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    AssalamuAlaykum

    Or you could call them phobias. (Please dont merge this with another :$)

    Do you have any? Like something really really irrational...?

    I dont get how we know its irrational yet we still continue to fear it

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    Re: Irrational fears

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    Re: Irrational fears

    I have a weird phobia, well i wouldn't really call it a phobia cos it isn't that serious. It doesnt have a name so i will give it one... handbreakophobia. Doesn't sound v. good like, well anyways, i no someone hu didn't put their handbreak on properly and so their car was rolling away and nearly crashed. Ever since i have heard this story i have a phobia i might forget to put my handbreak on (being the idiot i am) so i'm sometimes double checking my car hasn't rolled away lol.
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    Re: Irrational fears

    format_quote Originally Posted by Mysterious Uk View Post
    I have a weird phobia, well i wouldn't really call it a phobia cos it isn't that serious. It doesnt have a name so i will give it one... handbreakophobia. Doesn't sound v. good like, well anyways, i no someone hu didn't put their handbreak on properly and so their car was rolling away and nearly crashed. Ever since i have heard this story i have a phobia i might forget to put my handbreak on (being the idiot i am) so i'm sometimes double checking my car hasn't rolled away lol.
    Happened to me too...:$

    but it didnt develop into a phobia alhamdulillah
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    Re: Irrational fears

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    Is fear of attention irrational?

    format_quote Originally Posted by Amatul Wadud View Post
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    LOL, fear of men, that's so irrational . Fear of women on the other hand is... totally rational! *Runs away*

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    Re: Irrational fears

    i used to have a phobia of peanut butter until one of my friends tricked me into eatin a peanut butter biscuit and all was well

    like phobias are all in the mind, if your scared of ants or whatever, just get someone to lock you in a room full of ants, and make sure they stand at the door and hold it down, so you cant escape and after the intial trauma and screamin you will get used to them and woo hoo you will be cured!!!
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    Re: Irrational fears

    format_quote Originally Posted by chacha_jalebi View Post
    i used to have a phobia of peanut butter until one of my friends tricked me into eatin a peanut butter biscuit and all was well

    like phobias are all in the mind, if your scared of ants or whatever, just get someone to lock you in a room full of ants, and make sure they stand at the door and hold it down, so you cant escape and after the intial trauma and screamin you will get used to them and woo hoo you will be cured!!!
    peanut butter!

    yeah thats a technique known as flooding. Can be dangerous though.

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    Re: Irrational fears

    format_quote Originally Posted by chacha_jalebi View Post
    i used to have a phobia of peanut butter until one of my friends tricked me into eatin a peanut butter biscuit and all was well

    like phobias are all in the mind, if your scared of ants or whatever, just get someone to lock you in a room full of ants, and make sure they stand at the door and hold it down, so you cant escape and after the intial trauma and screamin you will get used to them and woo hoo you will be cured!!!
    Yeh, i'm not guna put my handbreak on and crash into a wall just kidding.
    Last edited by Mysterious Uk; 12-01-2008 at 11:14 PM. Reason: didnt make sense
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    Re: Irrational fears

    what do you mean by irrational?

    if someone fears men and they are women and if a man fears a woman, not me ofcourse , but the world will call them all sorts of names
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    Re: Irrational fears

    format_quote Originally Posted by chacha_jalebi View Post
    what do you mean by irrational?

    if someone fears men and they are women and if a man fears a woman, not me ofcourse , but the world will call them all sorts of names
    irrational like you know its something u have no need to be afraid of....it doesnt make sense yet u still fear it
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    Re: Irrational fears

    but to some people some fears might be irrational and some fears to others may be rational,

    like my mum is really freaked by snakes, and my dad thinks thats a old of crap so again it depends on peoples views!

    the most interestin bit about phobias, is that they are triggered by childhood experiences
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    Re: Irrational fears

    format_quote Originally Posted by chacha_jalebi View Post

    the most interestin bit about phobias, is that they are triggered by childhood experiences
    I refuse to believe that!

    My childhood was fab alhamdulillah! Dont know where my retarded fears come from
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    Re: Irrational fears

    format_quote Originally Posted by Amatul Wadud View Post
    I refuse to believe that!

    My childhood was fab alhamdulillah! Dont know where my retarded fears come from
    Yeh i think some phobias can be explained by childhood experiences, not all phobias though.
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    Re: Irrational fears

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    not negative childhood experiences, like there must have been somethin in your childhood that makes you fear whatever you doooo diddly doo, for example who remembas goosebumps them horror books, someone i know is scared of bumps or bumpy thins because them books freaked them out when they was small,

    it dont mean you had bad childhood event, it could be a event or situation, like a ant was crawlin on you when you were sleepin and you began hatin ants, summin like that
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    Re: Irrational fears

    format_quote Originally Posted by chacha_jalebi View Post
    truss sister

    not negative childhood experiences, like there must have been somethin in your childhood that makes you fear whatever you doooo diddly doo, for example who remembas goosebumps them horror books, someone i know is scared of bumps or bumpy thins because them books freaked them out when they was small,

    it dont mean you had bad childhood event, it could be a event or situation, like a ant was crawlin on you when you were sleepin and you began hatin ants, summin like that
    LoL oh right. Well it's ur own fault we didn't understand like, u shuda been clearer
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    Re: Irrational fears


    format_quote Originally Posted by Amatul Wadud View Post
    AssalamuAlaykum

    Or you could call them phobias. (Please dont merge this with another :$)

    Do you have any? Like something really really irrational...?

    I dont get how we know its irrational yet we still continue to fear it

    WassalamuAlaykum
    i used to have this really abnormal fear of earthquakes ...it was long ago...maybe it was more of an anxiety...duno...

    otherwise, i cant really think of anything unique, so to speak, that im afraid of that most people would be too...
    okay thats half a lie
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    Re: Irrational fears

    format_quote Originally Posted by Amatul Wadud View Post
    I refuse to believe that!

    My childhood was fab alhamdulillah! Dont know where my retarded fears come from

    Yea, for instance i was not afraid of the dark when i was a child now for some insane reason i am.:X
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