that depends if the man is soft hearted nd religious he may be able to go smoothly with wife who is mentally ill.but for a man who expect his wife to smart nd active i doubt.even if he marry such he may opt for secod
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that depends if the man is soft hearted nd religious he may be able to go smoothly with wife who is mentally ill.but for a man who expect his wife to smart nd active i doubt.even if he marry such he may opt for secod
I agree jameelash. To a certain point!
I have married both types of man and the first is definitely the way to go. The second is a straight up nightmare and I would never do that again! Lol
And if they bring up the lame second wife business then it definitely a deal breaker. Like hey buddy just because I'm mentally I'll does not mean I cannot fulfill your rights is what I'd say to that...maybe I would choose not to. Though after that lame excuse if I ever heard one!
Give me break. Seriously
That's what I'm talking about. Nightmare!
Well at least your track record is good. Nobody can fault you for that:)
if you are 40 and divorced the chances of finding that pious person dramatically decrease...its like you have the plague.
But I'm fine with it
I have learned to love myself:)
I'm kind of scared that marriage again would cut into my 'me time'. Lol
May Allah grant us pious spouses. Ameen
Lisa
actually sister, there is a lot of social stigma attached to me because of my questionable past - and though those days are over for long loooong time now, my community doesn't forget...
.... I still hear the taunts sometimes and it upsets me, but I just move on to the next distraction - like coffee, or cake. Something to forget the blues, you know :)
Scimi
EDIT: I know what you mean by the "cut into my ME time" - trust me :) I sometimes feel the same way too. haha