We grant the children the right to be children until they are old enough to make good choices themselves. Marriage is a serious matter, and children needs the time to grow up before becoming someones wife/husband. Here, it is also normal for girls to finnish their education before getting married.
You do know that the majority of kids in highschool has already had sex out of wedlock right? What causes this? I don't know. What are the consequences? HIV, Hepatitis, Herpes. A girl not only has to worry about about getting pregnant but she also has to worry about her life aswell! Of course, marriage is a serious matter but what the serious matter is when a girl does sex out of wedlock. I don't understand the western society. I girl cannot get married at nine years old but when a girl is 15 she can have sex. When the girl becomes 18 she is considered an adult. I am considered an adult but I wouldn't ever move out on my parents and try to prove to them that I can live on my own. you say it is normal for girls to finish their education before they get married then why do they have sex before they are married? Wouldn't that be the last think on this earth one would do after they are married? Today you have people preaching about why so many teen girls and boys have AIDS. Go figure! You have girls running around promiscuous (out of wed lock) have not even finished their education and they are waiting by chance to get pregnant. Is this what we have to wait for until reality slaps them on the face?
Do your charity in the name of Da'wah and help us out
I'm so glad you went to the effort of examining the lifestyle of "every single westerner" to establish these opinions of yours. Did you interview every single Westerner personally?
Peace
I think yes he did interview, otherwise he must not be making any such claims. right brother Moujahid?
i personally think that western societies have no moral values left. the family life of every single westerner is wretched. thats what happens to free societies. if there are no moral constraints to ones actions you by default become uncivilized.
Is this claim any different from saying every single Muslim is a terrorist?
Why are blanket statements of bigotry wrong when foisted on Muslims, but not wrong when foisted on Kafirs?
I know many happy Western families. You cannot confuse the representation of the West in the media with the reality. Nor can you extrapolate from some suburbs of the West to the entire Western world. The majority of people in the West are happily married, content and prospering.
Does all this sound familiar? Try replacing a few words, like "Westerner" with Muslim, and you'll see how absurd your comments are and how we can all agree on what I have said.
Le coeur a ses raisons, que la raison ne connait pas. - Blaise Pascal
Is this claim any different from saying every single Muslim is a terrorist?
Why are blanket statements of bigotry wrong when foisted on Muslims, but not wrong when foisted on Kafirs?
I know many happy Western families. You cannot confuse the representation of the West in the media with the reality. Nor can you extrapolate from some suburbs of the West to the entire Western world. The majority of people in the West are happily married, content and prospering.
Does all this sound familiar? Try replacing a few words, like "Westerner" with Muslim, and you'll see how absurd your comments are and how we can all agree on what I have said.
before i write anything i would ask you to please read this as my point of view.....shukran
i agree with heigou's statement, even muslims are different in west than the ones in europe and east.....the ones in west take more things for granted, and even though there are many muslims world wide who cherish material possesions, i have never seen this happen as much as in the west.....(i have been few places in the world).....nothing against my brothers and sisters, but we do need to take a deep look into our umma before talking about others....
my views on west are solely based on the government politics and their leaders, so when i drop critique on west i dont mean anything against its people, when instead i am talking about the those who try to play the role of the all seeing eye.....same goes for non western coutries, its not the peoples fault, no matter where, people get influenced easy, it is those who control the media and run the government that i criticize....
p.s
and criticizing is not a good thing to do, so please forgive me, and i hope that Allah frogives me for it and gives me strength to keep my mout shut sometimes inshaallah.
ma salaama
bez
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