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اَللَّهُ أَكْبَرُ اللَّهُ أَكْبَرُ اللَّهُ أَكْبَرُ - لَا إلَهَ إلَّا اللَّهُ وَاَللَّهُ أَكْبَرُ اَللَّهُ أَكْبَرُ وَلِلَّهِ الْحَمْد - اَللَّهُ أَكْبَرُ اللَّهُ أَكْبَرُ اللَّهُ أَكْبَرُ - لَا إلَهَ إلَّا اللَّهُ وَاَللَّهُ أَكْبَرُ اَللَّهُ أَكْبَرُ وَلِلَّهِ الْحَمْد - اَللَّهُ أَكْبَرُ اللَّهُ أَكْبَرُ اللَّهُ أَكْبَرُ - لَا إلَهَ إلَّا اللَّهُ وَاَللَّهُ أَكْبَرُ اَللَّهُ أَكْبَرُ وَلِلَّهِ الْحَمْد - اللَّهُ أَكْبَرُ كَبِيرًا وَالْحَمْدُ لِلَّهِ كَثِيرًا وَسُبْحَانَ اللَّهِ بُكْرَةً وَأَصِيلًا
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    Dear brothers and sisters,


    I'm 17 years old, I went to my home country for a year because my parents wanted me to forget about my ex who I was with on and off for around 5 years, he's my cousin.I understand now that it was a teenage crush. But going to my home country has made me fall in love with my other cousin. I did not have any feelings towards him at first because I was too obsessed with my first love. But after a while, I realised that I started having feelings for him. We started a relationship, he is very religious as is his family. He's a hafiz, 18 years old. We were together for quite a few months, and now I'm completely in love with him. I tried testing his love by getting my ex to make him jealous, and that's when I realised he does love me. A few weeks before my departure, he completely stopped speaking to me out of the blue. I know it is wrong to say, but I think his mum has done something to him, because she always hated us speaking even as cousins. How can he be completely in love with me one day and the next he doesn't even want to speak to me. It became worse and worse until he would swear at me every time he saw me around the house. And now I'm back in the UK, and it's been a couple of months I thought I was over him I've been trying to distract myself but I've been having dreams about him constantly every day. And In all the dreams he hates me, and can't stand me. What does this mean?

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    Re: Breakup and dreams

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    Quote Originally Posted by Shamnadanu View Post
    i am boy.i need to marry too


    i am 21..know anyone?
    Um no sorry. Try online

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    Re: Breakup and dreams

    Quote Originally Posted by Shamnadanu View Post
    i am boy.i need to marry too


    i am 21..know anyone?
    can i take a photo of whats happening to unmarried muslim womens in college...
    99.9% are sitting with boys and having combined study right now in my place..


    i am alone at a corner.because of protecting dheen.i have feelings too



    i fear Allah i cant take pics of them to you.
    100% girls in my college have no problem chatting touching or being friemds with them
    btw its a mixed college by muslim management
    Last edited by Shamnadanu; 03-06-2018 at 04:23 AM.

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    Re: Breakup and dreams

    Quote Originally Posted by cinnamonrolls1 View Post
    Um no sorry. Try online
    well i am not that kind of guy.
    i just overflowing my feelings

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    Quote Originally Posted by Shamnadanu View Post
    i am boy.i need to marry too


    i am 21..know anyone?
    Ask your parents to see a girl for you or contact any marriage broker/agency.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Shamnadanu View Post
    well i am not that kind of guy.
    i just overflowing my feelings
    Well if your feelings are "overflowing" then you're probably going to want to get married. If you cant meet someone where you wre then why not try elsewhere.

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    Quote Originally Posted by azc View Post
    Ask your parents to see a girl for you or contact any marriage broker/agency.
    ^^^^

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    Re: Breakup and dreams

    Quote Originally Posted by cinnamonrolls1 View Post
    ^^^^
    i am 21

    i am still studying.


    i am not going to pass exams.


    so do you think my parents who were jahalah find a spouse for me in this age and state.
    and importantly who can help in my hereafter

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    Quote Originally Posted by Shamnadanu View Post
    i am 21

    i am still studying.


    i am not going to pass exams.


    so do you think my parents who were jahalah find a spouse for me in this age and state.
    and importantly who can help in my hereafter
    So focus on your studies first the ? I dont understsand what you mean by jahalah but im confused

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    Quote Originally Posted by cinnamonrolls1 View Post
    So focus on your studies first the ? I dont understsand what you mean by jahalah but im confused
    i cant focus bro..
    sorry..
    i couldnt

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    Quote Originally Posted by Shamnadanu View Post
    i cant focus bro..
    sorry..
    i couldnt
    I feel like you're going in circles. You're going to have to able to focus if you want to succeed in your studies. If High schoolers do it so can you.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Shamnadanu View Post
    well i am not that kind of guy.i just overflowing my feelings
    So you are ready to face the responsibilities of your family...?
    Breakup and dreams

    Allah (swt) knows best

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    Re: Breakup and dreams

    Quote Originally Posted by azc View Post
    So you are ready to face the responsibilities of your family...?
    yes inshaAllah

    i fear Allah only.
    Allah is making life easy for me but all minor shirks like these only destroy our peace.


    it is a wakeup call from Allah..its our fitrah..
    if not done properly.
    i would face consequences.
    like haraam intentions amd thoughts

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    Quote Originally Posted by Shamnadanu View Post
    yes inshaAllah

    i fear Allah only.
    Allah is making life easy for me but all minor shirks like these only destroy our peace.


    it is a wakeup call from Allah..its our fitrah..
    if not done properly.
    i would face consequences.
    like haraam intentions amd thoughts
    May Allah swt make it easy for you. Ameen

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    Re: Breakup and dreams

    Quote Originally Posted by Shamnadanu View Post
    its better and safe to marry before 20 years old.


    i am 21 now.i am not having anyone yet.
    Yeah..I agree

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    Re: Breakup and dreams

    yes you are getting marry now

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    Re: Breakup and dreams

    Quote Originally Posted by ammargroup View Post
    yes you are getting marry now
    Really.i am interested then

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