Kufar believes (non-Muslims) amongst us here in this channel and anyone of the non-Muslims who come and read this topic believe that bullying is a form of making a boy into a man. It is a good thing, right? If boys don't get bullied how do they know how to survive in the world outside where it is survival to the fittest?. So they believe, bullying is part of identifying your supremacy in the world and your hierarchy in the food chain. They even justify it by saying it is done since beginning of man-kind and it is a natural order and you must be strong to physically and verbally fight bullying back to show you are not weak, this you get to obtain the throne of the bully. Then you can have your own little minions to work under your feet while you sit on the throne, until a stronger bully comes to take over your throne. Better yet, to show the chick out there you are of the strong gene and you get to get a mate by showing your the alpha male.
Isn't that what non-Muslim and some Muslim believe about bullies? Will let me tell you...you are an idiot. Sorry, but you are. This is what Allah (Subhanahu Wa Talaa) says about bullies:
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Ahmad Akmal
1 year ago
I was bullied before, then I decide to pick an iron rod and hit them on their head, the floor was messy, I was covered in blood, plus I threat to kill them, and they run away like a coward, plus they leave their motorcycles behind. Had to take shower after that tho. The consequences of doing so are.. one of the bullies get a ticket to the emergency room, and then I nearly got a ticket to the prison also or juvenile, well it happens, Since that day, people start to think of me as an evil spawn, cruel what not. This thing I did, I regret it, it impacts a lot of people, not just yourself, family, friend. My advice for those that still being bullied is don't use violence, stand for yourself without being a jerk, I mean being witty and smart or astute about yourself, find a friend that is willing to support you(this is important), happen to me when I was bullied, nor friend or teacher come to aid, they just ignore it, ignore like I wasn't there. Trust in Allah, well being bullied teach you about patient and endurance. So instead of asking "why me?" try to say "try me" see it as a test from Allah(truth) everything happen in your life is for you to be stronger like a seed(suffering) grow into a tree(your ability like patient and endurance).
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See....violence is not the way of doing things...it makes it worse.
Oooh...one thing for girls here. You bullying each other is WORSE than boys bullying each other, when you girls hurt each other....you HURT worse than a nuclear bomb. Your tongue. Your tongue is deadly. Your tongue is a powerful weapon, more powerful than a thousand men. You could destroy a human being and scar them for life worse than a stab on the heart with a knife. Fear Allah, don't bully each other. Fear Allah and form a good sisterhood, please. Same for brothers. We should form good brotherhood. I was watching a movie in NetFlix and a story of a young woman in highschool....she get bullied so much by other girls and the evil oppressor did not even touch her physically...it was all sharp tongue. She destroyed her with her tongue so much....that the victim became a psychopath, the victim followed the oppressor...knocked her on the head with a stone and removed her heart with her own hand and killed her. When you kill someone with your tongue, you don't know what reaction the victim will do to you. remember, in Islam there are types of murder. One of them is by the tongue. Non-Muslim world believe only type of murder is by physical....no....that is wrong. There are three types of way to murder someone and one of them IS THE TONGUE even if that person is alive...you have murdered him or her and YOU will be accounted in the afterlife as if you murdered that person physically.
Subahanallah, yes I agree, there is aspects like spiritual murder or murder of the heart. When you scar someone emotionally, that impact is MUCH worse than bruises. People like those, deserve to get the harshest punishment. Sadly even among Muslims, they are seen trivial and even fatwa against them let them off loose
Subahanallah, yes I agree, there is aspects like spiritual murder or murder of the heart. When you scar someone emotionally, that impact is MUCH worse than bruises. People like those, deserve to get the harshest punishment. Sadly even among Muslims, they are seen trivial and even fatwa against them let them off loose
Well, it is not man who decree what is trivial or not. Anyone who just follow some man's fatwa to fulfill his desires and it is against Qura'an (word of Allah) and the prophets then how is that any different than the Christians who they come to the "Father" to seek forgiveness instead of going to Allah directly and ask for forgiveness? Think about it for a second. Bullying is not trivial in Islam, as there is an entire verse in the Quran that talks about it. Allah himself is giving warning to the one who bullies. Severe warning. Now, tell me. Is bullying trivial?
No you are right. It is not yet the bullies often get away with it. There is no punishment by law or anything. If anything it is his word against his.
I assure you he didn't get away with it. Even if you think he got away with it and didn't get punished in this world, you are wrong. He is getting punished, it just not your way of concept of what punishment is. He will get punished by his wealth, his healthy, his relationship, his life and his children. Then he may be at risk of losing the afterlife or for sure will be punished in the afterlife. He aint getting away with it. Don't think for it for a split second. Same goes to women who bully men and other women too. They think they may get away with it, but they will not. Same goes to parents who verbally abuse their children. Same to men who bully or abuse their womenfolk. It all goes around, nothing goes away and leave unscathed. Nothing. Yesterday, I was watching a movie about two men going out for hunting. They wanted to shoot some deer. When they he aimed and hit the trigger, the second the bullet left the sniper the deer lifted his head and the bullet went and hit a boy in the head killing him. His friend shot the father of the boy as the father was weeping for the death of his son and he grabbed the rifle looking at the men who shot his son. They both went frantic and tried to burred the corpses and try to escape from the town. Only they never was able to escape from the town and the truth was finally revealed. Again, those are non-Muslim people so Allah brought justice to them in this world (in the afterlife, they will be thrown in hellfire. I am unsure for the non-Muslim child though). But what you see here is justice is brought to them even if they are disbelievers. So what about a believing Muslim who is oppressed by another Muslim. Don't fret. Allah will not leave anyone in this world or afterlife. There is even a risk of danger for the bullies who may lose their ima'an believing they can get away with it. Isn't that in itself sufficient punishment for them?
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