Well, i think who you will end up with is destiny but ive read many articles that say that people will end up with who they really are and i think there are many verses in the quran that might confirm this. it is destiny but sometimes Allah will give you a spouse that causes you misery and pain , not because Allah doesnt want good for you but it is a test to see how you will act and will you stick to doing the good , and Allah will repalce the spouse with one which is great and you really deserve . but Marriage is not something that all people have some people dont get married in their whole life-time does that mean that they are bad people no but maybe Allah has prepared for them better wives/ husbands in the here after. this of my short knowledge i hope i helped.
I believe you get married to whom you are destined to marry, but that doesn't mean you should just wait for that person to come to you. you and your parents must try your best to find the right spouse and if you're destined to marry them then you will, although they may not be the one you will end up with in Jannah. if you're both good muslims then you'll be toghether in jannah aswell. If one of you doesn' deserve jannah then you won't be together in Jannah. sister May is correct about the test part, you may marry someone who may be a better or worse person than you & you'll be a test for each other. do you do what's right? do you sacrifice money, job, even your spouse for Allah's sake or do you cling to wordly comforts, etc.
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