I was good friends with a girl who is now 17, from when I was 5 to when I was 8, and she was my first crush..... when I was 8 I moved...I saw her a few more times until I was 10, but then stopped talking to her because I stopped seeing her and because later we started puberty and she wasn't allowed to talk to boys.....(but I did she her photos online, so I know that she is still beautiful) I tried sending her a letter in the mail, but it turns out I had sent it to the wrong address, and couldn't find her new one, and so I tried talking to her over the phone but her dad wouldn't let her (keep in mind I was going to alternative school at this time, where there was only one girl who was a kaafirah and who I didn't like, and my crush's dad was an imam) I dream of marrying her after I get my bachelor's degree and a well paying job, by first getting her wali's permission, then talking to her over skype, and then if we like each other and and she still has good piety and character, she moves to my city and we get married.....and I often have dreams about her, and I often cuddle with my pillow and pretend it's her........and talk to it as an imaginary friend......
All of those known as the "Cape Malays" were taken to SA as slaves from places like Malaysia, Indonesia, Madagascar, and even India. South Africa was basically where all the slaves were taken. Or rather, where people were brought to be made into slaves. That plan failed spectacularly, though.
He is Allah, other than whom there is no deity, the Sovereign, the Pure, the Perfection, the Bestower of Faith, the Overseer, the Exalted in Might, the Compeller, the Superior. Exalted is Allah above whatever they associate with Him [59:23]
whoa, you talk to the pillow? cute naat, seriously tho - rep coming for sharing that, very insightful personal pet-foolery with us.
And yes - it's romantic, except only you know what you are doing - she doesn't. Call it "romantic fantasy", with a "plan".. yeah, call it that.
Not quite sure if its better than cheesecake though.
Scimi
what's with this talk about cheesecake??? I don't get it....and yes, only I know what I'm doing.....if only I could read minds......if only I could at least ask her.....she could hate my guts for all I know!!!!! or not even know I exist....which is the more likely scenario.... Several months ago, I had a girl's brother ask her if she liked me....he later came back saying she didn't, and told me online....but he could have been lying.....why do we have to beat around the bush!!!!!!!!
format_quote Originally Posted by Huzaifah ibn Adam
Mustafa16 is now 17, isn't he? He should be Mustafa17.
don't know how to change my profile name, and I don't want to change every year.....too lazy.... or just want 16 to be remembered as the age at which I joined..
Bro What are those good activities you fill your time with?
I still am in special education, so I get two five minute walks every school period with my paraprofessional....I also do research on the internet, walk around and think at home, try in vain to come up with my ideology, and do zikr occasionally, and also watch the Andy Griffith Show, and SpongeBob.......so yeah, not a whole lot....ima need more hobbies....
don't know how to change my profile name, and I don't want to change every year.....too lazy.... or just want 16 to be remembered as the age at which I joined..
format_quote Originally Posted by Huzaifah ibn Adam
You could change your name to "Mustie".
And just like that, we're back to where he needs a shower.
mus·ty
ˈməstē/Submit
adjective
having a stale, moldy, or damp smell.
"a dark musty library filled with old books"
synonyms:moldy, stale, fusty, damp, dank, mildewy, smelly, stuffy, airless, unventilated; informalfunky
"the room smelled musty"
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1920-25, Americanism; euphemistic shortening of Jesus
Reading comprehension...
format_quote Originally Posted by Aaqib
Well that's back in the 1920s, it's common sense to know "Jeez!" is just an expression.
Do you see anyone saying "Jeez (pbuh) will be coming back to the dunya, only Allah knows when he will kill Dajjal"?
It originated in America sometime between 1920-1925, and is still used today.
Since you couldn't grasp it the first 2 times, I don't expect you to this time either.
Furthermore:
Rasul Allah (sal Allahu alaihi wa sallam) said: “Whoever does not argue when he is in the wrong will have a home built for him on the edge of Paradise. Whoever avoids it when he in the right will have a home built for him in the middle of Paradise.” [Tirmidhi]
I was good friends with a girl who is now 17, from when I was 5 to when I was 8, and she was my first crush..... when I was 8 I moved...I saw her a few more times until I was 10, but then stopped talking to her because I stopped seeing her and because later we started puberty and she wasn't allowed to talk to boys.....(but I did she her photos online, so I know that she is still beautiful) I tried sending her a letter in the mail, but it turns out I had sent it to the wrong address, and couldn't find her new one, and so I tried talking to her over the phone but her dad wouldn't let her (keep in mind I was going to alternative school at this time, where there was only one girl who was a kaafirah and who I didn't like, and my crush's dad was an imam) I dream of marrying her after I get my bachelor's degree and a well paying job, by first getting her wali's permission, then talking to her over skype, and then if we like each other and and she still has good piety and character, she moves to my city and we get married.....and I often have dreams about her, and I often cuddle with my pillow and pretend it's her........and talk to it as an imaginary friend......
You know what you seem to be going around in circles and if I'm honest your posts are getting boring and off topic. You should be ashamed of yourself because you are openly declaring your wrong doings in front of everyone. Life is very serious and the most important matter should be deen and you going out and seeking it not girls. Spending your time on such inappropriate matters is just wasting your time and ours and it is taking you further away from your creator. You need to not ignore the good advice everyone is giving you as this matter is not a joke. You need to build a strong relation with your creator and spend your time in worship instead of indulging in haraam thoughts. I suggest when you turn 18 get your parents to find you a practicing sister and get married as I can't see you lasting much longer.
You know what you seem to be going around in circles and if I'm honest your posts are getting boring and off topic. You should be ashamed of yourself because you are openly declaring your wrong doings in front of everyone. Life is very serious and the most important matter should be deen and you going out and seeking it not girls. Spending your time on such inappropriate matters is just wasting your time and ours and it is taking you further away from your creator. You need to not ignore the good advice everyone is giving you as this matter is not a joke. You need to build a strong relation with your creator and spend your time in worship instead of indulging in haraam thoughts. I suggest when you turn 18 get your parents to find you a practicing sister and get married as I can't see you lasting much longer.
Our good brother Mustafa is on the autism spectrum and as such, is prone to becoming fascinated or latched on to one thing or another that can change from day to day. To our brother, this is all quite serious. We give him some very kind ribbing because we love him as a brother, but we do also understand his special situation. We always give our best advice but that need for advice will change frequently. Insha'Allah he can use it in the future.
Our good brother Mustafa is on the autism spectrum and as such, is prone to becoming fascinated or latched on to one thing or another that can change from day to day. To our brother, this is all quite serious. We give him some very kind ribbing because we love him as a brother, but we do also understand his special situation. We always give our best advice but that need for advice will change frequently. Insha'Allah he can use it in the future.
Jeez, guy, lighten up. Everybody here is having fun but you.
Despite your attempt to annoy, I stand by my prior reply!
Rasul Allah (sal Allahu alaihi wa sallam) said: “Whoever does not argue when he is in the wrong will have a home built for him on the edge of Paradise. Whoever avoids it when he in the right will have a home built for him in the middle of Paradise.” [Tirmidhi]
That is a strange passage for you to quote, since you seem to be the only one here without a sense of humor. Let it go; allow yourself to have a little fun.
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or not even know I exist....which is the more likely scenario.... 
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