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    Salam from a confused convert (OP)


    Salaam brothers and sisters


    I am a revert sister who has suffered from mental illness and has lost her iman several times through this. I went through phases of belief or disbelief according to my mental state.


    I am not sure what to do, I have said shahada multiple times in my life because I apostated and then came back. I have lost my muslim contacts in my area because I have been so unstable in my past.
    Now, my mental issues have been under control for about a two year period and I want to come back into the community. But how do I do this?

    I have said shahada today, done Ghusl and prayed salat al Duhr.


    I know there's a hadith that says that when you are insane the pen is lifted (ie the sins are not recorded) but I feel very ashamed and guilty regardless.


    So what should I do now to return to the deen? I live in the Netherlands, are there any sisters here that would want to help me knowing my history?
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    Re: Salam from a confused convert

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    Quote Originally Posted by eesa the kiwi View Post
    Welcome back sister
    May Allah make things easy for you
    Salaam sis and thanks for the well wishes!

    Allah is making my situation easier by the minute.. I see very clear signs Alhamdoelilah. My mom asked me about shariah rights for women today and we talked about it for two hours, never had such an open conversation with her about and she liked it.. Maybe Allah will open a door for me and her. Jumah Mubarak

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    Re: Salam from a confused convert

    Quote Originally Posted by Kawlah View Post
    Salaam sis and thanks for the well wishes!

    Allah is making my situation easier by the minute.. I see very clear signs Alhamdoelilah. My mom asked me about shariah rights for women today and we talked about it for two hours, never had such an open conversation with her about and she liked it.. Maybe Allah will open a door for me and her. Jumah Mubarak
    Wa alaikum salam rahmatulah wa barakatu lol I'm a brother

    Alhamdulilah that's good about your mum may Allah guide her through you
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    Re: Salam from a confused convert

    Quote Originally Posted by eesa the kiwi View Post
    Wa alaikum salam rahmatulah wa barakatu lol I'm a brother

    Alhamdulilah that's good about your mum may Allah guide her through you
    ameen!!!
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