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    I need Help! (OP)


    Asalam Aleikum,

    I recently accepted an agreement to do something haram for money.The other person didn't respect their part of the agreement and took advantage of me. I don't know why i accepted that offer. I don't recognize myself through this mistake. I made that mistake once and completely repented to Allah after that. Since that, I have been sad . I wonder to myself why did Allah allowed someone to hurt me that much. Why didn't He protect me from that evil and protect me from that haram. If This is a trial from Allah Subuhanahu Wa'Tallah how to face it and make the big pain go away ?

    Thank You.

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    Re: I need Help!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Supernova View Post
    Is there any point answering it when all that will happen over again is my defence of my position will be deleted by ops
    That's good..! Let the hate flow through you!

    Let me show the power of the dark side via private message.
    I need Help!

    And verily for everything that a slave loses there is a substitute, but the one who loses Allah will never find anything to replace Him.”
    [Related by Ibn al-Qayyim in ad-Dâ' wad-Dawâ Fasl 49]



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    Re: I need Help!

    Quote Originally Posted by 'Abd-al Latif View Post
    That's good..! Let the hate flow through you!

    Let me show the power of the dark side via private message.
    I don't see how you have assimilated my defence as hate. You are now putting words into my mouth and accusing me of intent.

    Frankly its embarrassing from a Mod.

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    Re: I need Help!

    Chill out you two.
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    Were it not that Allah treats His slaves with the remedy of trials and calamities,
    they would transgress and overstep the mark.
    When Allah wills good for His slaves,
    He gives him the medicine of calamities and trials according to his situation,
    so as to cure him from all fatal illnesses and diseases,
    until He purifies and cleanses him,
    and then makes him qualified for the most honourable position in this world,
    which is that of being a true slave of Allah (‘uboodiyyah),
    and for the greatest reward in the Hereafter,
    which is that of seeing Him and being close to Him.
    [Ibn AlQayyim, Zaad al-Ma’aad, 4/195]

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    Re: I need Help!

    It's a quote from Star Wars bro. The way to the dark side is 'letting the hate flow throw you'. Sarcasm is just one of the services I offer and you'll just have to get used to it.

    And no I don't watch TV but I don't live in a bubble either.
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    And verily for everything that a slave loses there is a substitute, but the one who loses Allah will never find anything to replace Him.”
    [Related by Ibn al-Qayyim in ad-Dâ' wad-Dawâ Fasl 49]



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    Re: I need Help!

    Quote Originally Posted by 'Abd-al Latif View Post
    Sins cause people to despair and think negatively about their situation. Not knowing the way to come back to Allah leads a person to feel a great deal of sadness and confusion. In a situation like this one should advise the other on what to do and do their best to help them on their way to Allah. That's the ultimate goal as nothing else matters.

    We all have a different level of knowledge and iman. Whilst you may see the irony in the statement it's likely that the other person can't.
    I totally agree with this. but then again, we (several people) advised the OP already to repent, make dua, do not repeat it again...but I see no one advising the OP that she shouldn't question Allah's decicions. Allah found it correct that the OP experienced such a mistake and feel bad about it. our destiny or fate is part of Allah's plan...and you just get to accept it. Questioning your fate is pretty much like doubting that Allah is just...which is very dangerous.

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    Re: I need Help!

    Quote Originally Posted by Raki View Post
    Asalam Aleikum,

    I recently accepted an agreement to do something haram for money.The other person didn't respect their part of the agreement and took advantage of me. I don't know why i accepted that offer. I don't recognize myself through this mistake. I made that mistake once and completely repented to Allah after that. Since that, I have been sad . I wonder to myself why did Allah allowed someone to hurt me that much. Why didn't He protect me from that evil and protect me from that haram. If This is a trial from Allah Subuhanahu Wa'Tallah how to face it and make the big pain go away ?

    Thank You.
    Consider the harm you suffered as a punishment for that sin you did. If we deserve hell for commiting haram, then no punishment on earth is too great for it right?

    Also, do not despair, Allah is Most Merciful

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