I have a question that is really bothering me deep inside of me. I hear that boys are all in crisis and so many adults are indifference with it or some even giggle and laugh and appraise how girls are succeeding while boys are failing. So I have a question to ask. Is what we are doing pleasing to Allah (Subhanahu Wa Talaa)? Is this what Allah wants? That girls dominate and succeed and boys to be failures and left behind and not even looked at? Is this what we consider justice? Is this what Islam teaches us? To neglect boys? To not care to bother to raise them and give them proper love? I see fathers are all danddy with girls and love that girls are attached to them and let their boys behind. Is this justice? Is this revenge? What is this exactly? Is this how we treat people?
For sisters out there. Say you are happy to hear you are better than your brothers and that you have more wealth, power, intelligence, you name it and you are successful. Would you be happy to marry a man who is less than you? Would you be happy that all the husbands have little education, only think of sports, don't have power or decision making and you have to raise the children and him as well? Would you like that? Does that empower you? Do you want to be the head of the household where you bark orders and he and the children submit and obey you? Does that make you happy? Do you feel honored and protected? Do you want to be the one that run society and family and have your husband nothing more than a sperm bank where you can conceive? If that makes you happy and you like that..why not be like the bees. You see in the bees all the workers are female and then there is a queen bee who mate with the drones. The drones are males. Ones the queen bee mate with the drones the drones are left to die out as they have fulfilled their purpose and she produces thousands of work bees to run the colony. We can skip that by having a lab where we generate sperm..female sperm endlessly and have an all female society. This way...we can remove half the male out and we have full functioning happily female society that runs all the affair. Is that the society you want. We can do it and I will not object or complain..as long as it is a successful society then so be it.
You don't have to go through marriage, have a husband or deal with sons who need extra attention to learn. We can do this if you want. Or..you can live with two gender society..male and female and both play their role and you can help in getting boys as well to catch up and do good and not have boys in crisis. So my Dua'a this. If no one cares for boys and their failure and find it a mockery and a joke and happy to see girls successful...then my Dua'a is this, "May Allah (Subhanahu Wa Talaa) remove all boys from Earth and keep only handful to families who actually love boys, love sons and who willing to go to the mountain and back to make sure he is successful, in this life and after life and that he have a loving father and mother who would do anything for him. Who give him purpose. Who look at boys in crisis as something serious and not a joke or fun." Because remember for all families who do have boys...you can put him in the corner like a cat or a dog and neglect him because he is too much work..because he needs too much attention...but in the afterlife he is going to come at your neck and demand justice and Allah (Subnahua Wa Talaa) will give it to him and my hope that he will demand your paradise. My hope that he will take all your good deeds and he gives you all his bad deeds. That is my hope for all the parents out there who neglect their sons.
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sons and who willing to go to the mountain and back to make sure he is successful, in this life and after life-
...for all that you feel, the above is the reality of the matter.
Until men can come to terms with the consequences of lapsing in religion.. nothing will change.
And for a time we are exempt in ignorance.. we would hope anyway.
Maybe the day comes when we enter a society where other men will turn a blind eye to our faults.. if only to derive benefit from and importance over us.
Or maybe we are replaced by those willing to take our places..
It's extremely complicated and even if we are steadfast things may not always go out way.
It's a learning experience, I don't really know what we bring to the people who are in our lives.
I doubt very much that the nature of man or woman has changed over time.. our understanding of those roles has changed.
Spend some time in the company of two women and maybe the truth becomes clear.
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Spend some time in the company of two women and maybe the truth becomes clear.
Can you elaborate more on what you mean by that?
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Until men can come to terms with the consequences of lapsing in religion.. nothing will change.
I agree in above 100%
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I doubt very much that the nature of man or woman has changed over time.. our understanding of those roles has changed.
I agree that boys and girls have not changed since the beginning of Adam to be honest. What I don't think should have being done is the role changes. When each gender is created in such away to function for a certain role changing the role will cause problems. Why in the world should a role be changed? The nature of the physical of that gender will not change just because we think it should change. The very destruction of society is the changing the gender role. I will put full hardly the blame in Westernization and Feminist and you name it..but I also put the blame on us. Where we are so attached to this world and want success in this world we are willing to destroy our sons for it. That is where my rage comes in.
Be honest with me M.I.A, right now...how many fathers out there are actually giving their sons a purpose and gender role? How many fathers out there going out of his way to be with his son and teach him to be a man, teach him his role and so on. How many fathers out there are friends with their sons..actually enjoy being with their sons? So many fathers are obsessed with working and making money and climbing the corporate ladder. So many boys grow up without purpose...they focus only in sports...and we have boys in crisis. Let me tell you...in the long run it does not help anyone when the pendulum is tilted into extreme opposite direction. I want to see 90% of boys in society who look up to their fathers as heroes and not some pop cultured musician in TV.
I am not lying to you when I said this....but when I was in the skytrain coming home only a week ago or some what...I saw a father carrying his son...the tiny little arm of that boy was wrapped around the neck of the father...the boy did not stop smiling...did not stop being happy...and he was soooooooooooooo quiet and well behaved. The father was smiling too..and the father did little motion of playing with his son by making his son go and down fast and the child laughed and wrapped around his father's neck even more.
Another time in different day...a father was sitting in the bus with his son. His son is so well behaved..so calm..so relaxed and looked so mature too. Boys are human being who deserve our love and respect and to be treated well. Not to be drugged and without purpose. These two boys had their natural pills and it is called a dad. Dad's are the natural drugs for sons to be calmed and relaxed. Dads are the natural remedy for their sons to be well behaved and even increase in intelligence. Sons want to play with their dads.
In the old times fathers used to take their sons out for hunting. Taught him how to be a man. Taught him honor, discipline. Showed him the ropes of the world. Taught him to strive for success. Gave him a lineage and something to look for. Gave him a role. A purpose. Now you see lots of healthy boys and young men in streets..just doing nothing. Without purpose. Never saw how to be a man. How to be a dad. Boys are in crisis. This is no joke. It need to be fixed. Gender role need to return and boys need to take their place again. This is abuse and wallahi if we do not change and we do not care what happened to boys..and then I hear a boy going to school and mass shooting...I will laugh and say, "Atta boy". I say go for it. When I hear women screaming where are the good men are? I will be jumping and dancing. You want to know why? Because majority of women now do not marry a man for his religion. Do not marry a man for his character. DO NOT MARRY A MAN TO BE A GOOD FATHER. Majority of women are looking for that baaad boy whom they want to try to go under the hood to change. When more women seek out bad men..more good men want to become bad men.
When majority of women want worldly things...men who cannot afford worldly things will start doing illegal things to get it to please his womenfolk. Both men and women need to change their ways fast. Women fighting to take over men's role..in my opinion is as evil as a man going out of his way and killing people. Both genders SHOULD NOT CROSS BOUNDARIES because destroying one gender will destroy the other. Because if women did succeed in destroying her men forever and she got it all...and she is at the top of the mountain screaming, "I RULE THE WOORLD!" Let me tell you..you lost. You did not win.
Have anyone played Ultima 7 serpent Isle? That game of course have shirk on it..but the story concept there are two forms of faction...order of chaos and order of Order.
Chaos
* Tolerance is that which encourages the acceptance of all things.
* Enthusiasm is the energy that allows one to perform great tasks.
* Emotion is the ability to perceive those feelings that come from the heart, as
opposed to those from the mind.
Order
* Ethicality is the belief that there is great value in abiding by rules of
conduct.
* Discipline is the drive to complete a task and avoid the distractions that
will prevent its completion.
* Logic permits clear, reasoned thought, free from any instinctual biases.
Chaos is about emotions, tolerance, etc, vs order of Order about Ethicality, discipline and logic. When there is no balance between them..one faction will destroy the second faction..and when such destruction occurs...they go insane and both lose.
Something need to be done or society will not succeed if men are destroyed. I say when boys are in crisis...I am looking at it...as society is in crisis even if women are successful. Society is in crisis and society have failed when boys have failed and are in crisis.
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As Salaam Alaykom Brothers, Sisters,
Both secular culture and many traditional cultures practice the Magic of Babel. After the Prophet many cultures continued these practices. Classical Muslim scholars speak of being initiated into the higher sciences( esoteric schools, gnosis, metaphysics secrete societies). Ibn Battuta talks about meeting Muslims in his travels across the world that followed ways of life and faith not commanded in Islam. Most of the world before colonialism began to openly practice (secrete school and initiation).
And colonialism and the nations state created a more organized practice of secrete culture and secular culture across the world. Talking about the marriage problem and acting as if the world if it is a general social change is a lie. It is a crisis that is corrupting faith and intentionally trying to corrupt all people by demanding ways of living, sexual and cultural practices haram in Islam.
The Problem both youth Man and WombMan, in the modern world, include culturally expected social policy of nations and traditional culture. That support ideas of artificial created struggle, bias and division. Class and Cast names and identities never commanded and are not a part of Islam. And, Islam tell Muslims never to identify with cultural ideas not acceptable in Islam and choose Islam. People fear to talk about it.
Muslims have submitted themselves to the the unjust ideas and choose to sacrifice true faith and their Children's faith and personal development-including marriage, for comfort and safety from social policy, and their traditional culture.The problem is the problem is getting worse the the ruling nations are gaining more power, taking control of resources around the world and in nation. Including work, food supply, water and other.
Many nations have been beaten down and now function like undeveloped preindustrial nations and others were never allowed to develop.The Muslims Ummah is lieing. They are lieing about practicing Islam. Muslims follow their traditions and cultures and submit to the demands of secular culture. That is why Muslims are not getting married. It is a crisis and is designed to destroy the faith, development of the Muslims world. And prevent a next generation of fully developed Muslims with strong and sincere faith in Islam.In Place mystery religion/secrete tradition, follow beliefs and practices not commanded in Islam creating false ideas of religion and false ideas about god.
The Quran curses the Munafiqueen people that put on a image of Islam but are not truly with Islam. Most Muslims never see it in the Image of self. But people are afraid they are afraid of suffering a bad life or being harmed and are willing to sell their family, community members and other people out. This is like the time of the antichrits/Dajjal, Gog and Magog and other event. But The Quran is different from hadith because, all Allah says is true(relevant) at all times. Muslims and believers in all times struggle with the event they say are in the future. Reading the Quran, Muslims know they are a Ummah, a people/nation/community with Muslims of all races/ethnic groups/people, and all sect.The Quran is clear about what is happening in the world Muslims have ignored it because family, community and society has trained people to be ashamed of faith. The Quran is true and perfect, people are inperfect. People can live good and see the truth with patience, moderation, true following of Islam, saying no to/rejecting the shaytonic mind control of society, and traditional community and secrete group. All three practice the magic of babel.
The example is the Prophets community. Different ethnic group lived in villages/tribes of their people other lived in mixed group but all were one community of Believers and share community and Masjid. Muslims of all sects and ethnic group need to share community. This will help Muslims that want to live as Muslims defend themselves from culture, social expectation in societies, and social policy.
Please read the Masjid Community Plan - in the general discussion forum.
Please visit the instant messenger for the Masjid Community Plan.
Site: zakatmasjidproject.wixsite.com/home
Reader that takes this writing for harm to other or use any forum to harm, false guide or control other are committing a crime and great sin. Do not follow the demands of mystery religion/culture, the secrete societies, secrete traditional culture should know all practice the magic of Babel. Islam, tell Muslims not to practice magic, the magic of Babel, false culture practices of their ancestors, fear anything more than Allah, or obey and accept corruption or submit to oppression like what people are doing when they practice these cultures and follow secular social policy.
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