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    Wife get upset at me for very petty things...wut do?

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    Like for example we're getting along fine then all of a sudden I did no wrong but just being me and she would say something that she would want a specific response to get but I have no idea then she goes not talking to me the whole day..assuming I'm not having fun with her. What the heck??!

    You can't expect to change a person but they have to themselves right????

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    Re: Wife get upset at me for very petty things...wut do?

    And we get upset of your absurd threads
    Wife get upset at me for very petty things...wut do?

    “Either seem as you are or be as you seem” Rumi

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    Re: Wife get upset at me for very petty things...wut do?

    Quote Originally Posted by Stoic View Post
    Like for example we're getting along fine then all of a sudden I did no wrong but just being me and she would say something that she would want a specific response to get but I have no idea then she goes not talking to me the whole day..assuming I'm not having fun with her. What the heck??!

    You can't expect to change a person but they have to themselves right????
    when couple loves each other then this kind of miffing is common in married life. So take it easy.

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    Re: Wife get upset at me for very petty things...wut do?

    Quote Originally Posted by azc View Post
    when couple loves each other then this kind of miffing is common in married life. So take it easy.
    No, do not take it easy. If you ignore the situation it will only get worse. There is a reason for everything. Ask her. What is it that makers her sad. Perhaps you are ignorant of the reality where she sees something that you don't. Be real with her, she is your wife. Maybe you are not being a good husband. Be a man and be upfront with your wife.

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    Re: Wife get upset at me for very petty things...wut do?

    Quote Originally Posted by ahmed.younes View Post
    No, do not take it easy. If you ignore the situation it will only get worse. There is a reason for everything. Ask her. What is it that makers her sad. Perhaps you are ignorant of the reality where she sees something that you don't. Be real with her, she is your wife. Maybe you are not being a good husband. Be a man and be upfront with your wife.
    plz see OP's other threads as well.

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    Re: Wife get upset at me for very petty things...wut do?

    Quote Originally Posted by Stoic View Post
    Like for example we're getting along fine then all of a sudden I did no wrong but just being me and she would say something that she would want a specific response to get but I have no idea then she goes not talking to me the whole day..assuming I'm not having fun with her. What the heck??!

    You can't expect to change a person but they have to themselves right????
    Rule number 1
    Never make your personal/marital problems public by discussing them on a public forum. Never, ever, ever - ever!

    Rule number 2
    Speak to people you know and trust. The advice of a trusted confidante is likely to be personalised, considerate, and thoughtful.

    Rule number 3
    Be patient.

    Rule number 4
    Talk to your wife. Resolve your issues with her. Not with strangers who have nothing to do with the issues at hand.
    Last edited by 'Abd-al Latif; 08-05-2018 at 06:28 PM.
    Wife get upset at me for very petty things...wut do?

    And verily for everything that a slave loses there is a substitute, but the one who loses Allah will never find anything to replace Him.”
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    Re: Wife get upset at me for very petty things...wut do?

    Quote Originally Posted by 'Abd-al Latif View Post
    Rule number 1
    Never make your personal/marital problems public by discussing them on a public forum. Never, ever, ever - ever!

    Rule number 2
    Speak to people you know and trust. The advice of a trusted confidante is likely to be personalised, considerate, and thoughtful.

    Rule number 3
    Be patient.

    Rule number 4
    Talk to your wife. Resolve your issues with her. Not with strangers who have nothing to do with the issues at hand.
    I agree! 100000000000000000000000000%!!!!! NO ONE HERE IS EVER QUALIFIED to answer marriage problems and bias and prejudice will cause more harm than good. Leave affair matters to family matters. I doubt the world would want to know of my dirty laundry -_-

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    Re: Wife get upset at me for very petty things...wut do?

    brother dont worry tooo much, this is what happens in married life haha, as long as it doesnt get too far to the point you both are constantly arguing everyday, you should look into it and see whats going on

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    Re: Wife get upset at me for very petty things...wut do?

    "she would say something that she would want a specific response to get but I have no idea then she goes not talking to me the whole day"

    That's a bit childish to be honest. Just acknowledge her concerns or queries, tell her you'll think about it and respond when you obtain a good answer. Or, maybe she's not talking to you because she's thinking about the answers herself or other things. Difficult to say.....but May Allah bless your marriage with goodness. Ameen.

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    Re: Wife get upset at me for very petty things...wut do?

    Fighting in Islam is a natural aspect of life. There are no two thoughts on it really. However when I fight with my husband or he fights with me. we start talking about hadith and how to improve our lives. we revert to islamic verses and it makes us feel better. both of us. I recommend this to everyone.

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    Fighting in Islam is a natural aspect of life. There are no two thoughts on it really. However when I fight with my husband or he fights with me. we start talking about hadith and how to improve our lives. we revert to islamic verses and it makes us feel better. both of us. I recommend this to everyone.

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    Re: Wife get upset at me for very petty things...wut do?

    Ask her openly y she behaving like this . If she doesnt answer u can discuss with her family specially whome u r close with . Let her family handle her .there will be sure to be a solution

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