brothers...are we working to earn Allah's pleasure and company of Hoor-al-Ayn in paradise?
Apart other duties of Islam, we have to forego the beauty of women in this world (except wife). so that means no unnecessary chatting, dating, gf's, physical relations,etc.
"If one of the women of Paradise were to look at the people of this world, everything in between them would be lit up and filled with her fragrance. The veil on her head is better than this world and everything in it." [al-Bukhaari]
"al-Hoor al-'Eeyn are singing in Paradise saying, "We are the beautiful houris, we are being kept for noble husbands."" [Saheeh al-Jaami']
"And [there will be] Houris with wide lovely eyes [as wives for the pious], Like unto preserved pearls." [56:22-23]
PS: sisters feeling jealous? They should not bcoz thy will be superior to Hoors. And also by desiring hoors, their husbands will not run after other girls.
Rasûlullah :saw2: replied, "The women of this world will have superiority over the hûrs just as the outer lining of a garment has superiority over the inner lining."... "Because they performed salâh, fasted, and worshipped [Allah]. Allah will put light on their faces and silk on their bodies...".
brothers...are we working to earn Allah's pleasure and company of Hoor-al-Ayn in paradise?
Apart other duties of Islam, we have to forego the beauty of women in this world (except wife). so that means no unnecessary chatting, dating, gf's, physical relations,etc.
"If one of the women of Paradise were to look at the people of this world, everything in between them would be lit up and filled with her fragrance. The veil on her head is better than this world and everything in it." [al-Bukhaari]
"al-Hoor al-'Eeyn are singing in Paradise saying, "We are the beautiful houris, we are being kept for noble husbands."" [Saheeh al-Jaami']
"And [there will be] Houris with wide lovely eyes [as wives for the pious], Like unto preserved pearls." [56:22-23]
PS: sisters feeling jealous? They should not bcoz thy will be superior to Hoors. And also by desiring hoors, their husbands will not run after other girls.
Rasûlullah :saw2: replied, "The women of this world will have superiority over the hûrs just as the outer lining of a garment has superiority over the inner lining."... "Because they performed salâh, fasted, and worshipped [Allah]. Allah will put light on their faces and silk on their bodies...".
hoors r amazing. women of this dunya need to realise tht a man likes someone who is pure... by tht i mean, who doesnt flirt with other guys, who does chat for 10 mins with the man behind the till, who doesnt shout back or nag, etc.
Women mess up the relationship (by excessivly talking to ghair mahrams they shudnt b talking to) which puts their husbands off (actually it ticks them off BIG TIME!!!) , then their husband get a natural anger tpwards their wives which makes them wana be away from them for a while...... this causes problems to the wife as she feels as if he doesnt love her anymore, when in fact she brought this horrible situation upon herself!
Stop chatting to ghair mahrams and stop complaining when u r the root problem!
sorry 4 harshness but sometimes u women need it. fear allaah and revive ur sense of gheerah, adopt womanly characteristics and behave,
if guys r talkng about the hoors then its bcz women r not behaving..... ur husband has great rights over u.... a relationship starts off all love and romance but as soon as the laughter and joy reaches hights, the women gets silly thoughts and steps beyond bounds and starts chatting to other men (which is a big KILLER!) as she is always 'happy' and has probably forgotten that her husband doesnt like it (due to excessive laughter/happiness in the relationship)....... as soon as she does tht her husband hates her (yes we hate our wives if they chat to ghair mahrams - behave urselves!)...... then he stops showing love to her..... this makes her sad...... however she is the root of her own sadness..... hence y i sed, blame no21 but urselves!
men love al hoor al ayn because they r pure and DO NOT (AND HAVE NOT) chat to other guys.......
adopt beautiful islamic morals and ur husband will love u..... break his heart and he will divorce u.... if not tht, then he will make ur life miserable... not because he wants to, but because now he doesnt love u anymore and that naturally means tht he doesnt do nice thngs 4 u..... whch wil make u sad...
just bcz ur husband dsnt say 'dnt tlk 2 other guys' it dsnt mean he is ok with it!
the prophet (saw) said tht if the husband had snot in his nose and were his wife to LICK IT off of him, EVEN THEN she wudnt have given him his rights.... recorded in the musnad of Ahmad as well as in Ar-razaaq - authenticated by albani in silsilat asaheeha.
one u have ticked him off it is VERY hard for hioim to forget it, and very hartd for him to seruously forgiv u (its the way men r)..... ur in love and ur on top of the world but that doesnt mean u shouldnt still behave!
BEHAVE with regards to ur husbands.... if he is happy then allaah is hapy and if he is angry then Allaah is angry with u.....(as the hadith states)
if he calls u to bed and u dnt respond and he passes the nigh angry with u, then the ANGELS CURSE u till he is pleased with u....
itsa not tht men love to have sexual relations, its jst tht with the fitna around them nd the natural fitna of man... he needs it....
if u prevent ur husbands from fulfilling his sexual desires with u, thn u r literally begging him to go and perve on other women!!! if u dnt dress nice and pretty for him, u r begging him to go stare at other women...... if u r always nagging him, u r begging to go find peace with other women.... dont misguide ur husbands..... once u break our heart - thats it. kiss the relationship good bye... kiss it good bye and blame no1 but urselves....
a relationship is like a glass window, onbce its broken u cant put it back together again........
hoors r amazing. women of this dunya need to realise tht a man likes someone who is pure... by tht i mean, who doesnt flirt with other guys, who does chat for 10 mins with the man behind the till, who doesnt shout back or nag, etc.
Women mess up the relationship (by excessivly talking to ghair mahrams they shudnt b talking to) which puts their husbands off (actually it ticks them off BIG TIME!!!) , then their husband get a natural anger tpwards their wives which makes them wana be away from them for a while...... this causes problems to the wife as she feels as if he doesnt love her anymore, when in fact she brought this horrible situation upon herself!
Stop chatting to ghair mahrams and stop complaining when u r the root problem!
sorry 4 harshness but sometimes u women need it. fear allaah and revive ur sense of gheerah, adopt womanly characteristics and behave,
What about the husbands that excessively talk and stare at women?
Women mess up the relationship???! You do realise there are more reasons to relationships messing up then women talking to men?
You are making blanket statements and I find them extremely sexist.
Shaytaan can lead us all away from the siraat al-mustaqeem, BOTH men and women. And we all have our faults and are surrounded with fitna regardless of our gender.
So please, don't tell only women to behave. We all need to behave and do our best to follow the islamic rules.
A married woman is half of the husband's deen. So let's respect women and admit that we are all humans with good and bad sides.
Well first of all its the right Allah has upon us since He created us and sustains us. Secondly we worship Allah because we fear the hell fire and His punishment aswell as we hope and wish for jannah and His mercy. The hoors in jannah is only one aspect of this bliss.
In short we worship Allah because we love Him and He is ar-Rahmaan.
hoors r amazing. women of this dunya need to realise tht a man likes someone who is pure... by tht i mean, who doesnt flirt with other guys, who does chat for 10 mins with the man behind the till, who doesnt shout back or nag, etc.
Women mess up the relationship (by excessivly talking to ghair mahrams they shudnt b talking to) which puts their husbands off (actually it ticks them off BIG TIME!!!) , then their husband get a natural anger tpwards their wives which makes them wana be away from them for a while...... this causes problems to the wife as she feels as if he doesnt love her anymore, when in fact she brought this horrible situation upon herself!
Stop chatting to ghair mahrams and stop complaining when u r the root problem!
sorry 4 harshness but sometimes u women need it. fear allaah and revive ur sense of gheerah, adopt womanly characteristics and behave,
bruv, dont you think your putting too much blame on the female counterparts?? Us men talk to girls too, imagine how our wives feel..
The blame is to be shared equally, and if I find my one true love on this earth, i want her to be with me in heaven (if hoors are there, its a plus).. I want my family to be there with me too. I just dont want to let go of my ties that easy. If I go to heaven or hell, it doesnt change the fact that im my mother and father's son, my sister's brother and my wife's husband (although im not one yet:P).
if guys r talkng about the hoors then its bcz women r not behaving..... ur husband has great rights over u.... a relationship starts off all love and romance but as soon as the laughter and joy reaches hights, the women gets silly thoughts and steps beyond bounds and starts chatting to other men (which is a big KILLER!) as she is always 'happy' and has probably forgotten that her husband doesnt like it (due to excessive laughter/happiness in the relationship)....... as soon as she does tht her husband hates her (yes we hate our wives if they chat to ghair mahrams - behave urselves!)...... then he stops showing love to her..... this makes her sad...... however she is the root of her own sadness..... hence y i sed, blame no21 but urselves!
men love al hoor al ayn because they r pure and DO NOT (AND HAVE NOT) chat to other guys.......
adopt beautiful islamic morals and ur husband will love u..... break his heart and he will divorce u.... if not tht, then he will make ur life miserable... not because he wants to, but because now he doesnt love u anymore and that naturally means tht he doesnt do nice thngs 4 u..... whch wil make u sad...
SO BEHAVE!
all the marital problems are not due to wife talking to other men. there are many many more reasons.
hoors r amazing. women of this dunya need to realise tht a man likes someone who is pure... by tht i mean, who doesnt flirt with other guys, who does chat for 10 mins with the man behind the till, who doesnt shout back or nag, etc.
Women mess up the relationship (by excessivly talking to ghair mahrams they shudnt b talking to) which puts their husbands off (actually it ticks them off BIG TIME!!!) , then their husband get a natural anger tpwards their wives which makes them wana be away from them for a while...... this causes problems to the wife as she feels as if he doesnt love her anymore, when in fact she brought this horrible situation upon herself!
Stop chatting to ghair mahrams and stop complaining when u r the root problem!
sorry 4 harshness but sometimes u women need it. fear allaah and revive ur sense of gheerah, adopt womanly characteristics and behave,
I think you're only taking this one sided. Like only girls make mistakes. Both make mistakes man.
It is a shame you should name yourself after imam bukhari, a complete misnomer I think for your mannerism and approach.. somehow, a few of you confuse yourselves with Omar ibn Ilkhtab or khalid ibn ilwaleed.. you really need to get off your high horse, start building up the ummah that was lost to idle men like yourselves who'd rather while their life away dreaming of pleasure that they haven't offered anything to gain all the while pointing out everyone else' shortcomings and failing to address your own .. so many ahadith are said of certain people.. those of righteous traits and deeds and mannerism, it isn't your guarantee by virtue of your gender.. How many sisters have I seen work to support their lazy husbands who can't even hold a job, give birth, cook and clean, raise children while many of you gallivant about and decide you've fallen out of love.. It isn't a hypothetical try visiting the advise and support section and read a little of life outside of your utopic dream.. good luck getting a sister to dignify you with her company, let alone 'lick your boogers'
you make me sick!
Text without context is pretext If your opponent is of choleric temperament, seek to irritate him
what is this, a bash Muslim women thread? how about we post the stories of Muslim men who flirt, fornicate, and cheat on their wives? or how about we report the stories of sexual harasment to Muslim women by Muslim men in Muslim countries?
the root problem isnt women, its stupid men like yourself, and please dont call yourself imam bukhari, call yourself imam jahil, it is more fitting for you.
what is this, a bash Muslim women thread? how about we post the stories of Muslim men who flirt, fornicate, and cheat on their wives? or how about we report the stories of sexual harasment to Muslim women by Muslim men in Muslim countries?
the root problem isnt women, its stupid men like yourself, and please dont call yourself imam bukhari, call yourself imam jahil, it is more fitting for you.
Jazaka Allah khyran..
Last edited by جوري; 12-05-2009 at 07:16 PM.
Text without context is pretext If your opponent is of choleric temperament, seek to irritate him
Easy brothers and sisters harshness never solved anything, if a person falls into error then we should correct that with softness and understanding and not name calling and being rude.
Let me tell you a story of a young boy who had learnt that greeting people on your right and left side after salah was bid'a so he went to the masjid and lo and behold after the Imaam said salam an old man next to the young boy stretched out his hand and wanted to give him salam what did the young boy do? He slapped the old mans hand and shouted this is bid'a! The old man looked at him for some time and finally said and I did not realise that the cure for bid'a was rudeness.
Be soft brothers and sisters and think of how our Prophet would react, would he have shouted at the man that came into the masjid and started urinating inside?
I asked this question here before but the thread got deleted before i got to see the answers. are such things as male hoori's...initally, i thiught there wasnt, but someting made me think that there maybe?
...desperate for husnul-khitaam...
please make dua that Allah grants me a good end (to my life). please make dua that Allah guides me.
I asked this question here before but the thread got deleted before i got to see the answers. are such things as male hoori's...initally, i thiught there wasnt, but someting made me think that there maybe?
I believe there are, sister. Check out this video if you haven't already. He touches on this issue at some point:
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"I spent thirty years learning manners, and I spent twenty years learning knowledge."
I asked this question here before but the thread got deleted before i got to see the answers. are such things as male hoori's...initally, i thiught there wasnt, but someting made me think that there maybe?
nothing about male hooris have come to us through text; so let us not speculate about it or assume things. Each woman, in Jannah, will be married either to her worldly husband, who enter into jannah with her, or another man. and Allah knows best
عن تميم بن أوس الداري أن النبي صلى الله عليه وسلم: قال الدين النصيحة ثلاثا قلنا لمن يا رسول الله قال لله ولكتابه ولرسوله ولأئمة المسلمين وعامتهم - رواه مسلم
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