Alhamdulillaah i got married last sunday and wanted to ask everyone to make dua for me and my wife.
The reason I have shared this in the mixed forum rather then brothers section is because I feel sisters can provide amazing insight into the women's side of married life (help me be more sensitive towards her by advising me)
We performed the Nikkah and will have a feast later.
If anyone has any pearls of wisdom to share I would very much appreciate it.
If anyone has learned from experiences then please let me learn through your errors
I have created this thread simply to open up to peoples experiences and in hopes of being as well prepared as possible (on top of reading all the books so far)
If someone has advise to give of a sensitive nature please feel free to PM me (again sisters also - this is for the sake of Allaah)
Congratulations! Remember our prophet Muhammad's hadith! he said, "The best among you is the best to his wife/wives and kids. And I'm the best among you to my wives and kids. You should be very patient with your wife.
Congratulations! May all your life will be full of happiness.
In the marriage life, we should always remember two little words. They are Thank you and I am sorry. They will help you over the conflicts and the times of misunderstandings.
You will have ups and downs, it's part of the package. Don't give up when you guys are facing tough times. A lot of people these days give up the moment they face an issue with their spouse and the first thing they think of is divorce. If you guys can learn to work things out and make compromises, then I guarantee you the marriage will be stronger and last forever. I'm not married but, trust me on this. I learned this by other people's experiences.
When you guys do experience this, give each other some space as well. Learn the things that make your wife happy and learn the things that piss her off and be sure to stay away from the things that piss her off
I once heard a person giving advice to a groom and he said that a man should fulfil the emotional needs of his wife to the best of his ability-never invalidating her feelings-in return she will do the world for him.
Always express your love in both words and actions.. She knows you have love for her but she would like to hear it too.
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and may Allah bless your marriage with goodness and barakah, ameen.
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