salam all, i know this may be a stupid post as tons of ppl start wearing hijab everyday but this is my first day at a new school and im the only hijabi in my year, i was really worried lol but alhamdullilah its fine and everything is going well.
Sorry for the kind of useless/stupid post
Yep exactly, im an outgoing person, i always have been, i just dont hang around with boys outside of school and dont flirt anything in school so its all good lol. I think people sometimes get suprised when they see how extroverted i am.
Yes exactly, nothing wrong with being extroverted...you are like my friend, very happy and bubbly personality but she's not a fool...won't become friends with or hang out with bunch of guys...she's not naive but I suppose there are some who are and don't seem to understand the development of relatiionship between a boy and girl.
I say stay smart until you are actually ready for marriage then you can get your family &good friends involved to hunt down a potential someone you are interested in! In the meantime, stay busy with your school work and girl friends then you won't have time to get yourself into haram relationships..ending up being centre of gossip & love triangles. I don't know why some people want to complicate ther life more with all these dramas...may be their home life is not very exciting enough, may be they are very bored and may be school work is too easy/not challenging enough. I don't know and its really none of my business and I never understood why in life other ppl make it their business to spread bad gossip about others. Unfortunately, you can't really change the nature of people although one can try. Stay focused on yourself and improving yourself and helping others, that's all you need to do in life, help people and be a good person, don't need to get involved in anything else.
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In the meantime, stay busy with your school work and girl friends then you won't have time to get yourself into haram relationships..ending up being centre of gossip & love triangles. I don't know why some people want to complicate ther life more with all these dramas...may be their home life is not very exciting enough, may be they are very bored and may be school work is too easy/not challenging enough. I don't know and its really none of my business and I never understood why in life other ppl make it their business to spread bad gossip about others. Unfortunately, you can't really change the nature of people although one can try. Stay focused on yourself and improving yourself and helping others, that's all you need to do in life, help people and be a good person, don't need to get involved in anything else.
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