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    'hello.
    i am a 25 year old muslim man.

    i dont even know where to start. honestly being i am truly losing religion.
    i have been what i consider a good person since i was a child. during the teenage years i was tested with being round people who werent worshipers and I maintained my worship.
    i been praying salah since i was 14.I never smoked a single cigar, no drugs, trying to be respectuful to peole ( and it shows cause they love me back) i never fornicated. i dont watch pornography, i dont listen to music, i dont even masturbate..i stay away from evil and sin as much as i can but yet i do believe God isnt loving me or doing me any favor.

    lets put it this way. i expected that God would lead me into a better life .
    i only get hardships. mom died when i was 18, things just dont go my way.
    while i try to see light and good in all whats happening its tough for me
    i am not financially stable- its tough to find jobs especially recently while time is running up for me.i try so hard to get jobs.
    whats truly testing me and occupying my mind is that im not bein able to find a woman ( and never had a relatiionship with a woman mostly cause of fear of fornication)

    i like a girl a lot but she doesnt like me back i suppose.i lost contact with her cause she closed all social networks and i dont see her anymore on the street. she was beautiful and also shy.. which truly attracted me .i dont even know where to start with this case but i feel so so so sad cause God didnt write for me and this girl to be together yet i love her so much and am not able to get over her for more than a year. its rare that i like someone (even tho i am not shy at all) let alone the woman i want to marry. i basically feel that GOD DIDNT FAVOR ME , or loves someone more than me thats why HE gave her as a price to him and not me.. do i deserve this??

    i prayed everywhere for this woman. in the mosque, at work when i used to have one, at the house, everywhere cause i wanted this to happen so so much. no matter how much i try ( by not looking at her pics on her abononded social media account( im just not able to forget her beautiful face.

    i feel so broken hearted cause i see god providing for people who dont even care bout religion, they get more wealth and more amazing woman and here i am, a person who was grown a believer- left and forgotten. and that makes me feel betrayed, it kills me, its burning me.

    now more than ever i need a miracle.

    yes i know that allah sometimes withhold something from you cause he has something better in store but really> better than this woman? i dont think so.i am 25 nd i havent seen anyone as her. its becoming late for me as a 25 year old to find a virgin woman who is also a beauty and kind like she was.
    someone please just tell me if God really loves me at all?' even tho i continue worship and keep distance from sins, im hanging on by a thread here. i no longer feel love.. how can u love someone when you devoted your life to him, yet He gives the best to others and not you?
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    Re: does Allah love me?

    format_quote Originally Posted by hellomuslimss View Post
    i dont even know where to start. honestly being i am truly losing religion.
    i have been what i consider a good person since i was a child. during the teenage years i was tested with being round people who werent worshipers and I maintained my worship.
    i been praying salah since i was 14.I never smoked a single cigar, no drugs, trying to be respectuful to peole ( and it shows cause they love me back) i never fornicated. i dont watch pornography, i dont listen to music, i dont even masturbate..i stay away from evil and sin as much as i can but yet i do believe God isnt loving me or doing me any favor.
    Assalamu Alaikum,

    You are able to stay away from what other struggle with every day and maintain your closeness with him, and you believe that Allah doesn't love you because of a GIRL?

    If you liked the girl then ask for her hand! Try to find out who she is and ask for her. If she does not like you then that's it, move on. You cannot force her to like you or want you.
    Subhanallah females are the destruction of men. If the girl is corrupt, I wonder how much she would be able to influence you to become astray, especially if so far she has not even interacted with you yet you are already willing to sell your soul. You don't really know her yet are obsessed with her due to her beauty and shyness, but guess what? Neither of those qualities mean the girl is good for you or is good in general. Or it may be the complete opposite and you are not compatible with her! So either do something like asking for her hand, or get out of your fantasies.

    There's a saying that "Comparison is the thief of joy." May Allah keep us away from the envious and the jealous. You think you are perfect, yet you are being envious of Allah's blessings on other people. This is a major sin and a disease of the heart. If anyone around you knew you felt this way they would seek ways to be far away from you for that is one of the worst traits to have. Allah even tells us in the Quran to seek refuge from people like you in surah al falaq!

    Abu Huraryah (ra) narrated that the Prophet (peace be upon him) said, “When one of you sees someone who has been blessed more than him in money or appearance, then let him look at someone lesser than him, whom he has been preferred over.” (Bukhari)

    So please be aware of your emotions and how you are dealing with them. This is not a way to find happiness!
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    ALLAH has promised reward in both the worlds for the pious ones even if it's late.Dont feel upset with ALLAH & worship Him,asking Him for good dreams that puts you to rest.This is how many of us keeping to deen.Ofcourse Allah loves you as You see guidance & good deeds naimah,upon you.

    MashaAllah,tell Allah what you want & make big efforts on in your imaan.Allah won't withhold His blessings & I pray for you big!
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    Re: does Allah love me?

    format_quote Originally Posted by *charisma* View Post
    Assalamu Alaikum,

    You are able to stay away from what other struggle with every day and maintain your closeness with him, and you believe that Allah doesn't love you because of a GIRL?

    If you liked the girl then ask for her hand! Try to find out who she is and ask for her. If she does not like you then that's it, move on. You cannot force her to like you or want you.
    Subhanallah females are the destruction of men. If the girl is corrupt, I wonder how much she would be able to influence you to become astray, especially if so far she has not even interacted with you yet you are already willing to sell your soul. You don't really know her yet are obsessed with her due to her beauty and shyness, but guess what? Neither of those qualities mean the girl is good for you or is good in general. Or it may be the complete opposite and you are not compatible with her! So either do something like asking for her hand, or get out of your fantasies.

    There's a saying that "Comparison is the thief of joy." May Allah keep us away from the envious and the jealous. You think you are perfect, yet you are being envious of Allah's blessings on other people. This is a major sin and a disease of the heart. If anyone around you knew you felt this way they would seek ways to be far away from you for that is one of the worst traits to have. Allah even tells us in the Quran to seek refuge from people like you in surah al falaq!

    Abu Huraryah (ra) narrated that the Prophet (peace be upon him) said, “When one of you sees someone who has been blessed more than him in money or appearance, then let him look at someone lesser than him, whom he has been preferred over.” (Bukhari)

    So please be aware of your emotions and how you are dealing with them. This is not a way to find happiness!
    Be polite,sister,please for the sake of Allah
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    Re: does Allah love me?

    format_quote Originally Posted by *charisma* View Post
    Assalamu Alaikum,

    You are able to stay away from what other struggle with every day and maintain your closeness with him, and you believe that Allah doesn't love you because of a GIRL?

    If you liked the girl then ask for her hand! Try to find out who she is and ask for her. If she does not like you then that's it, move on. You cannot force her to like you or want you.
    Subhanallah females are the destruction of men. If the girl is corrupt, I wonder how much she would be able to influence you to become astray, especially if so far she has not even interacted with you yet you are already willing to sell your soul. You don't really know her yet are obsessed with her due to her beauty and shyness, but guess what? Neither of those qualities mean the girl is good for you or is good in general. Or it may be the complete opposite and you are not compatible with her! So either do something like asking for her hand, or get out of your fantasies.

    There's a saying that "Comparison is the thief of joy." May Allah keep us away from the envious and the jealous. You think you are perfect, yet you are being envious of Allah's blessings on other people. This is a major sin and a disease of the heart. If anyone around you knew you felt this way they would seek ways to be far away from you for that is one of the worst traits to have. Allah even tells us in the Quran to seek refuge from people like you in surah al falaq!

    Abu Huraryah (ra) narrated that the Prophet (peace be upon him) said, “When one of you sees someone who has been blessed more than him in money or appearance, then let him look at someone lesser than him, whom he has been preferred over.” (Bukhari)

    So please be aware of your emotions and how you are dealing with them. This is not a way to find happiness!
    Aoa. Why would u sy females are destruction of men? Such misogyny. Why?
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    Aoa. Brother i have always been confused by the same question. I see people who commit fraud and don't even bother to say salah get everything they want but the ones pious to their core get nothing. However i do believe it comes down to our conviction in Allah. I do lack that when it comes to doing dua. You need to have firm faith in Allah. I say it because it is Allah's characteristic that He responds and answers to our duas. If He doesn't, it means the entire religion is a lie. It would mean He is not Rahim, rehman, al Wahab, etc. Do not give up. He has said it in Quran that He responds, so what makes you think He wont? There is hadith that Allah says I am what my slave thinks of me. If you think He will not answer Dua, then He won't. A single ounce of doubt can have drastic effects on ur dua and hence faith altogether. And this is what Shetan wants. Thats his ulterior motive. Starts slow then leads up to bigger things until you abandon ur faith completely. I also face problems with dua. I hardly remember any dua that was answered. But I still believe in what I just wrote.
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    Re: does Allah love me?

    format_quote Originally Posted by SoldierAmatUllah View Post
    Be polite,sister,please for the sake of Allah
    Where was I impolite?

    format_quote Originally Posted by iammuslim98 View Post
    Aoa. Why would u sy females are destruction of men? Such misogyny. Why?
    Please stop reading with your emotions and misinterpreting what I say. There's nothing that I said that which implies that I hate women. Men are weak over women so they will make rash decisions.


    Usamah ibn Zayd reported: The Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “I have not left a trial after me more harmful to men than women.”

    Source: Ṣaḥīḥ al-Bukhārī 4808, Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim 2740

    Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi (authenticity agreed upon) according to Al-Bukhari and Muslim

    عَنْ أُسَامَةَ بْنِ زَيْدٍ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهُمَا عَنْ النَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ قَالَ مَا تَرَكْتُ بَعْدِي فِتْنَةً أَضَرَّ عَلَى الرِّجَالِ مِنْ النِّسَاءِ

    4808 صحيح البخاري كتاب النكاح باب ما يتقى من شؤم المرأة

    2740 صحيح مسلم كتاب الرقاق باب أكثر أهل الجنة الفقراء وأكثر أهل النار النساء وبيان الفتنة بالنساء


    Abu Sa’id al-Khudri reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “The world is sweet and green. Verily, Allah will make you successors in it to see how you will behave. Beware of the world and beware of women. Verily, the first trial of the children of Israel was with women.”

    Source: Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim 2742

    Grade: Sahih (authentic) according to Muslim

    عَنْ أَبِي سَعِيدٍ الْخُدْرِيِّ عَنْ النَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ قَالَ إِنَّ الدُّنْيَا حُلْوَةٌ خَضِرَةٌ وَإِنَّ اللَّهَ مُسْتَخْلِفُكُمْ فِيهَا فَيَنْظُرُ كَيْفَ تَعْمَلُونَ فَاتَّقُوا الدُّنْيَا وَاتَّقُوا النِّسَاءَ فَإِنَّ أَوَّلَ فِتْنَةِ بَنِي إِسْرَائِيلَ كَانَتْ فِي النِّسَاءِ

    2742 صحيح مسلم كتاب الرقاق باب أكثر أهل الجنة الفقراء وأكثر أهل النار النساء وبيان الفتنة بالنساء
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    Re: does Allah love me?

    format_quote Originally Posted by *charisma* View Post
    Where was I impolite?



    Please stop reading with your emotions and misinterpreting what I say. There's nothing that I said that which implies that I hate women. Men are weak over women so they will make rash decisions.


    Usamah ibn Zayd reported: The Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “I have not left a trial after me more harmful to men than women.”

    Source: Ṣaḥīḥ al-Bukhārī 4808, Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim 2740

    Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi (authenticity agreed upon) according to Al-Bukhari and Muslim

    عَنْ أُسَامَةَ بْنِ زَيْدٍ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهُمَا عَنْ النَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ قَالَ مَا تَرَكْتُ بَعْدِي فِتْنَةً أَضَرَّ عَلَى الرِّجَالِ مِنْ النِّسَاءِ

    4808 صحيح البخاري كتاب النكاح باب ما يتقى من شؤم المرأة

    2740 صحيح مسلم كتاب الرقاق باب أكثر أهل الجنة الفقراء وأكثر أهل النار النساء وبيان الفتنة بالنساء


    Abu Sa’id al-Khudri reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “The world is sweet and green. Verily, Allah will make you successors in it to see how you will behave. Beware of the world and beware of women. Verily, the first trial of the children of Israel was with women.”

    Source: Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim 2742

    Grade: Sahih (authentic) according to Muslim

    عَنْ أَبِي سَعِيدٍ الْخُدْرِيِّ عَنْ النَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ قَالَ إِنَّ الدُّنْيَا حُلْوَةٌ خَضِرَةٌ وَإِنَّ اللَّهَ مُسْتَخْلِفُكُمْ فِيهَا فَيَنْظُرُ كَيْفَ تَعْمَلُونَ فَاتَّقُوا الدُّنْيَا وَاتَّقُوا النِّسَاءَ فَإِنَّ أَوَّلَ فِتْنَةِ بَنِي إِسْرَائِيلَ كَانَتْ فِي النِّسَاءِ

    2742 صحيح مسلم كتاب الرقاق باب أكثر أهل الجنة الفقراء وأكثر أهل النار النساء وبيان الفتنة بالنساء
    The way u have interpreted the hadith implies women are epitome of evil. Women's rights are elemental in islam. This is what Allah says. And i am sure this is what these hadith imply. And as far as women being the weakness of men is concerned, it is a fact. But women are not accountable for men with weak control over their emotions.
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    Re: does Allah love me?

    format_quote Originally Posted by hellomuslimss View Post
    whats truly testing me and occupying my mind is that im not bein able to find a woman
    arent we all? Everybody has a problem with this,its not only you.
    I can relate a lot to you,and i know how you feeling because there were things i really wanted,and there were women i really wanted,and whats more mind blowing is that i wanted to practice islam yet Allah was making it ''hard'' for me over and over to the point that i felt the same as you.I stoped looking at islamic lectures,id be angry at imams at muslims praying id be angry at everybody because i wanted to do whate they were doing and i couldnt.

    But guess what,all that stress and difficulty i went through taught me a lot of things which i would have failed in the life i have now if i didnt learn those things.Allah prepared me for a way biggest test and by his grace and his mercy i am handling it pretty well until now.All the sadness i felt now is gone but the reward of it will come in the day of judgement in shaa Allah.So have sabr.
    Now about women,i also wanted a lot of women,id fall in love with everyone cuz i was lonely and naive,and id pray to Allah day and night for those,and to save you the long stories,let me tell you that i am 100% sure that if Allah married me to one of the women i prayed for,i would have either been corrupt or would have ruined my life.If i turned back time i wouldnt even talk to them.

    This girl,you dont know anything about her,but Allah knows everything about her,so all you need to know is that Allah will never abandon his slave.You try to be close to Allah and make duaa that He gives you an amazing pious and beautiful wife,and if this girl is the right one,Allah will bring her to you,if not then have faith that the one who is to come to you would be better,because as i said Allah does not abandon his obedient slaves.

    So just propose to her and if its no,elhamdulillah move on,its for the best.
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    Re: does Allah love me?

    format_quote Originally Posted by Revert alYunani View Post
    arent we all? Everybody has a problem with this,its not only you.
    I can relate a lot to you,and i know how you feeling because there were things i really wanted,and there were women i really wanted,and whats more mind blowing is that i wanted to practice islam yet Allah was making it ''hard'' for me over and over to the point that i felt the same as you.I stoped looking at islamic lectures,id be angry at imams at muslims praying id be angry at everybody because i wanted to do whate they were doing and i couldnt.

    But guess what,all that stress and difficulty i went through taught me a lot of things which i would have failed in the life i have now if i didnt learn those things.Allah prepared me for a way biggest test and by his grace and his mercy i am handling it pretty well until now.All the sadness i felt now is gone but the reward of it will come in the day of judgement in shaa Allah.So have sabr.
    Now about women,i also wanted a lot of women,id fall in love with everyone cuz i was lonely and naive,and id pray to Allah day and night for those,and to save you the long stories,let me tell you that i am 100% sure that if Allah married me to one of the women i prayed for,i would have either been corrupt or would have ruined my life.If i turned back time i wouldnt even talk to them.

    This girl,you dont know anything about her,but Allah knows everything about her,so all you need to know is that Allah will never abandon his slave.You try to be close to Allah and make duaa that He gives you an amazing pious and beautiful wife,and if this girl is the right one,Allah will bring her to you,if not then have faith that the one who is to come to you would be better,because as i said Allah does not abandon his obedient slaves.

    So just propose to her and if its no,elhamdulillah move on,its for the best.
    Can you explain your present trial ?maybe we get hope,please bro
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    Re: does Allah love me?

    format_quote Originally Posted by SoldierAmatUllah View Post
    Can you explain your present trial ?maybe we get hope,please bro
    What do you mean my present trial sister?
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    Re: does Allah love me?

    I meant you said you have other big trials in this thread & your other thread asking for duas
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    Re: does Allah love me?

    format_quote Originally Posted by SoldierAmatUllah View Post
    I meant you said you have other big trials in this thread & your other thread asking for duas
    Ah yes. Did you make duaa? JazakhAllahu Khair. It is almost done i am feeling way better and i am almost done with it elhamdulillah.It will take some more time and especially in ramadan when i raise my taqwa in shaa Allah i would be willing to brush off all the negative effects it has left.
    Its just things in the dunya, you know small problems here and there who together come up and become big problems and then a new hardship happens that you never experienced before and you feel blocked but elhamdulillah im feeling way way better and im sure it was for my best,thank you so much for your concern.JazakhAllahu Khair.I hope you are feeling better too and life is easier.

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    My life is hardest,just dunno what to do.I want to do things which I shouldn't be.Im always under torture every second,won't get into details.Lost everything & then this extreme pain.Alhamdulilah better than many but nothing to be happy about.The guy I been seeing in dreams is a kinda nonsense,he blocked me,been fraudulent & I'm forced to wait for him.I hate him but I'm suppose to wait for him.Its been 6 long years of this bad episode with him, waiting waiting & waiting.And then this ugly torture since 17 years.Uff,I'm tired
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    Assalam o alaikum,

    brother in Islam, I have read your story and its seems to be one sided love. You love her but she dose not, and you feel a disconsolate heart.
    According to my opinion Allah love you, that is why Allah dose not want you to connect with her, she dose not deserves you anymore.
    you fell sorrow in your heart, because Allah is taking your exam, Allah takes exam in the matter which we want and love most, and Allah loves you more than 70 mother's love you, so be calm and just open the book of Allah and start reciting Surai Bakra, by reciting this Surat Bakra the shetan will leave you, and your heart will be so calm, Just connect to Allah and make pray about removing he feelings from your heart.
    life is not finished, just connect with Allah and recite his Quran, Quran is the shifa for all muslim so why are you getting so much late, at least just give a time and be calm.
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    i am the original writter of this distress call.
    well id like to thank everytone for reaching out to me ,your words sadly havent made me feel better. now matter how much itry i just cant seem to be able to find solutions to my problems.
    so whats the point? i have decided to go with a non religious living. i will continue believeing that Allah exists and is the one, but i am just too dissapointed in everything to be a practicing muslim anymore. nothing good ever seems to come my way. so why keep trying?
    thank you and farewell religion.
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    i hoped that Allah would have rewarded me with a good spouse and a good living but things just dont seem to work that way. who knows , maybe a miracle might bring me back one day - but to be honest i dont feel like it. i dont feel like being a practicing muslim, or seeking any more knowledge. my heart is broken i cant be fixed.
    so it be. i cant lie to God bout how im feeling , bout this dissapointment.
    i cant keep being like this. who knows that miracle might come if God would ever want me under his realm but i.. dont think its happening. goodbye everyone and thanks a lot for reaching out.
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    format_quote Originally Posted by abadwek View Post
    i hoped that Allah would have rewarded me with a good spouse and a good living but things just dont seem to work that way. who knows , maybe a miracle might bring me back one day - but to be honest i dont feel like it. i dont feel like being a practicing muslim, or seeking any more knowledge. my heart is broken i cant be fixed.
    so it be. i cant lie to God bout how im feeling , bout this dissapointment.
    i cant keep being like this. who knows that miracle might come if God would ever want me under his realm but i.. dont think its happening. goodbye everyone and thanks a lot for reaching out.
    please let me know how you will be rewarded with a good wife now that you left the religion.You left God for a girl that doesnt care about you.Do you really think you deserve someone as good as you want it to be? I am being harsh because i wont it to hit on you hard.Turn back to islam and be the man a good woman deserves,or keep going being a quiter and a looser and if there was a really good woman who was reserved for you in the future,then you have lost her too.
    But you are still on time.Come back and save yourself.
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    no. i am not coming back.

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    i am too dissapointed to even make a dua again let alone keep worship.
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    format_quote Originally Posted by hellomuslimss View Post
    'hello.
    i am a 25 year old muslim man.

    i dont even know where to start. honestly being i am truly losing religion.
    i have been what i consider a good person since i was a child. during the teenage years i was tested with being round people who werent worshipers and I maintained my worship.
    i been praying salah since i was 14.I never smoked a single cigar, no drugs, trying to be respectuful to peole ( and it shows cause they love me back) i never fornicated. i dont watch pornography, i dont listen to music, i dont even masturbate..i stay away from evil and sin as much as i can but yet i do believe God isnt loving me or doing me any favor.

    lets put it this way. i expected that God would lead me into a better life .
    i only get hardships. mom died when i was 18, things just dont go my way.
    while i try to see light and good in all whats happening its tough for me
    i am not financially stable- its tough to find jobs especially recently while time is running up for me.i try so hard to get jobs.
    whats truly testing me and occupying my mind is that im not bein able to find a woman ( and never had a relatiionship with a woman mostly cause of fear of fornication)

    i like a girl a lot but she doesnt like me back i suppose.i lost contact with her cause she closed all social networks and i dont see her anymore on the street. she was beautiful and also shy.. which truly attracted me .i dont even know where to start with this case but i feel so so so sad cause God didnt write for me and this girl to be together yet i love her so much and am not able to get over her for more than a year. its rare that i like someone (even tho i am not shy at all) let alone the woman i want to marry. i basically feel that GOD DIDNT FAVOR ME , or loves someone more than me thats why HE gave her as a price to him and not me.. do i deserve this??

    i prayed everywhere for this woman. in the mosque, at work when i used to have one, at the house, everywhere cause i wanted this to happen so so much. no matter how much i try ( by not looking at her pics on her abononded social media account( im just not able to forget her beautiful face.

    i feel so broken hearted cause i see god providing for people who dont even care bout religion, they get more wealth and more amazing woman and here i am, a person who was grown a believer- left and forgotten. and that makes me feel betrayed, it kills me, its burning me.

    now more than ever i need a miracle.

    yes i know that allah sometimes withhold something from you cause he has something better in store but really> better than this woman? i dont think so.i am 25 nd i havent seen anyone as her. its becoming late for me as a 25 year old to find a virgin woman who is also a beauty and kind like she was.
    someone please just tell me if God really loves me at all?' even tho i continue worship and keep distance from sins, im hanging on by a thread here. i no longer feel love.. how can u love someone when you devoted your life to him, yet He gives the best to others and not you?

    Majority of problems in this life are by people dont blame Allah

    You prayed to have the woman you love what if she was just beautiful on outside only

    You do know beauty fades with age right
    behavior changes too

    when we were kids some of us were extremely shy but we later grew to be bold

    I have experienced love and she didn't feel the same i even asked her for marriage

    but i dont blame Allah nor do i blame her

    As its a person choice to be with who respect it

    I am not saying its easy but it's right thing to do

    Your mom passed away

    every soul shall taste the death even Prophet Mohammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam had to go

    do you know prophet Mohammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was orphan

    Imagine being alone and having a duty to spread Islam and save others

    people threw rocks at him but he stayed loyal to Allah kept spreading the message of my lord Allah

    you are not financially stable but do you know there are people who dont even have food

    Prophet Mohammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam lived a life of poverty though he could have asked / requested to Allah for luxury but he didn't

    If you do good deeds stay a Muslim your reward is at judgement day heaven

    do you know the story of Pharaoh he was powerful and very rich in this world but will stay in hell in after life

    If you are a Muslim and stay a Muslim i guarantee my lord Allah loves you

    Also when you feel weak read this hasbunallahu wa ni'mal wakeel .
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