× Register Login What's New! Contact us
Results 1 to 3 of 3 visibility 1464

There are many things about married life that you haven't know

  1. #1
    ardianto's Avatar Full Member
    brightness_1
    IB Oldskool
    star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate
    Join Date
    Dec 2008
    Location
    Indonesia
    Gender
    Male
    Religion
    Islam
    Posts
    8,551
    Threads
    157
    Rep Power
    126
    Rep Ratio
    61
    Likes Ratio
    57

    There are many things about married life that you haven't know

    Report bad ads?



    For those who haven't know, let me introduce myself. I am 48 years old widower, father of two sons. I've ever married for 19 years until my beloved wife passed away in 2013. But I create this thread is not to teach about marriage. That's why I post it in General Section.

    I create this thread because I feel concerned with what I have seen in forum, which there were members who debate about marriage matters, but many of what they have written were incorrect. Not based on reality, but based on myth. And it's because they are unmarried.

    There are many things about married life which people will not understand until they experience married life by themselves. So, if you are still unmarried, don't act like you know about married life and husband-wife relation. It's better if you participate in thread about marriage with purpose to learn

    chat Quote

  2. Report bad ads?
  3. #2
    BilalKid's Avatar Full Member
    brightness_1
    IB Senior Member
    star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate
    Join Date
    Jul 2014
    Gender
    Male
    Religion
    Islam
    Posts
    826
    Threads
    193
    Rep Power
    61
    Rep Ratio
    46
    Likes Ratio
    69

    Re: There are many things about married life that you haven't know

    format_quote Originally Posted by ardianto View Post
    I create this thread because I feel concerned with what I have seen in forum, which there were members who debate about marriage matters, but many of what they have written were incorrect. Not based on reality, but based on myth. And it's because they are unmarried.
    example??
    | Likes ardianto liked this post
    chat Quote

  4. #3
    ardianto's Avatar Full Member
    brightness_1
    IB Oldskool
    star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate star_rate
    Join Date
    Dec 2008
    Location
    Indonesia
    Gender
    Male
    Religion
    Islam
    Posts
    8,551
    Threads
    157
    Rep Power
    126
    Rep Ratio
    61
    Likes Ratio
    57

    Re: There are many things about married life that you haven't know

    format_quote Originally Posted by BilalKid View Post
    example??
    There are youths who misunderstand "polygamy prevent zina" as "a man will fall into zina if he has only one wife". It's incorrect. "Polygamy prevent zina" actually refer to case which a married man and single woman fall in love. Polygamy make them can avoid extramarital relationship. But if a man has uncontrolled desire which he always attracted to random women, then no matter how much wives he have, he still can fall into zina.

    I've also found misconception in forum that if a man has beautiful wife, then he will not look at other woman. It's incorrect. Not the wife's beauty that will make the husband feel uncomfortable, but how his wife treat him. If a man has beautiful wife, but his wife always disrespect him, then he will start have an urge to find another woman who can make him feel comfortable. Probably the another woman that he choose is not beautiful.
    | Likes Regrets1, s.ali123 liked this post
    chat Quote


  5. Hide
Hey there! There are many things about married life that you haven't know Looks like you're enjoying the discussion, but you're not signed up for an account.

When you create an account, we remember exactly what you've read, so you always come right back where you left off. You also get notifications, here and via email, whenever new posts are made. And you can like posts and share your thoughts. There are many things about married life that you haven't know
Sign Up

Similar Threads

  1. Recently married and haven't stopped arguing from day one...
    By YM Usrah Umar in forum Advice & Support
    Replies: 24
    Last Post: 07-10-2015, 12:28 AM
  2. married life is not as easy and fun as i thought it would be
    By AnonymousPoster in forum Advice & Support
    Replies: 47
    Last Post: 01-14-2010, 06:35 PM
  3. Will my life change if my mum gets married ?
    By AnonymousPoster in forum Advice & Support
    Replies: 8
    Last Post: 04-28-2009, 03:30 PM
  4. Education & Married Life For a Sister
    By Rabi'ya in forum Advice & Support
    Replies: 8
    Last Post: 11-12-2005, 11:55 PM

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •  
create