I am 17 year old boy. I have a lot of questions to ask but for now i want the answer of this particular question for now:
"Does Paradise(jannah) lie at my STEP Mother's feet???"
Note:We are a muslim family. My step mother is also a muslim woman.
We know that Paradise lies at our mother's feet. But does this thing also applied for STEP MOTHERS????
A 13 year old? Please at least speak only for YOURSELF and those of YOUR race, NOT mine! FYI, those of MY race are not only grown young adults by 12, we are also psychologically mature by then too. Being psychologically mature in and of itself is NOT however a mandatory part of being adult; it is purely only the biological factor which is the only necessary criterion.
All that nonsense about "psychological development" taking until the grand old age of 25 is nothing but atheistic kuffar pseudoscientific lies all designed to oppress people for an even longer part of their life. These new deceitful "findings" all carried out by the kuffar feminists actually more than DOUBLES what was previously understood in the not so long ago past when proper science knew that the brains of most races reaches full reason and cognition by 7 years and full adult size by 11.5 years. Again please speak for your OWN kind, NOT mine when you say "a 13 or 15 year old is still developing" because I can tell you that those of MY race would regard that as tantamount to RETARDATION rather than as a "normal part of development".
As for sex, if you are "not ok" with "a" 13 or 15 year old having sex then please keep your judgements to your OWN offspring and do not ever dare attempt to force your own prudish stifling matriarchalist standards on those of MY kind, My own fatherly standards are completely OPPOSITE to yours which is why you need to raise YOUR offspring as you see fit, and I will raise MINE as I see fit. You see, I am anti-ageist and am opposed to any kind of arbitrary "age restriction" because I regard the whole mentality of state imposed age restrictions to be not only utterly RETARDED (because they judge a person merely by their age rather than by individual merit), they are also an arrogant violation of my parental sovereignty. As the FATHER of my own offspring I have no problem with them having sex at ANY age, provided of course they are MARRIED FIRST. I believe that the earlier my daughters can be married off the BETTER it is for them.
I don't take anything you say seriously. You've said some outlandish things such as even questioning the holocaust, so yeah.
I don't take anything you say seriously. You've said some outlandish things such as even questioning the holocaust, so yeah.
Even some rabbis have questions on the facts and figures of the "holocaust" and everyone is muzzled and persecuted for questions about it. Why are they (Zionists) afraid? Maybe of the truth getting out?
What is the cause of this childish behaviour we see often? Am I wrong to say that, even if one is biologically an adult, that one's mind "is not" or is this just a side effect of teens being conditioned into thinking they are children. Because when one is treated as a kid, one does not have to account for one's responsibility.
My question is:
Is there a delay between being physically mature and mentally mature (being able to reason and judge, and choose etc)?
Meaning of Shirk according to The Qur'an
" Worshipping anyone or anything besides Allah " or " distributing anything exclusive to Allah, to anyone or anything else "
Meaning of Tawheed according to The Qur'an Worshipping none but Allah. Affirming whatever is exclusive to Him, Him alone.
What is the cause of this childish behaviour we see often? Am I wrong to say that, even if one is biologically an adult, that one's mind "is not" or is this just a side effect of teens being conditioned into thinking they are children. Because when one is treated as a kid, one does not have to account for one's responsibility.
My question is:
Is there a delay between being physically mature and mentally mature (being able to reason and judge, and choose etc)?
It all depends on the individual. Some people are physically mature and mentally mature and some are physically mature and mentally retarded and some are physically retarded but mentally mature and some are physically retarded and mentally retarded. The first group would be considered normal. The individual conditions can be affected by race, ethnicity, genetic anomalies and even diet, environment and health. So it is impossible to answer your question because there are variables about the meanings of the words you use and I. It cannot be treated like maths. Also the only objective answer would be to analyse an individual and record data about that individual as any generalization about others would be prejudice and not science.
What is the cause of this childish behaviour we see often? Am I wrong to say that, even if one is biologically an adult, that one's mind "is not" or is this just a side effect of teens being conditioned into thinking they are children. Because when one is treated as a kid, one does not have to account for one's responsibility.
It is a result of the Kaafir way of thinking, the Kaafir society, the Kaafir mindset. If a 19-year old adult believes that he is still a child and is not responsible for his actions, then he will start acting that way as well. However, if society were to treat everyone from the age of 15 the way Islaam says they should be treated, which is as adults (because they are), and held responsible for their words and their actions, they would not have the "childish" mindset.
If you look at the history of Islaam, there are so many examples of great feats and accomplishments taking place at the hands of teenagers. Why? Because as Muslims who follow Islaam, they knew and understood that they were "adults" and not "children". Take the example I gave in a previous post: Hadhrat Usaamah ibn Zayd رضي الله عنه, leading an army at the age of 15. Look at Muhammad al-Faatih of the Ottoman Khilaafah, who conquered Constantinople at the age of 17. Look at Muhammad ibn al-Qaasim: He conquered Sindh and Multan at the age of 17. He was executed by Sulaymaan ibn `Abdil Malik at the age of 19. So he only lived in this Dunyaa for 19 years, but yet he became so famous. In Pakistan, they have the holiday "Yowm-e-Baabul Islaam", which is celebrated in honour of Muhammad ibn al-Qaasim. The largest park in Sindh, "Baagh ibne Qaasim", is named after him. Port Qasim, second major port of Pakistan, is named after him. "Bin Qasim Town" in Karachi, Pakistan is named after him. "The Pakistan Naval Station Qasim", or "PNS Qasim", naval operations base for the Pakistan navy, is named after him. "Muhammad bin Qasim Road" in Karachi is named after him. "Muhammad bin Qasim Library" in Sujawal, Thatta is named after him.
He became that famous despite being killed at the age of 19. So, when a person has Imaan and when he realises the value of time, and that "adulthood" doesn't only start at 21, but rather, from the moment of Buloogh, he is able to achieve a lot.
if we this law here..there are lot of sins of mine could have never occurred in my life...men diifer with diiferrent levels of faith.behavious..urges..feelings...intelligence etc...i could have had a good life by now ....It is due to poorly build westernised society...a lot of deppression have ruined me
format_quote Originally Posted by Huzaifah ibn Adam
It is a result of the Kaafir way of thinking, the Kaafir society, the Kaafir mindset. If a 19-year old adult believes that he is still a child and is not responsible for his actions, then he will start acting that way as well. However, if society were to treat everyone from the age of 15 the way Islaam says they should be treated, which is as adults (because they are), and held responsible for their words and their actions, they would not have the "childish" mindset.
I agree with your post. However, it must also be remembered that 15 for adulthood is at the very latest and representative of only very late developers. But young adulthood should really be generally and legally recognized as beginning at 12 though. Hard to believe it now, but even in Europe in earlier more saner times 12 was recognized as the commencement of adulthood.
oKAY..NOBODY SEEMS TO BE WORRIED ABOUT MY QUESTION!!! EVERYONE IS JUST ARGUING ON THE SAME THING!!! I DIDN'T EXPECT THAT!!!!!! TOTAL WASTE OF TIME!!!!!
Going back to the OP, I think you are over thinking it a bit by questioning the technicalities.. does it apply to step mum? I see similarities to the Jews questioning the type of cow to be slaughtered. What is the intention here? A reason not to be obedient to step mum?
Your mum carried you and endured whatever to raise you, so you should be eternally indebted to that labour of love. By right, they should want the best for you. Unfortunately step mothers have been painted a bad name. It does not have to be so. I have a gem of a step mum and she wants the best for all. So, yes, we ought to be respectful of her as she is your dad's wife. And you have to look past her preferences because I see that in the way my own mum treats all her own kids, differently but the same. And it is the same with my step mum, we are all treated differently, but the same. It depends on what we put in.
As long as my heart does beat, I shall live, not lie
For when my heart does stop its beat, with truth, I die.
oKAY..NOBODY SEEMS TO BE WORRIED ABOUT MY QUESTION!!! EVERYONE IS JUST ARGUING ON THE SAME THING!!! I DIDN'T EXPECT THAT!!!!!! TOTAL WASTE OF TIME!!!!!
Obviously NO!!!, otherwise the words "step mother" would have been added. Hope that helps.
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