I think this really suits this section is like a poem/story.
The Wedding.
They first met at a den of sin and vice
the meeting criteria being; was the other looking nice
Never was their criteria Deen
In fact Deen in them, couldn't be seen.
After many a lewd and very crude an interlude
the details of which, often, were very rude
they decided to tie the knot
rather than wallow and rot
Then came the engagement function
quite contrary to the Shari injunction
With free intermingling of the sexes
it, one with an iota of Imaan vexes
Suddenly the telephone, an important tool
became the plaything of these Shaytaani fools
Long before the prolonged nikah date
they behaved as if they were intimate mates
Finally came the big wedding 'do'
with them trying to be like the Jones's too!
The bride sat like a waxen puppet on the stage
much to her Lord's rage
With all and sundry viewing and even kissing the bride
isn't Jahanum for them a complimentary ride?
Do they entertain a hope of this marriage to last
when they do not hold onto Deen fast?
Me neither. A groom is allowed to kiss his bride. Also, starting off badly does not necessarily mean after marriage the relationship will turn sour. Prophet Muhammad(peace be upon him) is reported to have said, paraphrase,: The best thing for two people who love each other is marriage.
Noo.,you didnt get it, this for those who think is all right to mess around before marriage and then expect a beautiful marriage, is suppose to make you think twice before getting involved in a haram relationship and the halal way is the best way
Not sure what was so hard to understand...
Nice poem sis, the message is loud and clear.
The Prophet (as) said; "Whoever emulates a nation becomes of them."
It is Allah, except Whom there is no God; the King, the Pure, the Giver of Peace, the Bestower of Safety, the Protector, the Most Honourable, the Compeller, the Proud; Purity is to Allah from all what they ascribe as partners (to Him)! Al-Quran 59:23
Unlike some people on this forum, I don't need a map, diagram or pie chart to understand. (J/J)
I really enjoyed the poem....unfortunately this practise is very common in the Somali community. May Allah protect us from it, ameen.
A-Salam, lovely poem sister. Mansha'allah. I think sister Noor is talking about the intermingling of both sexes, I guess it depends on the family not all Somali's do it. A girl I know just got married, she had her wedding segregated and not taped. That's nice if you ask me. Some weddings are shocking. Ameen to your Du'a sister. May Allah make us pious and steadfast Muslims. Ameen.
Hey there! Looks like you're enjoying the discussion, but you're not signed up for an account.
When you create an account, we remember exactly what you've read, so you always come right back where you left off. You also get notifications, here and via email, whenever new posts are made. And you can like posts and share your thoughts. Sign Up
Thanks for explaining
Hide
Looks like you're enjoying the discussion, but you're not signed up for an account.
Posting Permissions
Bookmarks