You know how you hear people saying they visited a certain person who told them about whats going to happen for example A family member went to someone asking them marriage advice between two people and he advised that this marriage would not happen and even if it did it wud be unsuccessful.. is this something we should believe in?
The couple did not get married in the end...
Take advice from people in the family who are wise and respected, but at the end of the day...all you'll get is an opinion. Nobody can say that such and such a thing will happen or will not happen. That knowledge lies with Allah alone. So trust in Him, make istikharah and go for it.
Nope, I don't think this is something we should believe in.
The main quality your looking for when getting married is whether or not the person is pious. Regarding whether a marriage should happen or not, one must pray Istikharah salaat as this is asking for Allah's guidance on the matter.
slightly diverted topic. I prayed ishtikara and Im sure I had a dream that things dont work work.. what should I do now?
I pray that Allah swt guides me to what is right for me..
dont go to these people who think they can tell you what can happen in your married life, baba so and so so, worreva! its lies!
also sister, from istikhara its not always a dream, it can be somethin you see in life, like stuff might begin to happen which will guide you inshallah
Jaa-Ro-Nee-Mo!!!
"they ask you when will the help of Allah (swt) come! Certainly Allah (Swt) help is always near"
slightly diverted topic. I prayed ishtikara and Im sure I had a dream that things dont work work.. what should I do now?
I pray that Allah swt guides me to what is right for me..
Can you advise me on the best way to do istikhaara? please. Many thanks.
format_quote Originally Posted by chacha_jalebi
dont go to these people who think they can tell you what can happen in your married life, baba so and so so, worreva! its lies!
also sister, from istikhara its not always a dream, it can be somethin you see in life, like stuff might begin to happen which will guide you inshallah
Thankyou for that InshAllah try to keep away from such ppl , however one more question how do you know? how can you tell when things happen in your life which direction to take? confused please enlighten me.
format_quote Originally Posted by chacha_jalebi
dont go to these people who think they can tell you what can happen in your married life, baba so and so so, worreva! its lies!
also sister, from istikhara its not always a dream, it can be somethin you see in life, like stuff might begin to happen which will guide you inshallah
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Can you advise me on the best way to do istikhaara? please. Many thanks.
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