make her parents happy!
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