When they see Non-Muslim Girls they let their guard down, behaving inappropriately (I'll spare u the details). But when the girl in Hijab walks by, he switches to a Shaikh, criticizing her from head to toe. Doesn't all this acting get tiring?
I know this might be mean and all , but these type of men or guys have no self respect at all , in my eyes they are nothing and i think they are not even worthy to make a thread for. It's bad enough that they have sometype of personality disorder.That they have 2 faces , Sister let me give you advice when someone criticises you ignore them and act as if you didnt hear a single word.
A true believer does not go criticising the women in islam and treat them with no respect infact he is not even supposed to be speaking about women at all due to the fact that he is a man let alone criticise them.
These people should fear God in their actions , let me give you a funny experience.
3 years ago my family decided to go to Umrah , and me and my siblings all went, im supposed to be the middle child and so i had to take care of my little sister and make sure she had everything ready. My sister asked me to tell her about the prophet PBUH and i tried telling her about his character as much as i could at that time , i didnt know that there was a bunch of Saudi guys who are actually muslims ofcorse , right infront of me giving me dirty looks and staring at me the funny thing all the tough guy acts were made to me , and not the non muslim , woman wearing the middle skirt that showed more than half her legs out! and you can almost see every single part of her body how did they treat her , just as fancy as any guy would want to treat and elegant english woman.
I then realised that these people cant be honest people i mean i was only 17 and these guys were well of into there 25s if not 30s.
I also realised that there are some people who leave their religion behind their backs and they want to show people that they have no loyalty or respect to their religion or to the people that follow it.
well yes, hypocrites always exist.
I have seen some "muslim" guys doing a lot of indecent things, and it's sad to see this because it hurts the people who recieve these bad gazes and also it harms the picture of islam. A muslim should be careful how he acts, because he may be the first muslim some people knew, and may be the last.
That's said. It's always good not to generalize an observation or an experience, to avoid being paranoïd about every person we meet.
Last edited by marwen; 06-08-2011 at 01:35 PM.
"O you who believe! Fear ALLAH as He should be feared" [aal 'Imraan, 102]
If You're talking about those hijabis who wears long latex boots and tuck under it a tight rugged jeans and a tight che gi vara long sleeves tshirt and a cone head hijab full of swarovski crystals and facial foundation that is lighter than her skinn color plus a green eye liner to match the color of her shirt and a ferari red lips stick to match with her red belt then sure i will criticis her . But to tell you the truth they are head turners for me more than any other girls cos of their unusual look.
I'm having to unlearn everything I've ever known about women. I'm not quite used to the seperation of women from men and the women wearing hijab yet, but the more I am around it, the more comfortable I become. I am actually beginning to appreciate it as it helps me from being distracted from what I'm trying to accomplish.
It fits my personality anyway as I've always been a bit uncomfortable around women anyway.
When they see Non-Muslim Girls they let their guard down, behaving inappropriately (I'll spare u the details).
But when the girl in Hijab walks by, he switches to a Shaikh, criticizing her from head to toe.
Doesn't all this acting get tiring?
I'm not sure. :/
I was looking at myself talking to myself and I realized this conversation...I was having with myself looking at myself was a conversation with myself that I needed to have with myself.
some muslims especially people like these think its alrite to mess around with non-muslims girls but not with muslim ones
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Hmm..I think sisters sometimes call in this category too at times..it's a shame
Salaam sis, what do you mean? i hope you can clarify
Salam , i just remembered an Islamic Proverb- I think it is sufi one. i read a time ago : A hypocrite is the one who has no problem in having relations with other non mahram women , but when it gets to another man doing the same thing with his female family members he gets furious and angry.
Salaam
If You're talking about those hijabis who wears long latex boots and tuck under it a tight rugged jeans and a tight che gi vara long sleeves tshirt and a cone head hijab full of swarovski crystals and facial foundation that is lighter than her skinn color plus a green eye liner to match the color of her shirt and a ferari red lips stick to match with her red belt then sure i will criticis her . But to tell you the truth they are head turners for me more than any other girls cos of their unusual look.
loved the details on that down to the color of the eyeliner ..
Text without context is pretext If your opponent is of choleric temperament, seek to irritate him
Salaam sis, what do you mean? i hope you can clarify
Salam , i just remembered an Islamic Proverb- I think it is sufi one. i read a time ago : A hypocrite is the one who has no problem in having relations with other non mahram women , but when it gets to another man doing the same thing with his female family members he gets furious and angry.
Salaam
I knew someone in grad school like that, forced two of his sisters to wear hijab, and was sampling all the girls on campus.. astghfor Allah.. May Allah swt yihdeeh...
Text without context is pretext If your opponent is of choleric temperament, seek to irritate him
I knew someone in grad school like that, forced two of his sisters to wear hijab, and was sampling all the girls on campus.. astghfor Allah.. May Allah swt yihdeeh...
This world is filled with desires some muslims are happy enjoying these materialistic fitna desires ! may be if ur age is between 15-26 ur freinds and somef ur relatives will tel u be neutral, "if u nt going to enjoy in this age wen r u gonna enjoy ?" and if u have a beard and u r trouser is above ankle theyll call dibs on u and advice u to be neutral I hate wen they say be neutral !!!!
pathetic worldly love
btw abt this post : u cannot blame brothers the correct view is there are many Hippocrates among brothers and as well as sisters they love this world
Well it's the same everywhere, and not just in the Arab world. I've been guilty of it myself. I used to check out girls all the time and then get mad when some random dude eyed my sister.
I think it's more of a man thing and not necessarily a Muslim thing.
When they see Non-Muslim Girls they let their guard down, behaving inappropriately (I'll spare u the details).
But when the girl in Hijab walks by, he switches to a Shaikh, criticizing her from head to toe.
Doesn't all this acting get tiring?
I think we can include sistahs also
Allaah knows best, may Allaah guide those who are in such situations, some people need to focus on themselves before they start looking down or judging another etc etc..
format_quote Originally Posted by marwen
well yes, hypocrites always exist.
I have seen some "muslim" guys doing a lot of indecent things, and it's sad to see this because it hurts the people who recieve these bad gazes and also it harms the picture of islam. A muslim should be careful how he acts, because he may be the first muslim some people knew, and may be the last.
That's said. It's always good not to generalize an observation or an experience, to avoid being paranoïd about every person we meet.
I agree..
format_quote Originally Posted by Getoffmyback
If You're talking about those hijabis who wears long latex boots and tuck under it a tight rugged jeans and a tight che gi vara long sleeves tshirt and a cone head hijab full of swarovski crystals and facial foundation that is lighter than her skinn color plus a green eye liner to match the color of her shirt and a ferari red lips stick to match with her red belt then sure i will criticis her . But to tell you the truth they are head turners for me more than any other girls cos of their unusual look.
lol@ rugged jeans and a cone head hijab full of swarovskhi crystals ..and eye liner to match her t-shirt..
yeah i guess we need to advice someone if we can or make du'aa for their guidance..do as much as we are able to insha'Allaah
.. peace ..
"Allah! La ilaha illa Huwa (none has the right to be worshipped but He), Al-Hayyul-Qayyum (the Ever Living, the One Who sustains and protects all that exists).".."[Al Qur'aan 3:2]
When they see Non-Muslim Girls they let their guard down, behaving inappropriately (I'll spare u the details).
But when the girl in Hijab walks by, he switches to a Shaikh, criticizing her from head to toe.
Doesn't all this acting get tiring?
Asalaamu Alaikum, yes sister surely this is hypocrisy but it also applies to women as well as men. There was a sister on this forum who made a comment very recently saying that she feels more comfortable interacting with non Muslim men simply because in front of a Muslim guy she feels that she has to keep some sort of level of respect. I have seen this happen a lot over the years in so clearly it applies both ways.
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