I knew it! I knew it! We say we love our sons but that is a big lie!!

This is it here https://abuaminaelias.com/true-men-m...nity-in-islam/ this confirms 100% my believe that we are really living in Jahiliya in ways we cannot comprehend! I knew it! I knew it! I knew it!! This is a good place to view what definition of masculinity is in Islam and how we are very far astray from that in how we interact with each other, how we interact with our womenfolks and daughters and how we interact with our sons. Shameful! This STUPID MENTALITY of boys don't cry...IS IDIOTIC! Then in future we have statistics that show girls are more emotionally stronger than boys and boys end up going crazy....DUUUH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!


Aaargh I am in range when hit our boys and tell him NOT TO CRY and be TOUGH!!! I wish to strangle every single person who does this to boys and boys then act all macho and yeah I need to be tough and not cry and boys crying is stupid! NO! THAT IS STUPID! Saying boys crying is weak and stupid...NO THAT and that is stupid!

"It is healthy to release emotions and even gracefully display them in public by crying if the moment is appropriate. The idea that ‘boys don’t cry’ is harmful to a man’s emotional well-being, because although he suppresses his emotions, they will eventually be released and likely in harmful ways.

A true Muslim man is chivalrous and honorable towards the women in his life: his mother, sisters, daughters, aunts, cousins, sisters in Islam, and women in general. The measure of a man’s character is directly related to how he treats women."

I swear by Allah that if I see a boy grow up and end up murdering people or harming them and discovered when he was a child he was beaten up because people made fun of him when he cried or his father shouted at him not to cry...I will not be surprised...I will simply slap my forehead. Please let boys express their feelings, please, please, please...they are human beings and not robots!! If he cries usually for him it is something serious as heart attack and he can only express it this way...so instead of hitting him or saying he should not cry, listen to him or otherwise it will turn into toxic chemical into his body and cause him to have health issues as he grows older (CHILD ABUSE! THIS IS CHILD ABUSE!) it will convert into anger and physical abuse instead (we consider this normal, because expect boys to be angry and violent...STUPID SCRIPT THAT NEED TO BE BURNED). Whatever you think is trivial or small to him it is as big as the mountain. I am pointing fingers especially to fathers here! Please listen to your son crying and troubles and show compassion to him and give him love...build this into your son so he can grow up to be a proper husband and father and a man to society. Please, please, please. How does a man expect to be good to his womenfolk and honorable to his womenfolk when we can't even let him be human and be good to himself??!! How do you expect men to be proper husband and father when we don't even RESPECT THEM as children and teach them ...aaarrgh!!!

I can't take this jahiliya mentality Sisters will find so few good men...please instead of blaming them...put your angry fingers at the parents....and shout at them!! Chances are..these parents are very far astray from the true path and failed in raising good upbringing men and if he have a father put 100% blame on him!!!