I was good friends with a girl who is now 17, from when I was 5 to when I was 8, and she was my first crush..... when I was 8 I moved...I saw her a few more times until I was 10, but then stopped talking to her because I stopped seeing her and because later we started puberty and she wasn't allowed to talk to boys.....(but I did she her photos online, so I know that she is still beautiful) I tried sending her a letter in the mail, but it turns out I had sent it to the wrong address, and couldn't find her new one, and so I tried talking to her over the phone but her dad wouldn't let her (keep in mind I was going to alternative school at this time, where there was only one girl who was a kaafirah and who I didn't like, and my crush's dad was an imam) I dream of marrying her after I get my bachelor's degree and a well paying job, by first getting her wali's permission, then talking to her over skype, and then if we like each other and and she still has good piety and character, she moves to my city and we get married.....and I often have dreams about her, and I often cuddle with my pillow and pretend it's her........and talk to it as an imaginary friend......
Confused........ you want to marry a kafiraah? A kafiraah may have character, but someone who doesn't believe in the Oneness of Allah / Tawheed and Al-Islam, can never be pious, aslong as she is in that state.
Edit: I am more confused now. Is she Muslim?
Allahu alam.
Meaning of Shirk according to The Qur'an
" Worshipping anyone or anything besides Allah " or " distributing anything exclusive to Allah, to anyone or anything else "
Meaning of Tawheed according to The Qur'an Worshipping none but Allah. Affirming whatever is exclusive to Him, Him alone.
Confused........ you want to marry a kafiraah? A kafiraah may have character, but someone who doesn't believe in the Oneness of Allah / Tawheed and Al-Islam, can never be pious, aslong as she is in that state.
Edit: I am more confused now. Is she Muslim?
Allahu alam.
no, I'm saying in my alternative High school there was only one girl, and that was a kafirah, but in the mean time I didn't like her, I liked my childhood friend, who was a Muslimah
Train more. Maybe get into weightlifting (strong man weightlifting is good). Spend more time doing productive things.
It's like this:
If you don't fill your time up with good, Shaytaan will fill it up with evil. If you don't fill your mind up with good, Shaytaan will fill it up with evil.
Confused........ you want to marry a kafiraah? A kafiraah may have character, but someone who doesn't believe in the Oneness of Allah / Tawheed and Al-Islam, can never be pious, aslong as she is in that state.
Edit: I am more confused now. Is she Muslim?
Allahu alam.
brother how did you come to that conclusion? all I was saying was there was nobody in my school who I could admire because there was only one girl and I didn't like her, partly because she was a kaafirah, I just didnt like her, and because I liked my childhood friend (a Muslim girl)
May Allah give you what is best .Focus on yourself first and never ever fall in love before marriage because once you do its very difficult to turn away. You do not want to fall into that sin . Stay far away from this.
I get the bit about the one girl in your school not being the one you grew up with. Even so, I'm losing count; isn't this your third crush this week? Jeez, guy, take a cold shower!
Someone said to the Prophet, "Pray to God against the idolaters and curse them." The Prophet replied, "I have been sent to show mercy and have not been sent to curse." (Muslim)
I get the bit about the one girl in your school not being the one you grew up with. Even so, I'm losing count; isn't this your third crush this week? Jeez, guy, take a cold shower!
He is Allah, other than whom there is no deity, the Sovereign, the Pure, the Perfection, the Bestower of Faith, the Overseer, the Exalted in Might, the Compeller, the Superior. Exalted is Allah above whatever they associate with Him [59:23]
It does not sound romantic.... it sounds like a normal healthy young boy infatuated with a girl. It happens. But know that you are still way too young to fully understand your raging hormones and it effects on your emotions.
Bro Mustafa16 has a type of autism, so it might explain his infatuation and strong focus on each of these girls, oh and he's a boy lol.
To be honest bro, you're only infatuated with the idea of being with a girl, and it seems to be any girl at that. Focus your energy on something that will benefit you NOW. Daydreaming will not get you far and no girl you're interested in will be ready to get married or will be guaranteed to be married to you. Also you're going from one girl to the next, I don't think any girl would like to be the object of your affection knowing that she can be totally forgotten about when the next girl comes along loool.
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OMG, you're right!
"OMG" look you did it again you silly atheist you.
1920-25, Americanism; euphemistic shortening of Jesus
Reading comprehension...
Ah, you've been called out on this before? Can't really tell based on your reply. You know what they say, sarcasm doesn't travel well on the internet.
My native language is English, and my native culture is North American. I see no reason to edit or censor my life-long vocabulary to suit someone else's idea of how I should express myself. For that matter, I have been known to cross myself in both the Roman and Eastern manner (I've never belonged to either religion), as well as curse in both French and German(I've never been to either country, unless you count Quebec). I'm even circumcised, although no one asked my opinion ahead of time.
BTW, here's one from New England: "Jeesum Crow!" I learned that one while living in Vermont; do I have to stop saying it because I now live in Michigan?
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