It is desirable for the husband and wife to pray 2 rakaat together on their wedding night.This has been narrated from the earliest generation of Muslims, as in the following 2 narrations:
First:
On the authority of Abu Sa'eed Mawla Abu Asyad who said: "I got married while I
was a slave. I invited a number of the companions of the Prophet, among them was Ibn Mas'ood, Abu Dharr and Hudhaifa. When the prayer was called, Abu Dharr began to step forward when the others said to him: 'No!' He said: 'Is it so?' And they said: 'Yes.' Then, I stepped forward and led the prayer though I was a slave possessed.
They taught me, saying: 'When your wife comes to you, pray 2 rakaat. Then, ask Allaah for the good ofthat which has come to you, and seek refuge in Him from its evil. Then it is up to youand it is up to your wife.'" [Ibn Abi Shaibah and 'Abdur-Razzaaq]
Second:
On the authority of Shaqeeq who said: "A man named Abu Hareez came and
said: 'I have married a young girl, and I am afraid that she will despise me.'
'Abdullah ibn Mas'ood said to him: "Verily, closeness is from Allaah, and hatred is from Shaitaan,who wishes to make despicable that which Allaah has allowed. So, when your wifecomes to you, tell her to pray behind you 2 rakaat.'"
In another version of the same story, "'Abdullah went on to say: 'And say: 'O Allah give Your blessings on me in my wife,and to her in me. O Allaah join us together as long as You join us in good, and split usapart if You send to us that which is better.'" [Ibn Abi Shaibah and at-Tabaraani and 'Abdur-Razzaaq: Saheeh].
It is natural that a Muslim woman who does not mix with men would not wish to shake hands with anyone who is not her mahram, in accordance with the teaching and example of the Prophet (PBUH). Bukhari reports that `A'ishah (May Allah be pleased with her) said:
One of the rulings of Islam concerning women is that a woman should not travel without a mahram, because travel is full of dangers and hardships and it is not right for a woman to face all this alone, without a mahram to protect her and take care of her MORE:https://www.aminullah.org/2021/05/Mu...th-Mahram.html
Muslima! She Does Not Travel Except With a Mahram
woman should not travel without a mahram because travel is full of dangers and hardships Muslima! She does not travel except with a mahram Hadith Bukh...
Re: Muslima! She Does Not Travel Except With a Mahram
This is one reason why my mother never allowed me to go shopping even to a 30min drive grocery mall w/o her, my dad or by brother. But the wisdom behind this is good anyway.
Re: Muslimah! She Moes Not Shake Hands With a Non-mahram Man
I always keep this in mind. Currently, i'm the only Muslim woman in my department, the rest being men and non muslim women. So many reservations to observe for myself.
Re: Muslima! She Does Not Travel Except With a Mahram
Aoa. So hazrat safiya, prophet's aunt was wrong to go without a mehram to protect other Muslim women and children and killed a jew? What about Aeysha r.a who waged a war against Ali, without a mehram? Or Umar and his wife? She used to go to the mosque at night and in the morning before Umar?
In Islam, there is no room for courtship and dating. Islamic teachings prohibit all forms of premarital intimacy, including taking a boyfriend or girlfriend (Surah An-Nisa: 25). It is strongly recommended for a Muslim woman to cover up her face in front of non-mahram men. Only under certain exceptions (such as a marriage proposal or medical treatment or witness in the court, etc.) are women allowed to display their faces in front of men. Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) said in one tradition: MORE:https://www.aminullah.org/2021/05/Co...ital-Love.html
As for women covering their face according to verified hadith in Al Bukhari
Volume 2, Book 26, Number 589:
Narrated 'Abdullah bin Abbas :
Al-Fadl (his brother) was riding behind Allah's Apostle and a woman from the tribe of Khath'am came and Al-Fadl started looking at her and she started looking at him. The Prophet Mohammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam turned Al-Fadl's face to the other side. The woman said, "O Allah's Apostle! The obligation of Hajj enjoined by Allah on His devotees has become due on my father and he is old and weak, and he cannot sit firm on the Mount; may I perform Hajj on his behalf?" The Prophet
Mohammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam replied, "Yes, you may." That happened during the Hajj-al-Wida (of the Prophet Mohammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam ).
Prophet Mohammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam didn't tell the woman to cover her face .
Proves that its not compulsory for women to cover their face its a choice
A Muslim women complete body should be covered the only part that can be seen are face and hands up to wrist
Sheikh Nasirudeen Al-Albani has written a book entitled "HijabulMaraatilmuslim on this very topic
Another example during hajj women don't wear face covering if it was fard they would
Now lets suppose a kid with her mother goes out to market / bazaar and all women are covering their face
the kid gets lost how would he identify even his own mother without screaming for her
When faces are covered all women wearing the similar black abaya
since its covid era i had to wear the mask i realized its barely breathable / heat imagine how a women would feel wearing a covering all the time on face
covering the face is optional / choice
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The siwak is a natural twig fortified with natural minerals that help clean the teeth, other inhibitors that prevent gums from bleeding, cleaning agents that kill microbes and germs and a scent that gives breath a naturally fresh smell. The siwak is an ideal, natural brush that has been endowed with more than any artificial toothpaste could ever have READ:https://www.aminullah.org/2021/05/si...our-teeth.html
Siwak: Preventive Medicine for Your Teeth
natural minerals that help clean the teeth kill microbes and germs Treatment In Islam Siwak Preventive Medicine for Your Teeth naturally fresh smell...
Making Wudhuu After Sex Before Sleeping Or Tayammum In A State of Janaba Instead of
MAKING WUDHUU' AFTER SEX AND BEFORE SLEEPING
It is best for husband and wife not to sleep after having sex until they first perform
wudhuu'. There are various hadith about this, among them:
First: On the authority of 'Aa'shah who said: "Whenever the Prophet wished to sleep or eat while in a state of Janaba (i.e. after having sex and before bathing), he would wash his private parts and perform wudhuu' as for prayer MORE:https://www.aminullah.org/2021/05/Ma...ad-Wudhuu.html
She Feels a Sense of Responsibility For the Members of Her Family
The responsibility of the Muslim woman for the members of her family is no less, in the sight of Allah (SWT), than that of the man. Her responsibility is in fact even greater than a man's, because of what she knows of the secret life of her children who live with her most of the time: they may tell her things that they do not tell their father. The Muslim woman feels this responsibility every time she hears the words of the Prophet (PBUH):
"Each of you is a shepherd and each of you is responsible for his flock. The leader is a shepherd and is responsible for his flock; a man is the shepherd of his family and is responsible for his flock; a woman is the shepherd in the house of her husband and is responsible for her flock; the servant is the shepherd of his master's wealth and is responsible for it. Each of you is a shepherd and is responsible for his flock MORE:https://www.aminullah.org/2021/06/Sh...er-Family.html
Firstly, a husband must overcome his shyness enough to actually look at his wife, and pay attention to her. If he cannot bring himself to follow this sunna, it is an insult to her, and extremely hurtful. Personal intimacy is a minefield of opportunities to hurt each other - glancing at the watch, a yawn at the wrong moment, appearing bored, and so on. A husband's duty is to convince his wife that he does love her - and this can only be done by word (constantly repeated word, I might add - such is the irritating nature of women!), and by looking and touching.
Now, every man knows what sexual things please him - but some men, particularly those who have not been married before and are therefore lacking experience, don't seem to know much about how to give the same pleasure to the woman; even worse, some men do know but they can't be bothered to make the effort. Yet this is vital if a marriage is to succeed and not just be a disappointing burden for the woman, and it is a vital part of one's Islamic duty. it is not acceptable for a Muslim man just to satisfy himself while ignoring his wife's needs. Experts agree that the basic psychological need of a man is respect, while that of a woman is love. Neither respect nor love are things that can be forced - they have to be worked for, and earned. The Prophet (s) stated that in one's sexual intimacy with one's life partner there is sadaqa: MORE:https://www.aminullah.org/2021/07/Ho...to-Sadaqa.html
Siwak has 19 beneficial ingredients in it. Most important among them are:
Antibacterial acidic inhibitors that fight decay and diarrhea. They are natural disinfectants and can be used to stop bleeding. They disinfect the gums and teeth and close any microscopic cuts that may have existed in the gums. On first usage, the siwak will taste harsh, and maybe even burn, because of a mustard-like substance found in it, but this is the ingredient that fights decay in the mouth and kills germsSiwak has 19 beneficial ingredients in it. Most important among them are:
Antibacterial acidic inhibitors that fight decay and diarrhea. They are natural disinfectants and can be used to stop bleeding. They disinfect the gums and teeth and close any microscopic cuts that may have existed in the gums. On first usage, the siwak will taste harsh, and maybe even burn, because of a mustard-like substance found in it, but this is the ingredient that fights decay in the mouth and kills germs... More:https://www.aminullah.org/2022/02/Be...-of-Siwak.html
Health Benefits of Siwak: Dental Health and the Miswak
"Good dental health is more than the absence of disease or tooth decay in your mouth," says David Kennedy, DDS and author of How to Save Your Teeth (Kennedy, pg.3). "It is an integral part of your well being. People with exceptionally healthy bodies usually have healthy teeth and gums." Teeth are also a blessing from Allah. It is said that, "If the eyes are a window to the soul then the mouth is the doorway to the body"
Teeth play an important function in the digestive process. They are important in helping people to speak and in upholding one's facial structure. Without teeth, nobody would be able to say anything comprehendible, if at all. Without teeth you would have to swallow your food without being able to chew it first, which is unhealthy for the digestive system FULL:https://www.aminullah.org/2022/02/He...th-Miswak.html
Ramadan is the month of the Quran (2:185). It is a time for connecting with the Quran through extra recitation and reflection.To help you get the best of your Ramadan recitation, keep the following tips in mind:https://www.aminullah.org/2022/03/co...n-ramadan.html
“And among His signs is this that He created for you mates from among yourselves, that ye may dwell in tranquility with them, and He has put love and mercy between your (hearts). Verily in that are signs for those who reflect.” Ar-room 30:21. Islam and Love
The Messenger of Allah salla Allahu alayhi wa sallm speaking about his wife Khadija said: “Verily, I was filled with love for her.”
Mawahdah – love/intimacy
Wa rahma – mercy
Love: The definition;
As a noun Strong and positive emotion of regard and affection, Passion, Any object of form or affection, Beloved, Dearest, Sexual love (lust and desire), Love making.
As a verb – Liking for someone; having great affection, A feeling of intense affection given freely without any restriction, Love exists in all persons either with sensibility (for all people) or passion (strongly excited or a particular person).
Ramadan is a month of spiritual revival. Allah has created one month in every year in which the devils are locked up, the doors of Paradise are open and every soul has an opportunity to reach higher levels of spirituality.
The human soul is such that our faith is constantly going up and down. The various rituals of Islam were designed to help us maintain our levels of faith and gradually increase them.
Our five daily prayers help us maintain spirituality and connection to Allah on a daily basis. Hajj allows us to completely revive our faith once in a lifetime. And in between these two, we have fasting in Ramadan to help us restore our faith on an annual basis.https://www.aminullah.org/2022/03/th...f-ramadan.html
Here are some suggestions for starting a conversation at the iftar table, beyond the usual ‘how was your day today?’ Work your way through the list - and who knows - you might come out of Ramadan learning a few new things about your loved ones! Be sure to give the person speaking your full and undivided attention when they’re speaking, and only ask questions when they’re ready. :>>>https://www.aminullah.org/2022/04/ra...rs-during.html
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