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My mother forced me to shave for a job interview, and still isn't letting me apply

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    My mother forced me to shave for a job interview, and still isn't letting me apply (OP)


    I'm looking to apply for my first job. This job was a grocery clerk job at a grocery store named Publix, and my mother, whenever she wants me to look "presentable" makes me shave, so she called while at work and forced me to shave. She came home, and said I didn't shave all the way (I shaved but had a few hairs left on the side of my face), and told me to shave the rest. I lost it and argued with her, and she left the house in her car, and isn't answering my calls. Keep in mind, the publix is not within a walking distance because the sidewalk is closed and being demolished for construction, and it is still far and I am physically weak, and I can not apply online, they said online I have to go to the store in person and apply at their job application machine (and I don't have a car or driver's license yet) all the while my father is getting on my case about not working or applying for jobs enough. What should I do? EDIT: I already told her multiple times that growing a beard is sunnah, and showed her the text in sahih al bukhari that say so, but she doesn't listen, saying "those rules dont apply now". My dad said, "that was an arab tradition for desert dwellers" and he once said upon seeing my full beard, "you look like ISIS" and when I debate my mother over beards, she says, "what are you, a salafi?" or "what are you, a wahhabi?"
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    Re: My mother forced me to shave for a job interview, and still isn't letting me appl

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    format_quote Originally Posted by glitterprincess View Post
    Well she has the rights to do so yes it is not recommended and probably isn't the best choice of clothing but she has the rights to do so just like you have the rights to keep your beard or shave it as long as it's not harming anyone ( sorry if i sound a little defensive and all i am saying is my opinion in this post and the one above i am in no way a schooler and i don't even know much i am just trying to give you my opinion so don't quote me on anything i am just trying to help) just wanted to clarify that but yes these days you may find very feminine males and very manly females but you shouldn't judge them and give them a chance and help them after all the way you talk or walk or dress isn't everything maybe you will be the reason they change to a better person
    I live in a political correctness world called Canada. It is a liberal world mentality and telling a feminine male or masculine female why it is wrong or give my opinion will get me arrested. They are grown people and they should be able to know what is right or wrong. I am not looking for trouble. If a mother decides to dress her boy(s) with girly dress and high heels and give him purses and make him wear makeup that is her prerogative. Let her do what she wants with her child(ren). In the end she will be accountable for her actions and the child will come back to her in the afterlife (and this life) for what she did to him. When the child grows up to an adult, he is responsible for his decisions. If he chooses to continue in this path then he is accountable for his actions and not his mother. There are many signs and times in society that tells him what is right or wrong when it comes to gender behavior and how each gender should wear.

    Me going to some feminine drag queen and telling him this is wrong is only asking for trouble and I have enough in my plate to add more to it. Masculine women are psycho at foot, especially the ones who inject hormones (testosterone) in them. Last thing I want to do is talk to some dyke, lesbian masculine woman and tell her she is wrong. You just want to see my face platted in TV screen don't you? LOL
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    Re: My mother forced me to shave for a job interview, and still isn't letting me appl

    Listen to your mother and get a life ! Someday you will pray to Allah almighty for her. Not everyone needs to be jihadi, Just live a sensible god fearing life. That’s all.
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    format_quote Originally Posted by Bismillah666 View Post
    Listen to your mother and get a life ! Someday you will pray to Allah almighty for her. Not everyone needs to be jihadi, Just live a sensible god fearing life. That’s all.
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