× Register Login What's New! Contact us
Did I commit oppression? Will I be forgiven?
Results 1 to 9 of 9
  1. #1
    Studentofdeed's Avatar
    Join Date
    Sep 2018
    Gender
    Male
    Religion
    Islam
    Posts
    99
    Threads
    20
    Reputation
    340
    Rep Power
    2
    Likes (Given)
    8
    Likes (Received)
    16

    Did I commit oppression? Will I be forgiven?

    Report bad ads?

    Alhamdullah I am better muslim and everything but I still have more to improve. I am starting to realize and be more aware of my deeds. However I am worried about my days of ignorance. When I was ignorant, I used a dating app and spoke to few girls. I just spoke to few of them and did not lead any of them on or promise any of them of marriage. But one girl flirted with me heavily and it made me so uncomfortable. I realized that dating apps were haram and I left the app and before I left I apologize to the girl. She said it was fine and I left the app. But I worried if I broke her heart. This only last 6 days. And we only talked. I really worried if whether I commited oppression or not. Please advise me?
    1 | Likes Duas_Revival liked this post

  2. Report bad ads?
  3. #2
    BeTheChange's Avatar
    Join Date
    Dec 2013
    Gender
    Female
    Religion
    Islam
    Posts
    1,981
    Threads
    127
    Reputation
    13790
    Rep Power
    38
    Likes (Given)
    3392
    Likes (Received)
    1630

    Re: Did I commit oppression? Will I be forgiven?

    Asalamualykum

    Your thoughts remind me of a story. Please watch this video. Repent to Allah swt and don't overthink. Never return back to the same sin and this is a sign of sincere repentance insha Allah.



    Protect yourself from fitna even it means disconnecting your internet or placing the laptop/ICT amongst family members etc. Use your time wisely by reading Quran sharif or learning about Islam. Take protective measures.
    3 | Likes azc, Alamgir, Eric H liked this post
    Did I commit oppression? Will I be forgiven?

    Pain and hardships allow you to grow spiritually Alhamdulilah so smile when a so called calamity befalls upon you.
    Alhamdulilah Allah swt is the greatest.

  4. #3
    Studentofdeed's Avatar
    Join Date
    Sep 2018
    Gender
    Male
    Religion
    Islam
    Posts
    99
    Threads
    20
    Reputation
    340
    Rep Power
    2
    Likes (Given)
    8
    Likes (Received)
    16

    Re: Did I commit oppression? Will I be forgiven?

    I know this story but I want to know...obviously it was haram what I did...but did I oppress this person?
    1 | Likes Duas_Revival liked this post

  5. #4
    Duas_Revival's Avatar
    Join Date
    Nov 2018
    Gender
    Male
    Religion
    Islam
    Posts
    26
    Threads
    0
    Reputation
    15
    Rep Power
    1
    Likes (Given)
    41
    Likes (Received)
    10

    Re: Did I commit oppression? Will I be forgiven?

    Quote Originally Posted by Studentofdeed View Post
    Will I be forgiven?
    Assalamu Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh,

    Firstly, you feel you've done wrong? No problem!

    If it's not too much trouble, Please kindly watch this video for relief:



    Secondly - Do you know the power of Dua? Dua is a weapon of a believer!

    The best thing to do is seek the Forgiveness of Allah azza wajal - how?



    Arabic to English: Astaghfirullahal Azeem al-lazi la ilaha illa Huwal-Hayyul-Qayyum wa atubu ilaih

    Meaning: I seek the forgiveness of Allah the Mighty, Whom there is none worthy of worship except Him, The Living, The Eternal, and I repent unto Him

    Learn More: https://www.duasrevival.com/instant-...ns-forgiveness

    Please remember us in your Duas.

    Jazakallahu Khair,
    DR
    2 | Likes azc, Alamgir liked this post

  6. Report bad ads?
  7. #5
    Studentofdeed's Avatar
    Join Date
    Sep 2018
    Gender
    Male
    Religion
    Islam
    Posts
    99
    Threads
    20
    Reputation
    340
    Rep Power
    2
    Likes (Given)
    8
    Likes (Received)
    16

    Re: Did I commit oppression? Will I be forgiven?

    Thank you again but when it comes to sins between you and other people, allah doesnt forgive. So that is why I wondering if what i did was oppression or not? Did i break the person's heart?

  8. #6
    Alamgir's Avatar
    Join Date
    Feb 2018
    Location
    Milky Way
    Gender
    Male
    Religion
    Islam
    Posts
    287
    Threads
    7
    Reputation
    534
    Rep Power
    5
    Likes (Given)
    875
    Likes (Received)
    133

    Re: Did I commit oppression? Will I be forgiven?

    Quote Originally Posted by Studentofdeed View Post
    but when it comes to sins between you and other people, allah doesnt forgive.
    Asalamu Alaikum

    Yes he does.

  9. #7
    Eric H's Avatar
    Join Date
    Apr 2005
    Location
    uk
    Gender
    Male
    Religion
    Christianity
    Posts
    3,236
    Threads
    28
    Reputation
    49267
    Rep Power
    111
    Likes (Given)
    3896
    Likes (Received)
    2416

    Re: Did I commit oppression? Will I be forgiven?

    Greetings and peace be with you Studentofdeed;

    when it comes to sins between you and other people, allah doesnt forgive.
    If that were true, then pretty much the whole human race is doomed. Study the 99 names of Allah, it is mentioned three times that he is the forgiver, no other name is mentioned three times. Just a thought, Allah can only forgive people who need forgiving; which is probably all of us. The first name of Allah is the 'Beneficent' He who wills goodness and mercy for all His creatures.

    Yesterday is history, tomorrow is a great mystery, Lord grant me the peace and serenity to live this day and everyday, knowing that you hold me in the palm of your hand. Lord help me with the wisdom, the strength and the peace to do your will.

    Never give up hope in the mercy of Allah.

    Blessings,
    Eric
    Did I commit oppression? Will I be forgiven?

    You will never look into the eyes of anyone who does not matter to God.

  10. #8
    IslamLife00's Avatar
    Join Date
    Dec 2017
    Gender
    Female
    Religion
    Islam
    Posts
    53
    Threads
    2
    Reputation
    52
    Rep Power
    7
    Likes (Given)
    19
    Likes (Received)
    25

    Re: Did I commit oppression? Will I be forgiven?

    What you can do is repent and never commit that sin again.
    Whether Allah will forgive you in regards to that sin or not, whether the girl will take good deeds from you or not - you will know on Judgement Day for certain.


    About oppression I found these hadiths:

    Narrated Anas:

    Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said, "Help your brother, whether he is an oppressor or he is an oppressed one. People asked, "O Allah's Messenger (ﷺ)! It is all right to help him if he is oppressed, but how should we help him if he is an oppressor?" The Prophet (ﷺ) said, "By preventing him from oppressing others." (Sahih Bukhari)


    Ibn 'Abbas narrated:
    "The Messenger of Allah sent Mu'adh [bin Jabal] to Yemen, and said: 'Beware of the supplication of the oppressed; for indeed there is no barrier between it and Allah.'" (Jami'at-Tirmidhi)

    Narrated Abu Huraira:

    Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said, "Whoever has oppressed another person concerning his reputation or anything else, he should beg him to forgive him before the Day of Resurrection when there will be no money (to compensate for wrong deeds), but if he has good deeds, those good deeds will be taken from him according to his oppression which he has done, and if he has no good deeds, the sins of the oppressed person will be loaded on him." (Sahih Bukhari)



    On the authority of Abu Dharr al-Ghifari (may Allah be pleased with him) from the Prophet (ﷺ) is that among the sayings he relates from his Lord (may He be glorified) is that He said:
    O My servants, I have forbidden oppression for Myself and have made it forbidden amongst you, so do not oppress one another. O My servants, all of you are astray except for those I have guided, so seek guidance of Me and I shall guide you, O My servants, all of you are hungry except for those I have fed, so seek food of Me and I shall feed you. O My servants, all of you are naked except for those I have clothed, so seek clothing of Me and I shall clothe you. O My servants, you sin by night and by day, and I forgive all sins, so seek forgiveness of Me and I shall forgive you. O My servants, you will not attain harming Me so as to harm Me, and will not attain benefitting Me so as to benefit Me. O My servants, were the first of you and the last of you, the human of you and the jinn of you to be as pious as the most pious heart of any one man of you, that would not increase My kingdom in anything. O My servants, were the first of you and the last of you, the human of you and the jinn of you to be as wicked as the most wicked heart of any one man of you, that would not decrease My kingdom in anything. O My servants, were the first of you and the last of you, the human of you and the jinn of you to rise up in one place and make a request of Me, and were I to give everyone what he requested, that would not decrease what I have, any more that a needle decreases the sea if put into it. O My servants, it is but your deeds that I reckon up for you and then recompense you for, so let him who finds good, praise Allah, and let him who finds other than that, blame no one but himself. It was related by Muslim (also by at-Tirmidhi and Ibn Majah).

    - - - Updated - - -

    Some Duas seeking forgiveness


    Narrated Shaddad bin 'Aus:

    The Prophet (ﷺ) said, "The most superior way of asking for forgiveness from Allah is: 'Allahumma anta Rabbi la ilaha illa anta. Khalaqtani wa ana `Abduka, wa ana 'ala 'ahdika wa Wa'dika mastata'tu abu'u Laka bi ni 'matika wa abu'u Laka bidhanbi; faghfirli fa'innahu la yaghfiru-dh-dhunuba ill a ant a. A'uidhu bika min sharri ma sana'tu.' If somebody recites this invocation during the night, and if he should die then, he will go to Paradise (or he will be from the people of Paradise). And if he recites it in the morning, and if he should die on the same day, he will have the same fate." (sahih Bukhari)


    `Abdullah bin `Amr narrated from Abu Bakr As-Siddiq that he said:
    “O Messenger of Allah, teach me a supplication that I may supplicate with in my Salat.” He (ﷺ) said: “Say: ‘O Allah, I have wronged myself much, and none forgives sins except You. So forgive me with forgiveness from You, and have mercy upon me, indeed, You are the Forgiving, the Merciful (Allāhumma innī ẓalamtu nafsī ẓulman kathīran wa lā yaghfirudh-dhunūba illā anta faghfirlī maghfiratan min `indika warḥamnī innaka antal-Ghafūrur-Raḥīm).’” (Jami'at Tirmidhi)

    7:23 Rabbana thalamnaanfusana wa-in lam taghfir lana watarhamnalanakoonanna mina alkhasireen
    Did I commit oppression? Will I be forgiven?

    Jabir bin 'Abdullah narrated that the Messenger of Allah (s.a.w) said:'A slave (of Allah) shall not believe until he believes in Al-Qadar, its good and its bad, such that he knows that what struck him would not have missed him, and that what missed him would not have struck him." (Jami 'at Tirmidhi)

  11. #9
    MazharShafiq's Avatar
    Join Date
    Sep 2016
    Location
    Pakistan
    Gender
    Male
    Religion
    Islam
    Posts
    299
    Threads
    46
    Reputation
    808
    Rep Power
    14
    Likes (Given)
    23
    Likes (Received)
    86

    Re: Did I commit oppression? Will I be forgiven?

    When we do with the truth and fulfill all the terms of repentance, then the ungrateful Allah is also forgiven the sins of the greatest.
    Did I commit oppression? Will I be forgiven?


  12. Hide
Hey there! Did I commit oppression? Will I be forgiven? Looks like you're enjoying the discussion, but you're not signed up for an account.

When you create an account, we remember exactly what you've read, so you always come right back where you left off. You also get notifications, here and via email, whenever new posts are made. And you can like posts and share your thoughts. Did I commit oppression? Will I be forgiven?
Sign Up

Similar Threads

  1. What happens to a sin when it is forgiven?
    By jackafox in forum Discover Islam
    Replies: 5
    Last Post: 05-01-2018, 11:48 AM
  2. Oppression
    By gladTidings in forum General
    Replies: 7
    Last Post: 05-11-2008, 11:08 PM
  3. do you think am forgiven??
    By *Maysun in forum Advice & Support
    Replies: 6
    Last Post: 02-15-2008, 01:19 PM
  4. Oppression
    By amal_1 in forum Creative Writing & Art
    Replies: 1
    Last Post: 10-01-2005, 08:46 AM

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •  
create