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    i need help leaving my husband i need phone lines in the uk Islamic phone lines am in scotland
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    Re: help me please

    why are you leaving your husband?
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    Because he will not let me wear the hijab or pray he punches door makes holes in the doors he
    Smashed my laptop on my hand etc
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    I don't think an Islamic organisation can help you as they don't have the resources. You need to go to citizens advice beureu and they will put u up in a womens shelter
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    Re: help me please

    format_quote Originally Posted by _E_3 View Post
    i need help leaving my husband i need phone lines in the uk Islamic phone lines am in scotland
    Does it help?

    http://www.mwnhelpline.co.uk//m/
    Consult with your friends or other sources for their reliability.
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    Re: help me please

    If he's not Muslim, is oppressing and abusing you, why are you still with him? Report him and get help. It doesn't have to be from a Muslim organization.
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    Dont you have relatives ?contact them and get help.that's the. best solution
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    Re: help me please

    format_quote Originally Posted by _E_3 View Post
    Because he will not let me wear the hijab or pray he punches door makes holes in the doors he
    Smashed my laptop on my hand etc
    then you must go to any Islamic shelter and ask. your problem them .maybe they could help you.
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    Police are ready for help and have-victims helplines too
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    Do you have children?, if you do you can either get police to impose an injunction on your 'husband' so he cannot come back to your home. But you might have to tell them that he's been beating you. A 'white lie' is ok in Islam if there is no other way to get your right.

    Alternatively you can go to councils homeless person's unit and say your husband is beating you and they'll put you up in emergency temporary accommodation
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    thank you all for replying i have no children and no family all my friends are his friends too and there all christian he dont let me go out on my own am not allowed to be Muslim him and a minster keep me christian which i dont not want to be
    they say my mental health is the reason am not allowed my faith in Allah
    i love Allah and i want to be Muslim i cry every night about it am alone
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    Re: help me please

    format_quote Originally Posted by _E_3 View Post
    i need help leaving my husband i need phone lines in the uk Islamic phone lines am in scotland
    Dear Sister,
    Everything is there on this website for domestic abuse/ Violence (Scotland). Read on this website about it or just make a call on 0800 027 1234 - Lines are open 24 hours

    http://www.scottishdomesticabusehelpline.org.uk

    Please write down if you need any other psychological assistance.
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    format_quote Originally Posted by _E_3 View Post
    thank you all for replying i have no children and no family all my friends are his friends too and there all christian he dont let me go out on my own am not allowed to be Muslim him and a minster keep me christian which i dont not want to be
    they say my mental health is the reason am not allowed my faith in Allah
    i love Allah and i want to be Muslim i cry every night about it am alone
    Sister Islam is the truth from God and anyone who dies as a non Muslim burns in hell for all eternity so you have to be Muslim no matter what.

    Just run away from the house and go to nearest citizens advice beureu. I got help from them when I was teenager. They gave me bus fair and booked me into a youth hostel. I'm sure they'd send you to secure womens shelter.

    Doesn't he leave you on your own in daytime while he goes out sometime?, does he lock you in?, you have to try your best to get out and get help
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    In the meantime, as long as you believe in Islam in your heart then you'll remain Muslim, so if he is forcing you to be Christian, never renounce the belief of Islam in your heart and never embrace Christianity in your heart.

    And always pray to Allah for Him to help you. Allah listens to all
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    i talked to my husband this morning about everything he and i talked for a while he promised me he will not stop me from praying and wearing the hajab , he said he not been happy as a christian for a while he feels that he made a mistake in becoming going back to Christianity he said his family will never understand why he wants to be Muslim its he step father who made him stop being Muslim by calling him names such as terrorist and bomber he said sorry for what he did to me he said he will never do that again both me and my husband are ok we are going to a mental health group today i have a normal scarf which i can make into a hajab he has ordered me on online it gets here tomorrow i have to leave the house now but i do have the phone so id be able post

    thank you brothers and sister for the help
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    format_quote Originally Posted by _E_3 View Post
    i talked to my husband this morning about everything he and i talked for a while he promised me he will not stop me from praying and wearing the hajab , he said he not been happy as a christian for a while he feels that he made a mistake in becoming going back to Christianity he said his family will never understand why he wants to be Muslim its he step father who made him stop being Muslim by calling him names such as terrorist and bomber he said sorry for what he did to me he said he will never do that again both me and my husband are ok we are going to a mental health group today i have a normal scarf which i can make into a hajab he has ordered me on online it gets here tomorrow i have to leave the house now but i do have the phone so id be able post

    thank you brothers and sister for the help
    That's good as at least you'll be able to practice your religion.

    However it's important that he becomes Muslim again... Try to explain Islam to him and tell him he shouldn't care even if his entire family are against him as it's more important to please Allah and save oneself from hell.

    If he doesn't become Muslim within a few months then it will effect your faith in a way so get back to us and we'll tell you what to do
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    Regents park and east London mosque can be of additional help on to help from professional authorities like police, social emergency accommodation unit at most councils. Get help from as many specialist professional placs you can such law or plolice. Units and council and otters who can help in guidingbin appropriate direction too. Take action and become proactive. Btw ii am only non specialist forum member just like you are. I out of sympathy i am responding yo you only as i would get police involved to set some boundarieson his actions on you as none should not infringe your right to worship and freedom of moving about etc. Hope that helps you from a dellow simple forum member
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    This seems a bit confusing. You married someone who became 'muslim' just for marriage and then went back to becoming christian after marriage and now doesn't support you practicing your religion. Is my reading correct?
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    we married in a christian wedding before the both of us became Muslim at the same time he went back to Christianity there is someone butting in to our marriage and that is the local minster at one of the places i go for support for my mental health there groups this minster is involved in if i leave i will have no support the minster is blunt and tells me am doing this for attention and am not really Muslim am wasting peoples time etc my husband listens to him and is influencing him .
    we have to go to these groups or ill be unwell because i have no support
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    format_quote Originally Posted by _E_3 View Post
    thank you all for replying i have no children and no family all my friends are his friends too and there all christian he dont let me go out on my own am not allowed to be Muslim him and a minster keep me christian which i dont not want to be
    they say my mental health is the reason am not allowed my faith in Allah
    i love Allah and i want to be Muslim i cry every night about it am alone
    you take a good decision islam is true religion.
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