23 Jumadul Ula 1436
15 March 2015
Sunday يوم الاحد
Abdullah bin Umar رضي الله عنهما narrates that :
Rasulullaah (صلي الله عليه و سلم) said,
“Do not talk excessively (unnecessarily), unless you are engaged in Dhikr because excessive talk hardens the heart and it is the hard heart that is furthest from Allaah.”(ترمذي)
25 Jumadul Ula 1436
17 March 2015
Tuesday يوم الثلثاء.
Ibn Umar رضي الله عنهما said:
The Messenger of Allah (صلي الله عليه و سلم) said,
"A person should not enter into a transaction when his brother has already negotiated, nor should he make a proposal of marriage when that of his brother is pending, except with the permission of the latter." (Bukhari and Muslim)
There are two parts to this hadeeth. It appears on the surface it is talking about 2 separate things?
The first being about commerce, ie not to what is prevalent in today's world people will 'steal' other people's customers..(not the best of examples)..
The second is about marriage (of course).
There is an unwritten tradition here where the eldest 'needs' to get married before the younger siblings. If a younger one wants to get married before the the elder, he/she asks permission. Mostly it is granted. I think it is out of respect.
As long as my heart does beat, I shall live, not lie
For when my heart does stop its beat, with truth, I die.
There are two parts to this hadeeth. It appears on the surface it is talking about 2 separate things?
The first being about commerce, ie not to what is prevalent in today's world people will 'steal' other people's customers..(not the best of examples)..
The second is about marriage (of course).
There is an unwritten tradition here where the eldest 'needs' to get married before the younger siblings. If a younger one wants to get married before the the elder, he/she asks permission. Mostly it is granted. I think it is out of respect.
It's two different examples of the same concept.
1. Not to make an offer of sale whilst somebody else has tendered or made an offer
2. Not to offer a proposal in marriage whilst somebody else has requested the hand already.
In essence don't take an interests in what somebody else has shown interest in unless you take his permission.
29 Jumadul Ula 1436
21 March 2015
Saturday يوم السبت
Nabee صلي الله عليه و سلم has said :
Traders will be gathered on the Day of Judgement as transgressors, except those who feared Allāh(in their dealings), were righteous [in their oaths], and spoke the truth(ترمذي)
This is for the Singleton Brothers, who think they living such a Great life/They don't need or want to get married ...
they don't know what they're missing,
The Prophet told "Umar, shall I tell you the best a man can treasure?It is a good wife. If he looks at her, she gives him pleasure; if he orders her, she obeys; and if he is away from her, she remains faithful to him".
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told "Umar, shall I tell you the best a man can treasure? It is a good wife. If he looks at her, she gives him pleasure; if he orders her, she obeys; and if he is away from her, she remains faithful to him".
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