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    Such bad dreams
    Such creepy life
    So many earlier good dreams but bad ones taking form
    No duas gets answered
    24/7 mental Tortures
    Feels being mocked by a Powerful God
    Don't even feel like doing Salaah!

    Ruqya rule outs,don't start with sihr jinn rhetoric
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    Re: Hopeless for hereafter.Only hell awaits me

    Asalamu alaykum

    Vitamin B6 helps produce Serotonin (the happy hormone)

    You might be deficient in that.
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    Re: Hopeless for hereafter.Only hell awaits me

    Yes.Youre right,this is
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    Re: Hopeless for hereafter.Only hell awaits me

    Peace be with you SoldierAmatUllah;

    Such bad dreams
    You have virtually no control of what goes into your mind. But once you have those thoughts in your mind, then you DO have choices in what you can do with them.

    format_quote Originally Posted by SoldierAmatUllah View Post
    Feels being mocked by a Powerful God
    I have read through the 99 names of Allah many times, nowhere does it say that Allah mocks the afflicted. Allah cares for all of his creation, so maybe reflect on the 99 names of Allah to see who Allah really is. Then you have other choices in what you think Allah is doing.

    format_quote Originally Posted by SoldierAmatUllah View Post
    No duas gets answered
    I think Allah answers prayers in ways that help us towards eternal salvation, rather than solve problems in this life. If you prayed for a new job, that might help you earn money, but how will that help you find eternal salvation? Could the following prayer be a clue as to how Allah answers prayers?

    I asked for Strength.........
    And Allah gave me Difficulties to make me strong.
    I asked for Wisdom.........
    And Allah gave me Problems to solve.
    I asked for Prosperity.........
    And Allah gave me Brain and Brawn to work.
    I asked for Courage.........
    And Allah gave me Danger to overcome.
    I asked for Love.........
    And Allah gave me Troubled people to help.
    I asked for Favours.........
    And Allah gave me Opportunities.

    I received nothing I wanted
    I received everything I needed
    My Prayer has been answered.

    May Allah bless you with wisdom, strength, peace and serenity on your journey through life.
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    Re: Hopeless for hereafter.Only hell awaits me




    Somehow affected by a sufi friend, came the words:

    O broken soul, if only you didn't complain, you'd find great solace & remedy, in the medicine of nawafils like that of dhikr, estegfar and salawat; when reciting with the language of joy, that land in the Court of Allah, it's plead isn't ignored, but answered by Allah in dunya, akhirah or both.

    As with "dunya" work, we must put time and be productive religious efforts to.

    Often when we are crushed like flowers, new smells of self actualisation and prayers emerge.

    After hardship there comes relief.

    https://www.abuaminaelias.com/everyt...-and-hardship/

    We need knowledge and efforts and after some time there comes wisdom and understanding-as you would not touch the hot kitchen plate again or won't sleep at work not getting tasks done.
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    Re: Hopeless for hereafter.Only hell awaits me

    السلام عليكم sister,

    May Allah make your affairs easy and keep you steadfast upon the Straight Path, Ameen. I would like to remind you of the positive words you wrote here:
    I lost my Sanity But I love my Rabb Allah Always♡

    Hardships will come and go, but what is important is to never lose hope and to never think negatively of Allah سبحانه وتعالى.

    I lost my Sanity But I love my Rabb Allah Always♡
    Bismillah Alhamdulillah, As Salaam u Alaikum Wa RahmatUllah, I'm here to retract the words i said yesterday regarding my trials After I posted that mes...
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    Re: Hopeless for hereafter.Only hell awaits me

    Thanks everyone for the motivation & good advices.

    Alhamdulillah,my situation is actually getting better but the topic of hereafter is very scary for me as I have had paranormal things going on in my life since a
    long time.

    I'm tired & yet happy...just started with my consultancy for the Corporate sector & always enjoying work Alhamdulillah

    It's hell & remnants of Religious OCD that causes this pain...plus it was always in dreams the good & bad about my life - with good dreams being prominent too.

    I work for strong mental health & this IB is a place where I get myself uphill for a productive life!

    Thank you all brothers & sisters!


    JazakAllah hu khayr
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    Re: Hopeless for hereafter.Only hell awaits me

    What you can do is make a list of all the teachings in Islam about the Mercy of Allah سبحانه وتعالى and which inspire hope in the believer. So whenever you feel the aspect of fear is becoming too much you can read the list from time to time. Islam is about balance; going to extremes in one thing (such as fear) is not right. In the Qur’an, these two aspects of fear and hope are often mentioned alongside each other and in that is a lesson for us.
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    format_quote Originally Posted by SoldierAmatUllah View Post
    Such bad dreams
    Such creepy life
    So many earlier good dreams but bad ones taking form
    No duas gets answered
    24/7 mental Tortures
    Feels being mocked by a Powerful God
    Don't even feel like doing Salaah!

    Ruqya rule outs,don't start with sihr jinn rhetoric
    Assalamualaikum

    1) If you are not married, get married
    2) Or make some sincere friends or join any local wellness group (not online)

    This is a sign of depression and being with good people surrounding you will help it overcome.
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    format_quote Originally Posted by wealthbuilder View Post
    Assalamualaikum

    1) If you are not married, get married
    2) Or make some sincere friends or join any local wellness group (not online)

    This is a sign of depression and being with good people surrounding you will help it overcome.
    Walaikum As Salaam,
    Marriage doesn't happen- we see good dreams even of this perfect guy but until now,No.Others who want to,don't fit what i want.Majority times,i feel so terrified of Allah if anyone approaches me online & it becomes a headache I'm 34 now & keeps getting feels it will be worth...but I'm dying outta pain.Imaan finished,out of sadness,extreme flaring punishments etc.

    Just no opening
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    format_quote Originally Posted by SoldierAmatUllah View Post
    Walaikum As Salaam,
    Marriage doesn't happen- we see good dreams even of this perfect guy but until now,No.Others who want to,don't fit what i want.Majority times,i feel so terrified of Allah if anyone approaches me online & it becomes a headache I'm 34 now & keeps getting feels it will be worth...but I'm dying outta pain.Imaan finished, out of sadness, extreme flaring punishments etc.

    Just no opening


    There are many ways to get married. You don't need to find a guy online. I suggest you join some local Muslim Groups. Make friends. Share your thoughts on getting married. Don't hurry but try to find good people and observe their family habits. InshaAllah you will definitely find a guy. I am confident, that even the intention of getting married and make small moves towards it, will ease your pain inshaAllah

    Nowadays, there are many local facebook groups. You can post your profile and you will inshaAllah get good queries. Talk to them and you should find someone.
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    Please read my post again.Im saying something else as if it's not in qadr...we have tried all
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    format_quote Originally Posted by SoldierAmatUllah View Post
    Please read my post again.Im saying something else as if it's not in qadr...we have tried all
    I have clearly read your post. What I mean to say is, don't lose hope. Please try again. I don't say people to be positive, but be practical. Start listening to les brown : https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4-wMplMwe6k
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    format_quote Originally Posted by wealthbuilder View Post
    I have clearly read your post. What I mean to say is, don't lose hope. Please try again. I don't say people to be positive, but be practical. Start listening to les brown : https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4-wMplMwe6k

    Thanks.I hataken all means.Its always a No from Allah in my dreams,Istekhara & real life


    Seems like my dreams would be true- because I got to submit to Allah.

    Hopefully i get married with a good guy soon InshaAllah
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