help me please

Sister in faith, as a general forum mermber like tou, i am sympathetic and have personal fluctuations in my marriage and no ons is problem free jn every way. We are responsible for own deeds, actions, hence you carrying his sins is questionable. I hope other mrmbers can clarify this. A 3rd tarty like moque staff, police, council staff, womens safety unit, bullying and donestic abuse departments in police abd cuncil are a starting point to straighten your situation as well as muslimm spititual guidance in soirutual
matters from mosque staff as inficated before. Police authority may be of extra required part solution in your situation.

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No we meet before both of us whete muslim we not had an muslim wedding he and i was together beforr we became Muslim i cant look after myself because of mental health i hear voices and am very depressed i called the helpline but my husband come back in the room i had end the call

He will not pray and i am going to hell because of this

Remember.

Allah is the Most Merciful

Surah fateha conveys also about Mercy.
A transliteration is available online

Sister, please please connect with family and friends and must also seek help from qualified professionals for your situation like your adoctor, hospital nurses and health workers, social worjers, social services, police stations anx domestic abuse units and, counselling services. You must takd action and tell police everything aviut your husband actions. They can guide you in correct sources to help you morecorrectly. They can provide victim protection as you are a victim of abuse and police can stop it. Call 999 now

Take action and tell police of the abuse and that your alone and scared as it seems from your messages

Allah hafiz

Call or ask your friends or family to get police involved urgently immediateky to start to resolve this.
Yiu must not hesitate ,
Thats my personal opinion and suggestion. Call or get someone to call 999.
Do you want someone to call 999 for you

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can i go to another city ? he has all the money and i need medication he locks it away stop me from over dosing he will be angry he will hurt himself

you mean go with your husband?, you shouldn't go alone as you need looking after.

If you might overdose then that's a good thing he keeps the medicine locked up. It shows he really cares for you

It is important that you start doing your salah as that will make you a proper Muslim and it's also good for curing mental illnesses as salah brings peace to heart and mind

Sister, Call 99 and tell them about this

Why are uou still hesitant to get police to straighten this out, be sensible and vontact police soon

As salamu alaykum sister,

Cling to Islam as if it was burning coal, no matter what, never leave Islam.

If he is abusing you and forcing you to renounce Islam, then try and get out of there asap..

Idk much abt scotland, but there should be organisations that will help you.

NONE has the right to prevent you from praying to Allah, NONE.

So you don't need ANYONE'S permission for submitting yourself to Allah, and worshipping Allah.

Salamualikum wr wb Dear Sister.

A very important message to you

So your husband has become Muslim again?, that's good.

Get him to read this post so he understands his responsibility

A non Muslim man is not allowed to be husband of Muslim woman this is why when he became Christian again, an automatic divorce took place and you both are no longer man and wife. You both need to marry again to make your relationship lawful.

All that's needed is 2 Muslim male witnesses or 1 Muslim male and 2 Muslim female witnesses (who are adults and trustworthy people) and if he says to you in their presence: I marry you, and you reply back, I accept, then the marraige will be done.

And before the exchange of these words he needs to say how much he'll give you as mahr.

It is your Islamic duty to refrain from any intimacy before this remarriage.

JazakAmullah kharain. Walalykumassalaam wr wb.

PS: I think in time you will know whether he has become Muslim or not... If he doesn't become Muslim and remarry you, you have to do the right thing and leave him

If you are not willing to help yourself, how can we help you? You have to report him and the minister.
If you rely on your husband for financial support, seek other types of governmental help. I'm sure there is something available for abused women. There are even domestic shelters. Check to see what is available around you.

from what I can read - one moment he promises you to be good with you, another moment he completely abandons you and takes your medicine, and then gets angry just because you said you'd call the police.

From what I can read, he isn't someone who will help you. Stay on Islam, yes. But stay with him?

Dont you have any relatives you can live by, or get some govermnetal help? I wouldn't stay with someone who is that unstable and forbids you from praying, and is angry at you. and tries to convert you. and have you leave Islam.

Get out of there, you need help, but this guy doesn't seem to give you that. If I was you, I'd PHYSICALLY go to a nearby police station and say "I am being abused please help. I don't want to stay with this guy anymore, I need medication. "

And to ensure you never have any contact with him anymore.

he is gone and thats all i can get more meds from my dr and i can have the lock on the door changed i have no family and all my friends are christian and woulsnt understand me being Muslim and would take his side i have asked him to not came back he is staying away