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    What is wrong with me? Am I really that shallow? (OP)


    Asslamualaikum,

    first and foremost, I apologize that I annoy you with my marriage questions. However, I don't understand myself anymore. As you may already know form my prior posts, I am really frustrated about finding a wife. So desperate that I decided to use one of this apps where muslims can look for a spouse. I know, it's not ideal, and I don't like it, but otherwise I will never complete the half of my deen.

    Now the issues: I am really disgusted of myself. I cannot believe how shallow I am. There is knowledgeable sister that I am talking to, but she is not attractive too me and a bit overweight. I know we are supposed to look at the religion in the first place, but what to do if you find the opposite not attractive at all? I hate it to bring myself into such situation. It is just hard to imagine to go for someone you don't feel attracted to at all. And there are narrations that tells us, that RasulAllah once said to a Sahaba, that he shouldn't get married to that specific Sahabi because the eyes of that folk are different.

    How I am gonna say that I am not interested anymore without hurting her feelings? I mean it natural that you need to find the opposite at least kind of attractive.

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