Urdu Sex Stories in the Syllabus of Sex Education

[islamirama]

Urdu Sex Stories in the Syllabus of Sex Education

By Amna Gilani • Mar 14th, 2010

There are many Western non government organizations working in Pakistan in different sectors. At least I haven’t seen any of person in the Pakistan from the poor stratum of society praising the work of these NGOs, or saying that they are really doing some fine work and he or she has benefitted from their work.

These NGOs are even present in the remote areas of Pakistan. Surprisingly, a huge number of these NGOs are working in the Northern areas of the country, where people are even unaware of basic necessities of the lives. These NGOs have opened up offices there and providing these people their own version of education. To be fair to these NGOs, they are also providing food and some health care to those far flung areas, but the way some of them are educating those people is very strange and alarming given our social barriers.

Some NGOs are rendering sexual education to the children of these areas, especially around Kafiristan and Gilgit. They are doing so in the name of the sex awareness. I am not against the sex awareness among the kids, because they are exposed to some form of it from media. In this time of cable and Internet, it’s unrealistic to think that kids are not curious about the sex, but the alarming thing about sex education given by some NGOs in NA is that they are handing out printed sex stories in Urdu.

Whats’ the point?

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The point is that the enemies of Islam and Pakistan are out to destroy this society just as they have destroyed the western societies with widespread debauchery and teenage pregnancies. Helping them are the hypocrites of the country who have sold their religion for a measly portion of this duniya.

[ardianto]

There is difference between secular sex education and Islamic sex education. In example, if secular say, the best way to prevent Aids is wear condom, Muslim say, the best way to prevent Aids is not doing extra marital sex.

Those NGOs are secular NGOs from western countries, aren't those ?.
Just wondering, where are local Muslim NGOs, and what they do for educated people according to Islamic values ?.

[CosmicPathos]

Islamirama: Well there are many atheists in pakistan now .... Pakistan is doomed .... NGOs dont believe in Allah ... search for "Ghamidi" on youtube and look at the deviant students worshipping evolution and questioning Allah.

[islamirama]

No one said pakistan is 100% muslims nation. I don't need to go looking for some video and give it high hit ratings.

[Karl]

The NGO's are dangerous spies and athiest anti Islamic brain washers. No one else would be in Pakistan now in the current climate of terrorism and invasion attacks from US. These NGO's will be US backed "win the hearts and minds" infiltrators. The soft power vanguard, the West is taking over by stealth.

All NGO's are enemy spies.

BTW Teenage pregnancy is fine as long as they are married.

[Chuck]

Islamirama: Well there are many atheists in pakistan now .... Pakistan is doomed .... NGOs dont believe in Allah ... search for "Ghamidi" on youtube and look at the deviant students worshipping evolution and questioning Allah.

Which video?

[CosmicPathos]

Which video?

its a discussion on evolution "irtiqa."

[CosmicPathos]

No one said pakistan is 100% muslims nation. I don't need to go looking for some video and give it high hit ratings.

then this post doesnt make sense.

[aadil77]

There is difference between secular sex education and Islamic sex education. In example, if secular say, the best way to prevent Aids is wear condom, Muslim say, the best way to prevent Aids is not doing extra marital sex.

Bro pakistan is seriously messed up, nothing there is islamic, if you watch tv there they have adverts for condoms, think about what thats gonna promote

[ardianto]

Bro pakistan is seriously messed up, nothing there is islamic, if you watch tv there they have adverts for condoms, think about what thats gonna promote

Watch Indonesian TVs, you can see few condom ads. They do not promote their condoms as one method in family plan, but as protector when people want to 'having fun'.

Regarding to Aids, secularist promote condom as the best prevention for Aids. Their reason is "We cannot prevent people to commit extra marital sex, but at least we must prevent them infect Aids to their wives".

But Muslim activist in my place are not silent. They make counter movement, and inform people facts about Aids. In example, they inform people if Aids can infect someone through tattoo needles, injection needles that not sterile, etc. And the most important, they always remind people, the best way for prevent Aids is avoid commit adultery.

Back to people in those Pakistani provinces. It's better if they get sex education, but must Islamic sex education not secular sex education. And my question is, where are Pakistani Muslim activists ?, what are they doing in this matter ?.

[ardianto]

The NGO's are dangerous spies and athiest anti Islamic brain washers. No one else would be in Pakistan now in the current climate of terrorism and invasion attacks from US. These NGO's will be US backed "win the hearts and minds" infiltrators. The soft power vanguard, the West is taking over by stealth.

All NGO's are enemy spies.

NGO is organization that established by people for the people. This is non-profit organization.
But they need money for their activities. And later, they make a deal with other parties that can give them fund. Of course, they must do something according to direction from parties that fund them. If many NGOs are backed by west, that because west has special budget for fund NGOs.

But we don't need to antipathy to NGO. It's better if we establish more Muslims NGOs that funded by Muslim people.

BTW Teenage pregnancy is fine as long as they are married.

Not fine for their health, physical and mentally.

['Abd Al-Maajid]

There is difference between secular sex education and Islamic sex education. In example, if secular say, the best way to prevent Aids is wear condom, Muslim say, the best way to prevent Aids is not doing extra marital sex....

And what if your spouse is HIV positive...

[Al-Indunisiy]

And what if your spouse is HIV positive...

Good question. I've been wondering about that.

[ardianto]

And what if your spouse is HIV positive...

This is "IF", okay ?.

Depend on how she got HIV positive. If that was caused by blood transfusion or similar case I must be forgive her and will not divorce her. But if that was caused by something wrong, no mercy for her.

But don't ask me about, what will I do when I want ........, because my answer is "No comment".

About the statement "Muslims say, the best way to prevent Aids is not doing extra marital sex". Actually, that statement was for countering secularist propaganda "Use condom when you commit free sex for prevent you from Aids".

[revert2007]

There is difference between secular sex education and Islamic sex education. In example, if secular say, the best way to prevent Aids is wear condom, Muslim say, the best way to prevent Aids is not doing extra marital sex.

Those NGOs are secular NGOs from western countries, aren't those ?.
Just wondering, where are local Muslim NGOs, and what they do for educated people according to Islamic values ?.

We do not need to depend on NGO's to teach us about sex education and so on.Quran is the best source.If people understand the quran well and teach their children according to what Allah has ordered,there is no need for a 3rd person to teach us how to raise our child.

[ardianto]

We do not need to depend on NGO's to teach us about sex education and so on.Quran is the best source.If people understand the quran well and teach their children according to what Allah has ordered,there is no need for a 3rd person to teach us how to raise our child.

You don't need someone else to teach you how to raise your children because you have know about it. But some people in our Muslim family need someone to teach them how to raise the children because they don't know. And, should we let them ask wrong people ?. Of course not.

So, why don't we teach them how to raised their children according to Islamic way. But sometime we need a team if we cannot do something personally. This is what I mean with Muslim NGO.

[cat eyes]

teaching kids about intercourse and all these important things is something that person should know then they know how to protect themselves too however there should be certain limits on how you explain to a child about the ''birds and the bees'' as my parents use to call it:laugh:

I actually remember being very young and a boy in school started telling me about gay people. my mind could not take so much perverted information at that age. i think i was sick and confused for a week

So i think you have to be very careful how you should explain to a child about sex education

[EllyDicious]

Bro pakistan is seriously messed up, nothing there is islamic, if you watch tv there they have adverts for condoms, think about what thats gonna promote

It's better to promote condoms than get a sexually transmitted disease or an unwanted pregnancy, don't you think?

[aadil77]

It's better to promote condoms than get a sexually transmitted disease or an unwanted pregnancy, don't you think?

No I think instead of that they should promote awareness of these issues,

[cat eyes]

It's better to promote condoms than get a sexually transmitted disease or an unwanted pregnancy, don't you think?

if you tell some one about condoms though they will just have sex because they know they will be protected from these things but condoms are not 100percent protective anyways.

When i was going to school literally the teachers were handing condoms out and there was a condom machine even in the school tiolet. sex outside of marriage in islam is a sin elly and we dont want to influence our young ones