I want to ask what are various zina or illegal sex on a human . My husband used to be pious man ut then he suddenly changed his beliefs about Islam ,Allah and Yom e qyamah . I thought he went mad . He was taking no interest in our house and started living like a neighboour with us kind of not in mood of talking and discussing anything . He started hating children and started saying that they are a burden . He was unable to do his job saying he cannot cope. He used to get headache whenever I tried to talk to him . Later he was diagnosed with depression by GP as he was talking about suicide . God knows he was dodgy or was really depressed. he used to watch movies whole night In morning he used to talk about suicide and start such talks which can lead to fight . he gave me cold shoulder whenever i tried to discuss anything .He left house in this dilemma leaving us alone. Then afte a year i met a psychic or spirtual lady who told me that he was doing adultery and he was no good for me and kids thats why he is taken away from our lives and she was saying u should move on this is God s plan for u. Can anyone comment on this ...
Yes sister maybe. But probably it’s magic of these European ladies .... I am indian I cannot look beautiful and active like the English ladies who live here and work with our partners . Bearing kids made me fat plus my busy life also made me a bit serious and practical. Men probably who are not mature enough they think that wife will b like a heroine all the life and if she doesn’t look like one they adopt a secret life and start living in it . My husband was bad in fixing problems if something happened he used to say it can never b fixed. Enemies are everywhere. But I see he was full of desires and he was feeling himself trapped with disabled kid. As he was the one who was all time in need of attention. Forexampl the disabled son took away our master bed then one of us has to move out and sleep in another room.
Thread closed to avoid further derailment. Marital issues are better not discussed here as we all see only one side of the story.
Is it also not appropriate to assume zina based on anyone's word. Allah says,
Why, when you heard it, did not the believing men and believing women think good of one another and say, "This is an obvious falsehood"?
Why did they [who slandered] not produce for it four witnesses? And when they do not produce the witnesses, then it is they, in the sight of Allah , who are the liars.
And if it had not been for the favor of Allah upon you and His mercy in this world and the Hereafter, you would have been touched for that [lie] in which you were involved by a great punishment
When you received it with your tongues and said with your mouths that of which you had no knowledge and thought it was insignificant while it was, in the sight of Allah , tremendous.
And why, when you heard it, did you not say, "It is not for us to speak of this. Exalted are You, [O Allah ]; this is a great slander"?
Allah warns you against returning to the likes of this [conduct], ever, if you should be believers. [Surah An-Noor: 12-17]
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