bein ramadan and that, sometimes some of us, do forget that its just not us fastin, our other family, friends are fastin!
so if we feel weak, have a headache, they have the same problems, subhanallah, so we should always think about others aswell as ourselfs!
so like when you get food or anythin, dont criticize it lol subhanallah, at iftari parties i always hear the salt is less the salt is more, this is tasteless bla blaa! well what do you expect? the person cookin it was fastin aswell, many people often have this attitude of "im the only one fastin" well wake up and smell the coffee its ramadan so eat whatever you get, and be grateful, because some people dont even have food to open their fasts! and follow the Prophet (saw) ...
Abu Hurairah (May Allah be pleased with him) reported: Messenger of Allah (PBUH) never found fault with food. If he had inclination to eating it, he would eat; and if he disliked it, he would leave it.
Al-Bukhari and Muslim]
also when fastin out comes the moodyness in some people and some people outcomes the niceness! we want more niceness peoples we love you!! the moodyness people we love you too, but get rid of the moodyness, like if your moody to someone, your gona get moodyness back! like treat people the way you want to be treated! and in a hadiths the Prophet (saw) says ....
"Whoever is not merciful to others will not be treated mercifully." [Bukhari]
and thats true for this life and in the next life!
so inshallah bein ramadan and that we can take heed of these reminders! no one is perfect, but no one is that messed up not to improve themselfs aswell!
cheerios
ramadan mubarak!
Jaa-Ro-Nee-Mo!!!
"they ask you when will the help of Allah (swt) come! Certainly Allah (Swt) help is always near"
JazakAllah Khair for that Akhee, Unfortunately,very few men are like this, they will hardly ever praise food, but just scoff it down without taking a breath and if it ever goes wrong they throw a fit esp in Ramadan, without even considering that the women too were fasting.Many talk about the Prophet but very few can emulate him entirely, or even partially. sad huh.
My heart, so precious,
I won't trade for a hundred thousand souls.
Your one smile takes it for free.Rumi
Jazaak Allaah Khayr for the reminders. lol it is so true thou, sometimes we behave in certain ways and we dont even realise it...well i dont anyway! Insh-Allah i will be more considerate in future
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