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    Unhappy with a marriage proposal! (OP)


    Aoa. I received a marriage proposal. My parents loved it. I don't. Apart from not being financially stable, the guy does not even have a job but due to my age and my parent's age, they are pressuring me into saying yes. I have no other way out. Please pray that i get what i want. It is a humble request. Please .i dont want this, but i cant say no.

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    Re: Unhappy with a marriage proposal!

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    format_quote Originally Posted by iammuslim98 View Post
    Aoa. Calling me a sister.. Then does that mean u are barking as well?
    I am giving you advice and slapping you hard on the back of your head to wake you up. You are playing a dangerous game, I am freaking trying my best to make sure you don't end up in a destroyed end. But you know what? I don't care. Do whatever you want. You aint getting a single sympathy from me if you get destroyed.

    format_quote Originally Posted by iammuslim98 View Post
    Makes me wonder whether the prophet also used such a language I guess u should be the first to repent because quran clrealy forbids a muslim from using such kind of language but typical muslim male.
    There you go, the typical feminist crap trap that comes out of your mouth. You don't know what the prophet would do when a Muslim comes to his face and attack Allah and calls Allah oppressor of women. You don't know what the sahaba will say, when you are a Muslim all your life and attack the prophet and Allah. For all you know, his friend will get the sword and slice your head off. If he does, your blood have no value too. If he does, no one will cry for you. If he does, and you die in this state, you don't want to know what will be your state when you die after attacking Allah and calling him women oppressor.

    format_quote Originally Posted by iammuslim98 View Post
    . When out of argument resort to personal attacks. Didn abu lahb did that..
    There is no personal attack. There is me seeing a person calling Allah women oppressor. I am not going to stand for it. If giving a chance and you attack Allah in front of me, I will do worse than just words. You think, I will sit here and listen to someone attack Allah and I just pad your head and say "Yes, dear, yes dear"? You think I would do that? Where is your common sense and logic? Do you not think? Please don't answer that. Your posts shows clearly that you don't (now that is a personal attack).

    format_quote Originally Posted by iammuslim98 View Post
    Personally attacked the Prophet after the death of the latter's son.. Sox either u are from the people of quraish, or u are the abdallah bin oabye.. Father of the munafiqeen. Pretending to be a pious Muslim but resorting to personal attacks and name calling.. Bravo! I am sure your children will soar to the sky.
    How dare you use that as an arsenals of argumenta weapon against us when you personally attack Allah and his prophets yourself! You think Islam oppresses women? You think Allah oppress women and Allah is an oppressor, then leave fold of Islam (you did by just thinking it and believing it too). Go join the Chrisitian and Jews or become Atheist. See if you actually get a happier life there and your rights are protected there. See what life you will get there. 100% of the women who left Islam and joined the feminist ideology and join the other side have either depression, committed suicide, miserable life, or living in the street. Go there join them if you like. That is just here, in the afterlife Allah promised them eternal hellfire. You want to join that group of people. Go. I am not going to stop you. Just don't attack Allah or his prophets in front of me where I can read it. I am going to bark and attack and do whatever it takes to shut you up, since I am not in front of you physically I would have done worse.

    I am not going to bother read the other rant you posted next, but let me tell you this...I now understand completely where your parents are coming from. I am siding with them, however, I disapprove of their method. The man you are getting, him? You deserve that type of man. No way a good saleh man, a man who treat his wife like a queen, a good religious man, a man with pious character who follow the steps of the prophet, no way he will be married to your type. I have told you to repent, but not only refuse, you attack Islam even more. I am done with you and you are right, you are not MY sister (Alhamdolillah).
    Last edited by xboxisdead; 04-23-2021 at 05:07 PM.

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    Re: Unhappy with a marriage proposal!

    format_quote Originally Posted by xboxisdead View Post
    I am giving you advice and slapping you hard on the back of your head to wake you up. You are playing a dangerous game, I am freaking trying my best to make sure you don't end up in a destroyed end. But you know what? I don't care. Do whatever you want. You aint getting a single sympathy from me if you get destroyed.



    There you go, the typical feminist crap trap that comes out of your mouth. You don't know what the prophet would do when a Muslim comes to his face and attack Allah and calls Allah oppressor of women. You don't know what the sahaba will say, when you are a Muslim all your life and attack the prophet and Allah. For all you know, his friend will get the sword and slice your head off. If he does, your blood have no value too. If he does, no one will cry for you. If he does, and you die in this state, you don't want to know what will be your state when you die after attacking Allah and calling him women oppressor.



    There is no personal attack. There is me seeing a person calling Allah women oppressor. I am not going to stand for it. If giving a chance and you attack Allah in front of me, I will do worse than just words. You think, I will sit here and listen to someone attack Allah and I just pad your head and say "Yes, dear, yes dear"? You think I would do that? Where is your common sense and logic? Do you not think? Please don't answer that. Your posts shows clearly that you don't (now that is a personal attack).



    How dare you use that as an arsenals of argumenta weapon against us when you personally attack Allah and his prophets yourself! You think Islam oppresses women? You think Allah oppress women and Allah is an oppressor, then leave fold of Islam (you did by just thinking it and believing it too). Go join the Chrisitian and Jews or become Atheist. See if you actually get a happier life there and your rights are protected there. See what life you will get there. 100% of the women who left Islam and joined the feminist ideology and join the other side have either depression, committed suicide, miserable life, or living in the street. Go there join them if you like. That is just here, in the afterlife Allah promised them eternal hellfire. You want to join that group of people. Go. I am not going to stop you. Just don't attack Allah or his prophets in front of me where I can read it. I am going to bark and attack and do whatever it takes to shut you up, since I am not in front of you physically I would have done worse.

    I am not going to bother read the other rant you posted next, but let me tell you this...I now understand completely where your parents are coming from. I am siding with them, however, I disapprove of their method. The man you are getting, him? You deserve that type of man. No way a good saleh man, a man who treat his wife like a queen, a good religious man, a man with pious character who follow the steps of the prophet, no way he will be married to your type. I have told you to repent, but not only refuse, you attack Islam even more. I am done with you and you are right, you are not MY sister (Alhamdolillah).



    Okay. Now I just read it..
    Feminist Attack? Quoting the quran is feminist. I am glad then.

    TypiCaL misogynist man, no argument just plain barking. I am not looki g for your sympathy. You are just a miserable man and will always remain one.. I already feel sorry for ur family.

    Assumptions, assumptions, assumptions. Again, typical man. Cherry picking words to suit their agenda.. Its okay.. I never said I hated God. I never attacked the Lord. I attacked the religion. Why? Because everyone has intepreed it wrongly. Just like u have interpreted everything I said to suit ur agenda and tiny male egoistic ideology.


    Stop whining like a baby now. And grwo up. Learn to read. Understand and then perhaps instead of barking, you might actually talk for a change
    Last edited by iammuslim98; 04-23-2021 at 05:37 PM.

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    Re: Unhappy with a marriage proposal!

    Asalamu Asalamu alaykum brother Xboxdeed. I understand where you are coming from. Please dont let this mess with your Ramadan. I agree the sister needs Dua and it's best we leave it to that.

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    Re: Unhappy with a marriage proposal!

    format_quote Originally Posted by iammuslim98 View Post
    Okay. Now I just read it..
    Feminist Attack? Quoting the quran is feminist. I am glad then.

    TypiCaL misogynist man, no argument just plain barking. I am not looki g for your sympathy. You are just a miserable man and will always remain one.. I already feel sorry for ur family.

    Assumptions, assumptions, assumptions. Again, typical man. Cherry picking words to suit their agenda.. Its okay.. I never said I hated God. I never attacked the Lord. I attacked the religion. Why? Because everyone has intepreed it wrongly. Just like u have interpreted everything I said to suit ur agenda and tiny male egoistic ideology.


    Stop whining like a baby now. And grwo up. Learn to read. Understand and then perhaps instead of barking, you might actually talk for a change
    Sis, may Allah swt forgive you and guide you to the best of this duniya and akhira.

    Take it easy and remember your salah and daily quran reading. Come down sis. Believe me you dont need this. Dont upset yourself since you said you have enough of it in your real life.

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    Re: Unhappy with a marriage proposal!

    format_quote Originally Posted by Amatullah_M View Post
    Asalamu Asalamu alaykum brother Xboxdeed. I understand where you are coming from. Please dont let this mess with your Ramadan. I agree the sister needs Dua and it's best we leave it to that.
    I will brother. Whatever sympathy she thinks she will try to extract from me, it is not going to happen. Not after she attacked Allah (Subhanahu Wa Talaa). I don't care what calamities she went through or could go through. Her parents could have raped her, it doesn't justify or give her any right to attack Allah (Subhanahu Wa Talaa) and attack Islam. Even if they attack her gender or where she lives women's lives are like worthless cattle, it still doesn't give her right to attack Islam or Allah (Subhanahu Wa Talaa). She still too....aaah.....she still doesn't get it. All the mistreatments and abuse she is getting from her parents is because THEY ARE ALL (including her) far away from the path of Allah (Subhanahu Wa Talaa) not because they are close to it. The closer they are in the right path, the less of this crap will happen.

    What would she do if she was with the sahaba and the prophet (peace be upon him) and the enemy of Islam would torture them, do horrible things to them, then? Would she attack Allah (Subhanahu Wa Talaa) too? Every hardship for a Muslim and calamity they get is means to clean one sin and to elevate them higher level in paradise. What would she do if her calamity was like the Muslim brother who his daughter is denied to him and the family keep smashing and attacking his home, imraan? Look how he handled it and look how she is handling it.

    Sorry, I lost all respect on her and whatever happens to her I have no sympathy or care. She keeps forgetting that Allah (Subhanahu Wa Talaa) is the rab, meaning we are his slave, Muslim or non-Muslim alike. Not the other way around. I am done with her. Whatever she posts my eyes will go the other direction and not read them, not until her title mentions she repents and she made a mistake.

    Her biggest issue is she announced to the public, to the world, that Allah (Subhanahu Wa Talaa) oppresses women. Giving the enemy of Islam further weapon to attack Islam because of her sheer ignorance. That means she is waging war against Allah (Subhanahu Wa Talaa) by doing that. If she wages war against Allah (Subhanahu Wa Talaa), I am proud and honored to be his soldier and destroy his enemy if he gives me the privilege. I will die for Allah (Subhanahu Wa Talaa).
    Last edited by xboxisdead; 04-23-2021 at 06:46 PM.
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