I recently got told to wear a niqab and I don't really want to wear one. I have been wearing an abaya and hijab for a long time now everywhere I go, but I've never worn a niqab. I know that we should do ourr best to make Allah happy but is wearing a niqab obligatory, or is an abaya and hijab enough? Or is it totally up to me to decide if I should wear the niqab or not?
There is a diference in opinion. Which school of thought do you follow?
Common sense will probably guide you to wear one if you feel it is suitable. For example when i visit saudi arabia or pakistan i feel more comfortable wearing one.
Pain and hardships allow you to grow spiritually Alhamdulilah so smile when a so called calamity befalls upon you.
Alhamdulilah Allah swt is the greatest.
Personally I dont want to wear one but I'm gonna go to uni soon and that makes people tell me to wear one. I just want to stick to abaya and hijab and even in pakistan I never wore one. But my older sister is planning on wearing one and that is making me have second thoughts.
Personally I dont want to wear one but I'm gonna go to uni soon and that makes people tell me to wear one. I just want to stick to abaya and hijab and even in pakistan I never wore one. But my older sister is planning on wearing one and that is making me have second thoughts.
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According to most scholars, it is recommended but not obligatory for women to cover their faces and hands, but it is mandatory for them to cover everything else. However, there are still a significant number of scholars who view/viewed it as obligatory for the women to cover their faces and hands as well. Ultimately, you have to make up your mind on who you want to follow. Here is some material on the topic:
It will help ward off unwarranted glimpses and flattering smiles from testosterone loaded males. You might get a few weird stares from aliens, but they're less harmful when considering the bigger scheme of things.
As a male, i can assure you that you are more likely to be able to save your imaan and that of other faithful males if you wear the niqab - since the only thing that will naturally attract a male to you if you wear the niqab is his respect for your purity - and those men are usually safer to know in the long run in comparison to those who mindlessly lose their elevated state chasing after anything that bares flesh to all and sundry.
Keeping higher standards usually means you are more likely to get a man of higher standards if it comes to that - although nobody but Allah is perfect. The happy-go-lucky "fun" loving types are usually the quick to move on as soon as the going gets rough types, it is the serious types that usually give steady mental peace - and that goes for men and for women.
Nothing other than Allah , death, ressurection, judgement, paradise, and hell, are certain -so i wouldn't bet on anything else since they are only means.
The more fitna there is in a place the more you should be inclined to wear it insha Allah.
Pain and hardships allow you to grow spiritually Alhamdulilah so smile when a so called calamity befalls upon you.
Alhamdulilah Allah swt is the greatest.
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It says that you are in KSA, how will you be getting to university? And I assume your university will not be mixed?
Yea before I was planning to go to Pakistan for uni, but now I'm going here. And by getting to uni do u mean by what form of transport? Then that would be by car.
And yes it's not a mixed uni.
Yea before I was planning to go to Pakistan for uni, but now I'm going here. And by getting to uni do u mean by what form of transport? Then that would be by car.
And yes it's not a mixed uni.
If its a non mixed uni, there is no obligation upon you to wear a hijab in the first place. There are no non mahram men to hide your hair let alone your face from.
But obviously its better to wear a hair cover since there are cameras with everyone and lots of girls like to take selfies and all the nonsense .
Yea before I was planning to go to Pakistan for uni, but now I'm going here. And by getting to uni do u mean by what form of transport? Then that would be by car.
And yes it's not a mixed uni.
I meant is your family driving you there or do you have a driver? Also which part of KSA are you living? I know in jeddah for example, they are more "open" than other provinces.
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If its a non mixed uni, there is no obligation upon you to wear a hijab in the first place. There are no non mahram men to hide your hair let alone your face from.
Well she needs to wear it when she's out There's still security, drivers, male parents, and what not around the school. Also it would be easier in KSA than anywhere else in the world to start wearing it if that is the intention. It's not as big of a deal you know? And it's just an extra accessory that is quick to put on. You bring more attention upon yourself when your face is exposed in the areas where niqaab is prominent.
If its a non mixed uni, there is no obligation upon you to wear a hijab in the first place. There are no non mahram men to hide your hair let alone your face from.
But obviously its better to wear a hair cover since there are cameras with everyone and lots of girls like to take selfies and all the nonsense .
hahah yeah true tho but I never wore it even in school, it's just for outside. And lol no doubt abt the cameras. Thnx anyways.
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I meant is your family driving you there or do you have a driver? Also which part of KSA are you living? I know in jeddah for example, they are more "open" than other provinces.
Well she needs to wear it when she's out There's still security, drivers, male parents, and what not around the school. Also it would be easier in KSA than anywhere else in the world to start wearing it if that is the intention. It's not as big of a deal you know? And it's just an extra accessory that is quick to put on. You bring more attention upon yourself when your face is exposed in the areas where niqaab is prominent.
Oh lol sry, my dad would be dropping me, and the place i live in is jubail(its near dammam in case ur wondering cuz lol not many ppl know abt it.) and thnx for the advice.
Well she needs to wear it when she's out There's still security, drivers, male parents, and what not around the school. Also it would be easier in KSA than anywhere else in the world to start wearing it if that is the intention. It's not as big of a deal you know? And it's just an extra accessory that is quick to put on. You bring more attention upon yourself when your face is exposed in the areas where niqaab is prominent.
Oh, no. Ofc she has to wear it outside the university or home. There are lots of men outside these areas and in public places like you said. I wasnt trying to say that she doesnt need the hijab in public or anything, just that when she is in a place where there are no men around like women only venues, segregated weddings, salons, etc. These are the only places where a women can take off her hijab [everything from hair cover, niqab and even anything with long sleeves]. Whenever she wants to exit these female only gatherings, she should put back on her hijab. Sorry if i wasnt clear about that before.
I will tell you onething it is my experience
a niqaab not only covers your face but also your chest.
If you remove niqaab you notice no matter how hard you try the shape of your shoulders, chest area and your face is visible to all and yes someone said it correctly here you will be saved from lustful glances of other males.
Otherwise its your choice
there is one disadvantage too
if you wear niqaab for long time your eyes aches
and head aches and sometimes you feel you do not get enough air to breathe.
Now it`s totally up to you if you ask me
i remove whenever i find that there are no men around or iam inside car and no one can see inside
or whenever i feel hot and suffocated and when men comes i put on again my niqaab.
I will tell you onething it is my experience
a niqaab not only covers your face but also your chest.
If you remove niqaab you notice no matter how hard you try the shape of your shoulders, chest area and your face is visible to all and yes someone said it correctly here you will be saved from lustful glances of other males.
Otherwise its your choice
there is one disadvantage too
if you wear niqaab for long time your eyes aches
and head aches and sometimes you feel you do not get enough air to breathe.
Now it`s totally up to you if you ask me
i remove whenever i find that there are no men around or iam inside car and no one can see inside
or whenever i feel hot and suffocated and when men comes i put on again my niqaab.
oh thank u so much this helped! And yes its ok I have plenty of time to think about it tho.
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is perfect. The happy-go-lucky "fun" loving types are usually the quick to move on as soon as the going gets rough types, it is the serious types that usually give steady mental peace - and that goes for men and for women.
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There's still security, drivers, male parents, and what not around the school. Also it would be easier in KSA than anywhere else in the world to start wearing it if that is the intention. It's not as big of a deal you know? And it's just an extra accessory that is quick to put on. You bring more attention upon yourself when your face is exposed in the areas where niqaab is prominent.
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